nandans

@nandans (1160)

India • Age 50

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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How patient are you? REALLY? =D

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 26 Aug 08

Do you claim to be but when it comes down to it, you're really not? Does it depend whether you're under a deadline or stress? Do you have different expectations for different people, like friends and/or family get some slack while...

depends on many factors

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nandans I do have expectations from certain people and i try to do what they in turn expect from me too.

27 Aug 08

Are you a respectful person?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 26 Aug 08

Now that's a stupid thing to ask for who on earth will deny that! But honestly tell me, are you being polite and considerate to others? Or leave your seat to the elders, do you lend your ear to an elderly person? or do whatever...

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nandans To get respect one should learn to respect others. Be a good listener and learn to admit mistakes is the greatest thing to succeed in life.

27 Aug 08

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What would you prefer? To Love or be loved?

iskayz @iskayz (5420) • Philippines 14 Jun 08

Hi to all!! In courtship, who would you choose to have a relationship with? The person who loves you most... or the person you love most? Justify..

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nandans To love is yoyur own choice but To be loved is your Fortune..

14 Jun 08

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Why do people have kids when they can't really afford to have them?

NuclearRabbit @NuclearRabbit (650) • United States 13 Jun 08

Is it too much to ask? I really don't get the logic behind this. Why put yourself and your kids through proverty? It seems that some people assume that "God will provide." Even if I wasn't an agnostic I would still be offended by...

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nandans People don't think much about the future.. They realise it later ..

14 Jun 08

do u have dandruff problem...

bimal10p @bimal10p (1218) • India 26 Apr 07

i have been havin this dandruff problem..due to which i have to use the shampoo very frequently..i treid anti dandruff oils..but its not workin for me...do u have this problem...can u suggest me a solution for this

hair

life

people

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nandans I too develop this dandruff problem freqiently.. Try applying lemon on your hair and leave it for sometime then wash it.. Try it several times to get relief..

14 Jun 08

Problems... Do they ever stop?

Kanesha1028 @Kanesha1028 (154) • United States 13 Jun 08

I'm really going through alot at this time in my life. I'm 17 years old and I have bad psoriasis and really bad acne. There's not a spot on my body thats clear. The psoriasis covers my whole body and the acne is covering my whole...

psoriasis

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nandans Problems keep on coming, to solve and live up with the problems is called the spirit..

14 Jun 08

Do you accept friend requests of complete strangers?

liquorice @liquorice (3887) 3 May 08

If you get a Facebook friend request from someone that you don't know do you just click 'ignore'? Or do you try to find out more about them by going to their profile and try to discover how they came across you, and why they want...

facebook

friends

strangers

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nandans Yes i do when someone requests

4 May 08

how long do you think that a good relationship will last?

mscongeniality @mscongeniality (110) • Canada 29 Jan 08

how long do you think that a good relationship will last.... coz i've seen my parents so in love with each other when i am still a child. seeing them so happy together makes me idealize their relationship and wished that i can...

love

parents

relationship

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nandans If a relationship is real and good, it should last forever.

29 Jan 08

have you moved to a new area and are making new friends?

whittby @whittby (3072) • United States 28 Jan 08

Is it hard to make friends in a new city? When the kids were young, I had a readymade group of folks to socialize with from school and activities. Now I am in the twix and between years when I am not officially a senior retired...

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nandans nope.. old is gold..

29 Jan 08

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Should men cry?

zeloguy @zeloguy (4911) • United States 28 Jan 08

My wife is from Morocco (arabic Country) where men do not cry... over ANYTHING. Is it OK for man to cry or show emotion or should he 'take it like a man' and be the rock of the household?Does crying show weakness or caring? Would...

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nandans Its a natural phenomenon. Tears come out naturally if it is not crocodile tears, its not dependent on gender.

29 Jan 08

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If you will be given a chance to go back in time, When would that be and why?

drrt_801 @drrt_801 (116) • Philippines 28 Jan 08

There are a lot of "time travelling" movies that we have already watched. Have you sometimes wished that you have that ability even just for once? Was there something that you have done that you wished that you did differently? Or...

life

time

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nandans I would like to go to 5 years back, when my father was alive.. Those were the golden days in my family.. he is being missed a lot..

29 Jan 08

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Too much intelligence can make some people crazy?

glitzypurple @glitzypurple (1477) • Philippines 11 Jan 08

There was a true to life story in the television and the story is quite sad. It was about a guy who was a teacher but became crazy and always told himself that he's the king of the world and that no one could turn him down when he...

people

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nandans Thats why scientists are crazy..

12 Jan 08

Why do people use other people

garnet80 @garnet80 (349) • Australia 12 Jan 08

I don't get it. Why do people use other people. I'm dating a man at the moment and have had enough. I want to end the relationship because I feel used. I'm a sole parent and don't work as my child is too young for me to want to be...

feeling used

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nandans Survival of the fittest.. To compete among each other in a practical world, people use other people..

12 Jan 08

What is more important?

SViswan @SViswan (12051) • India 11 Jan 08

Another discussion I started and the responses got me thinking on this one. What is more important in a marriage (or any relationship for that matter) - emotional aspect or the physical aspect?

relationships

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nandans Depends from person to person.. Both aspects are important.. Emotional person will look for emotional aspect.. Physical satisfaction is also important..

12 Jan 08

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Does it annoy you when you have some discussions with no responses to them?

peanutjar @peanutjar (5198) • Canada 11 Jan 08

I have a couple that i started when i had just first joined with no responses to them,zero,nada and they are driving me nuts seeing they are still there,haha.Do you think you would be so kind to maybe respond to one of them for...

stuck in limbo

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nandans yes, its natural to get annoyed when nobody is paying attention..

12 Jan 08

What Motivates Your Belief In God?

terilee79720 @terilee79720 (3621) • United States 26 Dec 07

I recently thought, "Any expression of God is a good thing". It doesn't matter what religious group you associate yourself with. It doesn't matter what your traditional beliefs are. The only thing that matters these days is that...

belief in god

belief systems

goodness in all

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nandans Its The fate and fortune...

27 Dec 07

The Best Movies of 2007

bethyboo @bethyboo (399) • United States 26 Dec 07

I want to know everyone's opinions on the best movie of 2007. There was some pretty good movies this year. There was also a lot of sequels this year like Shrek, Spiderman, Pirates of the Caribbean, etc. I think my favorite movie...

2007

best movies

movies

pirates of the caribbean

sequels

shrek

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nandans Its Taare Zameen Pe --- Bollywood Movie

27 Dec 07

I got 4 sets of pajamas - what did you get in multiples this year?

kimberlylynn @kimberlylynn (978) • United States 26 Dec 07

Why does everyone send me pajamas? I have always sent out a wish list of things I would like but no one pays attention to it. So I got 4 pairs of pajamas from different people this year. The worst part is two are flannel and long...

christmas

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nandans Nothing as such in multiples..

27 Dec 07

Long vacations

2timothy @2timothy (794) • Philippines 26 Dec 07

How long was your longest vacation and what lessons have you learned from such a travel? Kindly share your brief itinerary. Do you plan to have such long vacations again in the near future? Any tips you would like to share with...

travel

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nandans My vacations are usually short.. Its within 7-10 days max..

27 Dec 07