nenuphar

@nenuphar (117)

France • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Any hints on how to make a good meal?

leahsmom @leahsmom (337) • United States 24 Sep 09

I love to cook but I don't have the talent. I would love any hints for any meals.

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nenuphar I started to learn cooking when I was about 25, never before had I the desire to cook. I kicked off with a very simple meal like a pork chop with small boiled potatoes. I can't go wrong with that, right? Then I promote myself to grill a piece of steak, and...

24 Sep 09

If you would rate your life right now, what would it be? 10 is the best.

ivygrey @ivygrey (550) • Philippines 22 Sep 09

If you would rate your life right now, what would it be? 10 is the best, 1 is the worst. Life is not perfect, there are times of ups and downs, Are you in the ups of your life right now? or downs? or in between?

your life

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nenuphar To be honest and not boastful, I would rate my life right now at 8. I have a happy home, a wonderful and supporting husband, a successful son, no health and money problems... I am content and thankful that I'm blessed. When there is a problem, I try to solve...

22 Sep 09

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I am a senior citizen, must I give up my seat on the bus for a young person?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 20 Sep 09

I admit a bit of a rant as well as a reversed question,brought'on by answering an older discussion, I am only 22, but must I give up my seat on the bus to an old person every day? that was the discussion. and somehow maybe I am...

respect or no respect for the older people

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nenuphar Hi Hatley, I'm in the 60s, I do not expect young people to give up their seat for me, but if they did, I would thank them and accept it if I were loaded with shopping bags LOL! On the other hand, I would happily give up my seat for pregnant women, or someone...

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Do you get nervous speaking in front of big crowds?

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 19 Sep 09

I get very nervous speaking in front of big crowds. Sometimes I choke or I studer. I don't mean to it is just a natural reaction. I wish I could be more confindent and not do those things. I care too much about what people think...

crowds

nervous

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nenuphar IMHO one must first have confidence in oneself, next comes practice (practice makes perfect is very true), and finally, if one is familiar with the subject, it helps tremendously. I must admit that I was a bit shaky when I gave my first talk in public, it...

20 Sep 09

Are you a DIY enthusiast? Do you tend to do, fix, repair everything yourself?

Andrew @AndrewFreyne (6281) • United Kingdom 16 Sep 09

I'm curious about this! My situation is, I rent privately but the landlady, she's like family to me now, we get on so well. If anything needs to be done around the flat I will try and do it otherwise I will call her in and she...

diy

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nenuphar I'm terribly hopeless in manual work, especially fixing bathrooms and washrooms. Luckily, my husband was a very handy man. He's not up to it now, but he used to fix everything "broken" thing in the house. He would fix them in such a way that they became brand...

17 Sep 09

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work sleep & Internet

k sridharprasad @yugasini (12893) • Secunderabad, India 16 Sep 09

hi mylot friends At present i am accustomed to spend my daily life like this,wake up at 5.00 am in the morning work on internet up to 7.30 then other necessary things to get ready for office/work at 9.30,from 10.00 to 9.00 in...

internet

sleep

work

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nenuphar Well, unfortunately I need at least 7/8 hours of sleep, adding to that, my freelance work, daily household chores, time with family, socializing and so on... not many hours left for internet. BUT I make it a point to login to MyLot and allocate at least 30 to...

17 Sep 09

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help me find the right place

pancajena @pancajena (3) • Indonesia 15 Sep 09

hi guys.... i've spent a lot of time and effort just to try to make money on the internet. i've followed the various types of businesses that he say make money on the internet. but until now i still have not got my first dollar....

business online

internet

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nenuphar Hey, like you I'm new to this too. What people tend to think is... oh I'm going to earn at least a few hundred dollars online quickly. Mind you, I'm sure you can but with a lot of hard word and effort. I believe you found the right place to start off, as you...

15 Sep 09

would ending my life make her see the truth .....

HelScream @HelScream (2822) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

i cant explain how down I am right now i already told her the truth on the matter but still she refuses to accept it I was just thinking about what would convince her would it be ending my life in front of her for her to believe...

life

love failed

the end

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nenuphar I'm trying to find a way to convince you that we're here only temporarily (a life time!). If she doesn't understand you nor accept your apologies or explanations, then let it be... she's not the right person for you and nor worthy of your love. You better let...

15 Sep 09

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Finally, I have a Online Store.

kaconk @kaconk (54) • Indonesia 15 Sep 09

I want to make big money, so i can use for buy anything on my life,,, yesteday, finally i can make my first online store, may be it can help me to come on my purpose.... give me an opinion please..

online store

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nenuphar Hi there, Congratulations for your online store! May I say, more importantly is to drive traffic to your online store, without which, your store is good for the looking with no customer. My personal experience tells me that for about every 1000 visit, you...

