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ravisivan @ravisivan (14079) • India 11 Sep 11

In India even today love marriages are not that common as it is in western countries. Boys and girls depend on their parents to identify the life partner. this is helping matrimonial agencies to have roaring business. Newspapers...

arranged marriage

love marriage

siuccess

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mercy In my country, arranged marriages are in lesser percentage. Marriage is a contract of lifetime commitment. How can you commit if you are not devoted to your partner? How can you become devoted if you don't love your partner? maybe others would say that in...

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rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 11 Sep 11

Until now, I cannot forget that one of the mylotters, to whose discussion I participated and expressed my views have insulted me, last week. I thought, when we participate in a discussion, we can freely express our...

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mercy It's really a sad reality that not everybody is kind enough to accept thoughts that are not in line to his/hers. However, even if our views are rejected it is still good and fulfilling to express them. You cannot force everybody to agree with your views, it...

12 Sep 11

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chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 22 Aug 11

I'd say, mine was indeed a surprise. It took me sometime to move on when my father left us for another woman... it took us several years to build ourselves back again because he never supported us in any way... it was such a...

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mercy Life is a journey and as we go on with our journey we will pass different curves, rough roads, rocky roads, and smooth roads. all we need to do is to focus ourselves to our destination. We experience different levels of struggle and success dependent on our...

23 Aug 11

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Toni @toniganzon (72533) • Philippines 18 Aug 11

A hypothetical question was once thrown to me. Would I tell my child he or she is ugly? I thought deeply on how I would approach the question. If my child is not as good looking, I wouldn't make him or her believe he or she is...

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mercy I'm still single and looking to have my own family in the right time. Mothers really see the true beauty of their kids in both in and out. Mothers see how unique their kids are. As a mother you should always have positive words to your kids. Appreciate...

18 Aug 11

Toni @toniganzon (72533) • Philippines 18 Aug 11

A hypothetical question was once thrown to me. Would I tell my child he or she is ugly? I thought deeply on how I would approach the question. If my child is not as good looking, I wouldn't make him or her believe he or she is...

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mercy I'm still single and looking to have my own family in the right time. Mothers really see the true beauty of their kids in both in and out. Mothers see how unique their kids. As a mother you should always have positive words to your kids. Appreciate whatever...

18 Aug 11

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sunnystarfish @sunnystarfish (210) • Philippines 17 Aug 11

I think when you're too nice, sometimes people get to abuse your kindness. I just don't get why there are people who act like that. Well personally I treat everyone I meet in a nice way. I always believe that each one of us is...

people

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mercy All "too" much is bad. be it a food, work, etc. To be kind to all people that you've meet is not bad however showing them too much kindness is another issue. There is a (greater) tendency that you will be taken advantage. They may abuse your kindness. Like...

17 Aug 11

Toni @toniganzon (72533) • Philippines 16 Aug 11

Reading some of the discussions here in mylot i realized that i have so many things to be thankful in life though mine is far beyond perfect. Though i have problems here and there, now and then, those are not the worst in the...

contentment

happiness

life

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mercy You are truly blessed toni. We should thankful of what God has entrusted to us, money, job, children, etc. I feel so blessed to, though i don't have some of the things that you had but i feel so blessed because all of my needs and some of my wants are...

17 Aug 11

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prue_haliwell @prue_haliwell (22) • Philippines 11 Aug 11

I have been in a fast pace relationship, got in it fast and i got out of it faster. I ended the relationship so fast that I have not realized I will be the one who'll end up weeping. I fell in love with the guy and I have not...

cry

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mercy Before, when i experience heart breaks i always look at it in positive way though it's painful. Break ups are blessings in disguise. why do i say so? first, you learn something out of it (i hope); second, you will get mature as a person in handling your...

16 Aug 11

Rosa26 @Rosa26 (2618) • United States 15 Aug 11

when do you think the world is going to end?

the end of world

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mercy nobody can tell only God knows when. however, what is important when that time comes, we can say that we made a good job and we spent our days to the to the fullest. I am a believer of God's word, and as long as we follow his words we should not be afraid...

15 Aug 11

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Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 14 Aug 11

I'm glad that i'm able to be with a wonderful person. We do have our ups and downs and at times drive each other crazy but I really do feel he is a wonderful person and the best for me. My husband spends time with me, he misses me...

with wonderful person

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mercy Yes I am. He's an answered prayer to. He's one of the best blessings i received from God. He always tries to understand me specially when i'm not in the mood. He is ver patient and he always let me feel how important i am to him. I'm talking about my...

