monika_bansal

@monika_bansal (25)

India • Age 45

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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be a loving wife

willy6 @willy6 (498) • Jamaica 8 Jan 09

I believe that woman are very loving, and we know how to really show love. And times pressure of live cause us to be withdrawn, but when everything is ok we give all the love we can. At time some husband is not as loving and it...

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monika_bansal yes u r right but this is the main problem. men never understand women's love. we know that if everything is ok then we definately give full love to men as much as possible but sometimes men do some acts that we have to rethink that they misuse our love.

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By what name does your wife call you?

mercuryman3a @mercuryman3a (2477) • India 20 Oct 08

My wife has never called me by my name. initially she called me "lovey dovey" then slowly it got deformed to "Lovey" or some times "Dovey" amd then it got corrupted to "Dubby". So now the name "Dubby" sticks. She always calls me...

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monika_bansal i call my husband khusat n khadus (hindi word) because he is not romantic and miser in giving kisses

21 Oct 08

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i'm getting married on 14th oct..

saroodebolan @saroodebolan (408) • Pakistan 12 Oct 08

hello all those wifes there... my wedding cerimony is to be held on 14th oct... and i'm kind of nervous... i need you wishes and prays... coz this is the turning point of my life... do give me some advice if you have... and...

getting married

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monika_bansal my heartiest wishes are with you and i wish that you and your hubby will live together happily. I wish you have settled your honeymoon problem now.

14 Oct 08

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Do you spend a long time talking to friends whenyou meet them?

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 29 Sep 08

OH my goodness my hubby does this a lot of times. When he meet friends, he can spend an hour or more talking to them. It annoys me sometimes waiting for him. There was one time I told him that we will sleep on that place so that...

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monika_bansal i also forget time when i am with my friends but still keeping in my mind that my hubby is alone at home. Me n my hubby lives alone so he mostly try to go with his friend with his wife so i can accompany him and not get bored at home. but when he is in tention...

30 Sep 08

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loyal or not?

geisha179 @geisha179 (81) • Brunei Darussalam 28 Sep 08

do you always listen to what your husband told you to do? or do you always follow your husband's order? me, im a bit stubborn...sometimes,i do what he told me to do but sometimes if it not right for me,then i would argue with him...

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monika_bansal yes i do agree with you. i also do the same which you do. i listen to my husband but follow all his orders are not important for me. Because i cant follow the order which i think is wrong. Because i think that if you follow one of his wrong orders then he will...

28 Sep 08

Do you have a daughter?

ningyuhui2009 @ningyuhui2009 (200) • China 28 Sep 08

Do you have a daughter?If you want to have only one child ,do you want to have a son or daughter?why?

daughter

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monika_bansal till now i havent a baby but whenever i will plan i will expect a daughter because daughters are very cute. you can fulfill your wishes with your daughter. you can dress up her in many ways. daughters look more cute than boys. even my husband also very excited...

28 Sep 08

what am i supposed to do? plz help

saroodebolan @saroodebolan (408) • Pakistan 11 Sep 08

hey people... i've got a situation here... yesterday me and my husband were talking about the plans for our honey moon... he told me that his sisters' husband is making a plan to go and book pearl contenental hotel in bhurbhan (...

help

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monika_bansal hi saroodebolan i would like to suggest you that you should go alone not with your sister. honeymoon is a period which husband wife should spend together without interference of third person. if you go with your sister in law then your husband will expect that...

11 Sep 08

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What do you call your mother-in-law?

Rocketj1 @rocketj1 (6955) • United States 11 Sep 08

May be I should first say "Keep it clean, people!:)" What name do you call her by? My mother-in-law is "mom". When we were first married, I thought she might want me to call her by her first name since her other daughter-in-...

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monika_bansal In india there are so many names which u can give to ur MIL. like Ma, Mummy, MummyJi. I like to call my MIL "mummyji". i call my own mother mummy or mumma so that it becomes easy to differenciate when you are talking to someone.But when some ladies gathered...

11 Sep 08

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In your current relationship, do you tell everything to your partner?

iskayz @iskayz (5420) • Philippines 10 Sep 08

Hi everyone! Trust is very important in a relationship. Trust is also somewhat related to secrets. When you trust someone especially your partner you can tell him/her everything about your life. And if you trust...

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monika_bansal hi a good relationship is based on trust. You can live a happy and relief life life when u are open with your partner. when u dont hide anything from ur partner u live with him/her peacefully. ur mind is not puzzled from the tention that if he come to know...

11 Sep 08

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I am feeling mylot is empty

darksorrow @darksorrow (4666) • Bangladesh 10 Sep 08

For a few days i can see that there are not many discussions are being started. I am on mylot over 4 months. But it is not like before. Previously i could see that at least one discussion was posted every minute. But now it...

boring

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mylot

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monika_bansal i dont feel that mylot is empty. i am on mylot few days before and i see that whenever i wanna discuss anything i get so many responses which make me feel that how people consider others problems and try to solve it by giving their views which give so much...

10 Sep 08

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Do you skip any meals daily?

cmathias12 @cmathias12 (1025) • Armed Forces Canada, Europe, Middle East 5 Sep 08

The only meal I eat daily is dinner. I do not like breakfast. I prefer to just have a cup of coffee because I have never been hungry in the mornings. I do not care for lunch because it fills me too much to eat dinner. I love to...

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monika_bansal it is very shocking to hear that u skip ur breakfast. there is a saying " have breakfast like a king, lunch like a soldier, dinner like a beggar". i follow this saying in my life. after breakfast u have to go to work which helps you to digest ur food and the...

6 Sep 08

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Why people keep complaining about smoking and drinking?

klaudine @klaudine (3650) • Indonesia 5 Sep 08

I want to ask this from the long time ago. Before I start this I want to tell you that I am a habitual heavy smoker and a moderate social drinker. Yeah, I do that. I wonder why people keep complaining and said to us that it was...

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monika_bansal you are in the habit of these things thats why you never say these things bad but just tell me one useful thing u get from these. after drinking a man lose his control on himself and forget everything around him. the people, in the habit of these, who dont...

6 Sep 08

Do you find any difference in loving Daughter or Daughter in law

lovely_byte @lovely_byte (151) • India 2 Sep 08

I love my daughter very much and so do my parents. But they tend to love daughter in law less than they love there daughter.

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monika_bansal yes i have found a great difference. Parents give preference and importance to their daughter not daughter in law. They are emotional with their daughter. If a daughter in law suffers from fever then they dont have problem and not worried rather they expect...

2 Sep 08

how do we become a good wife>?? please help me

kclaret59 @kclaret59 (587) • Philippines 30 Aug 08

i really do not know how.. i was a little anxious because my friend went to the fortune teller with me and the fortune teller said my husband will leave me. how do i stop it from happening?? please help me..

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monika_bansal Hi dear it all depends on ur husband's nature. husband wife relationship keep maintained till the interference of the third person in their life. and these person are mostly girl or boy's parents. so do always ur best. never disobey ur husband. it doesnt mean...

30 Aug 08

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