15 Sep 09

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Mylot is becoming stricter ??? !!!

eshaan @eshaan (6188) • India 15 Sep 09

Yes...i see nowadays...they are not allowing to place any discussion about sites where you earn...i got my discussion deleted y'day...though i had not written anything like 'join under me'...even i didn't write that 'if interested...

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nenuphar I've noticed the deletion of some posts for quite some time, although I did not follow through but I'm sure I've responded more times than the numbers indicated. I blame it on the fact that I'm new, and am learning slowly the rules and the laws of MyLot. But...

15 Sep 09

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Help! Please! My friend is in need!!

ivygrey @ivygrey (550) • Philippines 14 Sep 09

My husband and I and the rest of our very good friends were trying our best to motivate our friend who recently diagnosed with cancer, I never thought it would be this hard, His name Is Edwin , I promised his wife that I will...

edwin jara

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nenuphar A friend in need is a friend indeed! Thank you for being a true friend to Edwin! I'm a moderator at Dhealing forum: http://dhealing.freeforums.org/forum-prayer-request If you'd like, you can sign in there to get his name listed under prayer room, if not,...

15 Sep 09

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Any fans of Google Chrome here?

ImNotFish @ImNotFish (106) • Singapore 13 Sep 09

My favourite browser before is Mozilla Firefox. I like FireFox due to its loading speed (it loads faster than IE, for me) and many add-ons, for own customization of the browser. But when I discovered Google Chrome, I totally fall...

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nenuphar I did just the opposite... I was using Google Chrome and now switch to Firefox. I still like Google Chrome though, it is very user-friendly. The only hick I encountered was when I had to update some pictures onto a site, it refused to work on Joomla :(

14 Sep 09

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Why do girls prefer tall guys?

phillip_shiny @phillip_shiny (2330) • India 7 Sep 09

Dear people, I really have a doubt in this for many years that why do girls prefer tall guys? I didn't mean all but most of them. Do they feel secure with tall guys? Or attracted physically to 'em Dear...

girls prefer tall guys

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nenuphar I think this is just an universally accepted reality. Being an Asian girl, I'm rather tall (5ft 6), in fact, in my early years, I have difficulties finding tall guys. This doesn't stop me from frequenting shorter male friends, but deep down in my heart, I knew...

8 Sep 09

i know its a sin but i can't stop eating! C:

pretteen @pretteen (66) • Philippines 7 Sep 09

i promised my self i would go on a diet but i cant help it.. i cant stop myself from eating!!! specially sweets.. when i smell chocolates.. oohh my mouth starts to water.. oh my.. i'm thinking of drinking pills that lessen the...

i love eating

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nenuphar Hi I'm not a professional nutritionist and I believe I'm lucky, I think having a balanced diet is definitely good for our health. I don't believe in taking slimming pills or such like. Will power is probably the key! If you love those chocolates or other food,...

8 Sep 09

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Can you think in a second language or need you translate in your head first?

katerina @thea09 (18305) • Greece 4 Sep 09

I'm curious about this as I sometimes still need to translate the words in my head first. Yet other times I can have conversations in my second language whilst dreaming. So are you able to think in a second language or do you...

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nenuphar I used to speak five languages when I was much younger... Chinese as Mother tongue and English being the second language, although I was educated in the English language. I noticed that when you're working abroad, English tend to become the Universal language...

5 Sep 09

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Has America Lost the Values and Morals that Made her Great?

debrakcarey @debrakcarey (19887) • United States 3 Sep 09

Basic Values Dictate The Strength Of An Understanding As understanding is values and reason, and reason is mainly the exercise of a facility to connect cause and effect, which is almost mechanical, so reason must be considered...

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nenuphar As a non-Us citizen, I think you've been to severe judging the Americans! I think the loss of values and morals is not an American problem, it's all over the world. We have the same problem here in Europe! What's more important is to educate our young ones, be...

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Can Two People Be Friends Again After A Fight Or Misunderstadning?

preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 3 Sep 09

They say character,friends and glass can never be mended once it is broken. It cant be the original same again. This is more true about human relationships than non living things. Suspicion, doubts, fear, lack of trust and faith...

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nenuphar Well, I had a living example. My mom was befriended with a family and for whatever reasons only known to them, they drifted apart. It was until a very unfortunate occasion when this family lost three of their kids in an accident. I remember my mom, instead of...

4 Sep 09

Do you drink water first thing in the morning?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 3 Sep 09

Recently a friend of mind told me that she received an email from a family telling her about Water Therapy and the benefit of drinking water early in the morning with an empty stomach. That drinking water first thing in the...

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nenuphar I do drink water first thing in the morning, and believe me, I drink water also just before I go to sleep. I was told that it's good for our health, it cleanses our kidneys and bodies toxins before and after, this way all out toxins will be eliminated. As a...

4 Sep 09

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