mselin

@mselin (77)

India • Age 43

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Make-up vs. Natural Beauty

bluerhapsody @bluerhapsody (161) 13 Feb 12

I love being "au naturel" No fuss and no muss. But, there are also times, I like putting on make-up and "gussying-up." I get compliments like you are so beautiful today and such. Keep it up, they say. I just reply that in a joking...

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mselin Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder ???

13 Feb 12

2 - Valentine's Day Special Proposals :)

Dassodils @Dassodils (2010) • India 13 Feb 12

Hai friends... Tomorrow is Valentine's day..All people are celebrating this day...I am in little tension...Because unexpectedly today,1 of my friends opened their heart to me that he loves me..And one of my seniors too said this...

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mselin You should not let something like this spoil your whole day. If you know that you do not prefer both of them, you should let them know that. delicately, don't hurt their feelings. May be just tell them that you are not thinking about dating right now, May be...

13 Feb 12

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Take Care of Your Bones

cher913 @cher913 (25782) • Canada 8 Feb 12

Ouch, i got a bone density test done this week and the lady doing it said to me, did you know that you have a fracture in your back? No, i said. (they aren't supposed to tell you anything) so i went to my doctors and got xrays...

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mselin This was really scary. If we cannot even feel the fracture, how are we going to take care of it? We might even make the problem worse by not giving enough care. Thanks for this information. Will try to get a check up my self.

8 Feb 12

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Less and Less Friends...

Christoph56 @Christoph56 (1504) • Canada 8 Feb 12

I'm starting to notice, as I grow older, my group of friends seems to diminish... Out of highschool, it was my core group of about 10 main friends, plus whole other groups of about the same size, which would get together with my...

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mselin I think this happens to everyone when you get more committed to work or family. We will not be able to find as much time as when we were younger. As you climb up the ladder of your career, you find that job is more time consuming. Same with family. You...

8 Feb 12

Until what age people fall in love?

didi13 @didi13 (2926) • Romania 26 Jan 12

Until what age people fall in love? There are a haven beyond which really aging heart? Or power is given to us to fall in love forever, without fear of wrinkles, without fear of death? I think there is a chance for each of...

age

love

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mselin Age does not restrict love. Love does not depend on age. May be the reason behind falling in love may be different. but love always is the same rejuvenating thing

26 Jan 12

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Is it racist to expect immigrants to learn the language of the country?

ankit_620 @ankit_620 (496) • India 26 Jan 12

It is racist to expect immigrants to learn the language of the country they have immigrated to? I have had this debate many times with my friends,but i'm curious about a broader perspective on the issue.In addition should...

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mselin I agree with the comment that to "expect"may be racist but to support and encourage will not be racist. In a new country where majority speak the native language, it will be easier to communicate and get help if you know the native language. Yet, it would be...

26 Jan 12

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In a great confusion....pls help me....

sajujohn @sajujohn (1005) • India 24 Jan 12

When I'm saying this I am in a great dilemma. Actually I have been loving a girl very much for the past 3 years, but never said to her. It was about 8 months before I proposed her(said that I love her and want to marry her).But...

love

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mselin It seems she does not know if she likes you or not. If she liked you she would have said so rather than putting the blame on her father. yet, she wanted to see if you were good enough for her so she tried chatting with you for some time. It would be better...

24 Jan 12

Chance

didi13 @didi13 (2926) • Romania 24 Jan 12

There are some people who live without love, there are some people who believe that love, but living an illusion ... Certainly I could not live without love ... completely And I think there is one for every occasion. That comes...

chance

love

once in a lifetime

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mselin You have a very important point there. Some times love is not as poetic or colorful as depicted in films or love stories. Love is more realistic. Love could also be practical :). May be there is a "love at first sight" but I feel, you could fall in love with...

24 Jan 12

What causes lack of communication in relationships?

Carla Wilkins @llwilkins (384) • United States 24 Jan 12

My question to you all is what causes a lack of communication to rise in relationships. These relationships can be between siblings, parent/child, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, etc. Go in depth and give me you thoughts on...

communication

lack of communication

relationships

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mselin May be because we spend too much time communicating with friends online than directly :) Let us hope we will keep in mind to talk to relatives even while we spend a lot of time on Mylot :)

24 Jan 12

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do you work for money or career?

eunife @eunife (165) • Philippines 23 Jan 12

how would you decide if you are offered two different jobs but serve you differently like, one pays really good but career advancement is not in the horizon while the other one pays less but it is in line of your degree and it...

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mselin It depends on various factors. It is indeed difficult to make a decision. If I need immediate money, I will choose the one which offers the better pay. But if I don't need money that urgently I will go for the second option because soon, I would get a better...

23 Jan 12

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What about you guys?

ipanks @ipanks (890) • Indonesia 23 Jan 12

I became acquainted with a girl 10 years ago, let's called her name A, she lives (lets call it the city of DA) and I live in city of DB. By the time we met, she was 18 years old and I am 24 years. We met through chat programs,...

broken heart

life

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mselin All these years you never met her? May be that is why she is turning away from you. May be started feeling that you are simply playing with her and do not want to settle down actually. If she loves you as you as you say she would want to marry you. Go meet...

23 Jan 12

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Do people get more materialistic as time goes on?

saundyl @saundyl (9783) • Canada 23 Jan 12

I cant help but notice...people have more and more "Stuff" these days. Is it just me or are people getting to be very materialistic? Advertising promotes buy more be happy. Honestly though i'm finding that since my dad passed...

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mselin you are right. I always find things that may be useful some time in future but I have not used for at least past 5 years. It is rather difficult to clean up a mess like that

23 Jan 12

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If this were you.....

Shar19 @Shar19 (8231) • United States 23 Jan 12

I've seen this on one of the talk shows on television a while ago and know someone who is also going through this. I would like to know what would you do in this situation? You've been married to your spouse for a while....

affection

intimacy

marriage

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mselin This happens to a lot of couples. I do not think divorce or separation is that easy, if kids are involved. but such situations often give rise to extra marital affairs. If you get what you look for in another person, you may go for that and forget the...

23 Jan 12

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what should i do?

msh2207 @msh2207 (51) 22 Jan 12

hi friends she was my classmate........we know eachother since last twelve years......she knows i like her too much......two months back i proposed her..........and i directly asked her will you marry me....she kept mum.....i...

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mselin Do talk to her before you even approach her dad. Leave her dad alone. It will complicate the matters. You know her well. You feel that she took it as a joke or she feels embarrassed about the situation. something of that sort. Any ways talk to her. Even if she...

23 Jan 12