minty3

@minty3 (592)

Nigeria • Age 44

Joined myLot 17 years ago

To make it? Its up to me!

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Thanks to my friends.

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58676) • Delhi, India 4 Jun 07

I started a disussion few days ago "Do you skip your breakfast". I am overwhelmed with so many responses. The number of people who responed as on date is 77. I have never received such number of responses to any of my discussions....

thanks for replying to my discussion

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minty3 what are friends for? Congrats, though i didnt respond to the discussion. Should do that if its not closed yet. Do have a nice day. cheers!

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husband's name

mizcash @mizcash (685) • Canada 21 May 07

Why do women take their husband's name? It should be either, the man should be abloe to take the woman's name if so chose and children their mother's name even when the father is present.

husbands name

name

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minty3 Hi mizcash, i'm a lady but i don't agree with you. It actually depends on what you actually mean though. Personally, i believe that women came from men and in the home a man is the head while the wife is the 'neck'. Children should take after their father's...

21 May 07

dear friends can you tell me from which places you belongs that is

christyjoy @christyjoy (73) • India 21 May 07

which state or country,it s a survey for me so that i can make out which area is more coverd by mylot -thanx

country

places

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minty3 I hail from Nigeria in Africa. Cheers! What is this survey meant to achieve?

21 May 07

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About your belief: Read and comment...

g_aileen09 @g_aileen09 (1354) • Philippines 21 May 07

"I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is. "

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minty3 Yes, i agree with you. Its too expensive to live without God only to discover after death that He lives, cos then, you'll be a great loser. Besides, if you live for God and after death you find He's not there, then, you even gain cos you've got nothing to...

21 May 07

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If your husband left took all his clothes

Akeela @Akeela (2078) • Trinidad And Tobago 10 May 07

and went and live with family members and realise he made a mistake will you take him back...

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minty3 Hi Akeela. You just said HUSBAND. So, if he's your husband, go ahead and take him back. Don't you hurt your self atimes, do you then kill yourself, no. So, accept your husband back in love and later you too can take things over and settle it. Except he's not...

10 May 07

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Lady, Can you propose marriage to a guy you love???

mypeace @mypeace (393) • Nigeria 7 May 07

l have a friend who is in love with a guy who seem not to be so interested in her, though they have been friendly for some time now. my friend is intending proposing serious relationship or even marriage to this guy. How do you...

dating

proposal

wooing

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minty3 Hi. Interesting post. I will not do it neither wil i advise anyone to do it. Its a male role- i may be wrong. But i think i'm right in my own right. Let her be patient. She could give a 'green light' to the guy, you know what i mean? But, let the guy do the...

10 May 07

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Does Age matter to you in long term relationship???

mypeace @mypeace (393) • Nigeria 4 May 07

A guy friend of mine, told me he is unknowingly dating a woman who is 7 years older than him. They didnt discuss their age when they started the relationship, but by chance he stumbled into the ladys documents that bore her age....

age and marriage

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minty3 Hi. For me, age matters in a long term relationship. Preferably, i desire that the male be older than the female because traditionally he's the head. The age-gap between this two is much wide. Except the lady did not follow the pattern of growthotherwise, i...

10 May 07

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A male or Female baby, which do you want first and why?

mypeace @mypeace (393) • Nigeria 4 May 07

I love both sexes of babies. Personally l would love my first baby to be a bouncing baby girl. l believe baby girls are more helpful in house work, and can really take care of the younger ones better than a boy child would. But...

favorite baby

sex of baby

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minty3 Hi. I love to have them both as twins if i have the privilege or blessing! However, if i have a choice, i'll love to have a baby girl first before a baby boy. This is because girl-child as they grow up are more useful when it comes to nursing their younger...

10 May 07

Having a boy friend, and fancying another.

mypeace @mypeace (393) • Nigeria 9 May 07

My friend have a problem, she has been with her boy friend for the past 3years and they are getting on well. Recently she met another guy and they began as friends, now shes madly inlove with the new guy, shes so confused. Can one...

double dating

loving two people

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minty3 Hi. Its a pity your friend is in a mess. Mess because she toying with three delicate 'HEARTS' Tell her to take a break from both relationships before she crumbles anyone and evaluate. Her joy both now and the future is very important. Real love is futuristic...

10 May 07

After Five Years of Relationship - Now Marrys Another

mypeace @mypeace (393) • Nigeria 10 May 07

This is case of a guy dating a woman for 5 years and they have concluded plans to marry. They claim to love themselves and the guy has a good paying job. Unknown to the guy that his girl has been dating and planning marriage with...

wedding invitation card

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minty3 Hi. I beg to disagree with the responses so far. Personally i will not do it. But then, from my interaction with young people (male and female), i've discovered that many enter into relationships when they're not ready for it; some enter and the relationship...

10 May 07

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Kissing a Smoker - Are you allergic to it????

mypeace @mypeace (393) • Nigeria 10 May 07

I am allergic to tobacco smoke, its chokes me up and gives me cough. l had unknowingly dated a smoker, but the day l kissed him, l got to know that he smokes and drinks from the thirst of his mouth. l just called it a quiet. Are...

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minty3 I can't stand the smell of cigarettes let alone kiss a smoker. From a distance i can tell a smoker, an alcoholic, etc and i will not make the mistake of kissing and i'll let the person know why. Its simply that i don't indulge in them and even though i can...

10 May 07

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Joint or Separate Bank Accounts?

kokopelli @kokopelli (4842) • United States 24 Oct 06

Which is better for couples/spouses?

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minty3 The tpe of account to be operated by a couple should be one of the issues to be sorted out during courtship. This is to ensure that whatver option is chosen by both party will be aaceptable on the long run. Both options for me are good depending on the mutual...

30 Apr 07

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Contradiction: II Timothy 2:25 and Titus 1:13

driedmango @driedmango (356) • Philippines 26 Apr 07

good day to all! Let us continue with the studies we are making of the verses of the Bible. And as we do so, let us find out if the Bible contains contradicting ideas. The first verse that we are citing is II Timothy 2:25,...

bible

contradiction

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minty3 Hello here. I don't know what you guys are up to in these contradiction series but i just want to chip in that the word of God is God Himself cos He says He has exalted his word above all else and none of his words will fall to the ground unfulfilled. A little...

26 Apr 07

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Do you help your friends in need?

raheel07 @raheel07 (485) • Pakistan 25 Apr 07

Do you support them or encourage them?

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minty3 Hi. I can say categorically that i'm a rallying point for almost all my friends. This is because i support, encourage, inspire, motivate, push, .... name it, just to make them achieve their maximum. Some appreciate it, some take it for granted! cheers!

26 Apr 07

TO LOVE someone who do not love U or TO BE LOVED by the 1 U do not love????

blue_gemz @blue_gemz (107) • Philippines 26 Apr 07

its a difficult situation right??? you guys, which would you choose? careful......

love

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minty3 Hi, blue_gemz. Its really a difficult situation, however, if i ever get there, i'll follow my heart at that instant! cheers!

26 Apr 07

Is it advisable to get married just because you got pregnant?

ivylrc @ivylrc (57) • United States 21 Apr 07

I got pregnant from my boyfriend my family pushed me to get married because i got pregnant, i'm not ready to get married, i know there are many cases of separated couples due to this case.. please help me..

get married

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minty3 Hi ivylrc. To answer your question, no, its not advisable to get married just because you got pregnant. When you do get married, your family will not live with your spouse; its you and you alone that will live with him and bear the outcome or consequences of...

26 Apr 07