15 Aug 11

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zhawee @zhawee (873) • Philippines 14 Aug 11

Do you think Friendship have a limit, What if , if you discover that your husband`s friend walking and kissing. Do you tell your friend that her husband cheating on her, Do you think she believed on you, or maybe your friendship...

friendship

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mercy I will! and that's the best thing to do in the situation no matter what the consequences would be. though it is hard to do it but i will do it in a way that it would be easy for my friend to understand (how? i don't know yet).

14 Aug 11

prue_haliwell @prue_haliwell (22) • Philippines 14 Aug 11

When you are in a relationship, married or not, there is a chance of having a misconduct, cheating to be precise. Why do men or women does it? Is there a reason behind it? Is it because they have fallen out of love, gotten bored...

cheating

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mercy cheating is dwelling into the temptation. why do people cheat, be it men or women? cheating will comes in when you are not fully accepting your partners personality, weaknesses and strengths, past and present, positive and negative attitudes, etc.

14 Aug 11

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 14 Aug 11

For four years I have no work. And every day I'm hoping that I can find work. our family is down and almost sold every thing. And one creditcard default one after another. From having half a million dollars worth now we are in...

down

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mercy Everything happens for a big reason. just do your part and God will do the rest. i believe before this month will end your questions will be answered.

14 Aug 11

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irfanalam @irfanalam (1) • India 1 Aug 11

Mother is one of the beautifull word in the world. If mother is available then world not started.

yes want to tag this discussion

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mercy Yes, a mother is the a very precious gift from God to each of us. she became the instrument to let us feel how God love us. She is the expression of God's love. We should always thank our mothers every single day and show them how we treasure their...

12 Aug 11

mizylover_18 @mizylover_18 (37) • Philippines 12 Aug 11

Do you believe that there is a God and have you experience God's presence in your life?

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mercy yes, definitely yes!

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r3jcorp @r3jcorp (1382) • Philippines 12 Aug 11

This news came out in the tv 2 days ago but it was rather very disturbing. A father was complaining because when he saw and inspected his newly born baby which was declared dead after giving birth, he found out that there are...

doctors

hospital

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mercy i've seen this news too. it's really sad. i think it's a demonstration of malpractice. this should be thoroughly investigated and punish those who are responsible for the "crime". there are many cases like this in the philippines.

12 Aug 11

totor_53 @totor_53 (223) • Philippines 11 Aug 11

What would be the best way to gain weight cause i feel so skinny these past years.

gain

weight

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mercy i think you have higher metabolic rate like i am. but really eating in the right time will help in gaining weight. im too skinny before when i was in college, but i gain weight now and look healthy. you may visit a doctor too, and seek advise.

12 Aug 11

kheydia @kheydia (882) • Philippines 11 Aug 11

Just know about it in fb today, she died yesterday the cause of her death is severe loss of blood in child birth, good thing that the baby survive, but i feel sad about the baby she will grow up without seeing her mother, and the...

life

tragedy

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mercy i feel sorry for your friend's untimely death. but always remember, everything happens for a reason, for whatever reasons that would be, it will be revealed once we have opened our mind. God's plan is much wider than ours. Yes, it would be sad for the baby...

12 Aug 11

kheydia @kheydia (882) • Philippines 11 Aug 11

Just know about it in fb today, she died yesterday the cause of her death is severe loss of blood in child birth, good thing that the baby survive, but i feel sad about the baby she will grow up without seeing her mother, and the...

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mercy i feel sorry for your friend's untimely death. but always remember, everything happens for a reason, for whatever reasons that would be, it will be revealed once we have opened our mind. God's plan is much wider than ours. Yes, it would be sad for the baby...

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eynjel_1988 @eynjel_1988 (330) • Philippines 11 Aug 11

Hello my dear mylotters. have you even been in a situation in which you have to make a lie but in a good cause? I mean you are commit a sin by saying a lie but then you have your own reason why you did that it is either you are...

lies

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mercy it's a dilemma to most of us. however there was an instance in the bible that a woman lied to the soldiers of Israel to save the spy of Joshua (man of God). i think it's just a matter of what our conscience is telling us. if you think that's the right thing...

12 Aug 11

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