neusdo

@neusdo (33)

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Relocating for Love

lisa0351 @lisa0351 (303) • United States 30 Jun 11

Well, after many failed relationships and a lot of heart break, even a divorce, I have found the one. We got engaged a few months ago and are getting married in Tennessee in September. However, he lives an hour away from me so I...

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neusdo Hi! Congratulations on your engagement! It's always difficult to leave behind everything that is familiar tu us, as human beings, we're afraid of change, but if you feel confident that this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with and you're...

30 Jun 11

Why in the world will make 10 years relationship but in the end will broke up?

insulin @insulin (2479) • Philippines 28 Jun 11

I know that the divorce rating in Europe especially in Germany is definitely high like your friends friends is divorce until and so on and I'm just pissed off of my status right now I mean I have this man in my life for almost 2...

divorce

love

relationship

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neusdo Some relationships end even if you've been together for 30 years. It's not really how long the lifespan of the relationship has been, if he feels there is nothing to save in his marriage, there's probably no turning back. Try to think about what you want. If...

28 Jun 11

What in the world..Would You Have Done?

walking2010 @walking2010 (1009) • United States 27 Jun 11

Wow just imagine being on that boat back then and having it start to sink and the weather was so cold that it would freeze you if you where in that situation what would you have done, i mean I would think survival I wouldnt had...

movies

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neusdo Well, in this case, historical facts say that the Titanic didn't have enough life boats for the quantity of people onboard. So a lot of them wouldn't have been able to get a place to hop on a go. Another thing is that hipothermia can kill you in a matter of...

28 Jun 11

your partner doesn't like dogs

neusdo @neusdo (33) • Puerto Rico 28 Jun 11

I'm a dog person, I love them and I've had dogs since I was a little girl. My boyfriend doesn't love dogs but he doesn't really dislikes them, he plays with them from time to time if he sees one. I understand that probably, when...

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That's not what I said! I meant this.

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 28 Jun 11

Do you have to explain what you meant to your partner? Does he/she Truly understand your view? The more I see , the luckier I feel. I guess it is because I'm in love with my best friend. He and I are used to talking Everything...

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neusdo I think that sometimes comunication glitches can happen, but it should be very rare, if I'd have to explain everything I said to my boyfriend in order for him to get it, we wouldn't be together by now. It's exhausting to feel you always need to explain...

28 Jun 11

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Bravo George Clooney!

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 23 Jun 11

Yes, I said it. I am giving my respects to the guy I hate! But when a man sticks to his principals I applaud regardles of how I feel about him. I just heard his ex said that the next time she will marry. This must mean she thought...

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neusdo Some people tat really want to get married someday get in relationships and fall deeply in love with people that have been very clear that they will never get married. Mistake, big mistake if what they want includes marriage, because you can't change someone...

28 Jun 11

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Do you have to be married to be truly committed?

neusdo @neusdo (33) • Puerto Rico 28 Jun 11

People have different ideas of what commitment means to the. Some feel that as long as they show love, respect and are truthful and loyal to their partners, they are fully committed to their relationship. Some feel they have to be...

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neusdo That's a very interesting way of seeing it. I think you're right.

28 Jun 11

Why life is great

neusdo @neusdo (33) • Puerto Rico 28 Jun 11

To me, what makes my life great is my family, my good friends, my dog, my wonderful boyfriend and being able to enjoy the things that I like and love with them. What makes your life great?

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Would you change your religion for the sake of love..?

siliguri @siliguri (4241) • India 28 Jun 11

Yesterday i had been watched one show in which the father of girl has keep the one condition in front of boy that, if he want to marry his daughter he has to change his religion means boy is belong to hinduism and he has to...

religion

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neusdo I think it's all about respect. In my case I'm not religious, just spiritual, but I wouldn't want someone to force me to become religious just because they are, just as I would never tell that person that they'd have to stop professing their religion. I...

28 Jun 11

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the only country with no divorce -Do you want to get married in the Philippines?

bhonti @bhonti (1246) • Philippines 27 Jun 11

After Malta passed the divorce bill in their country, Philippines is the last country (well, aside from Vatican of course) to have not legalized divorce. Because of the strong influence of tradition and Roman Catholicism, two...

divorce marriage philippines

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neusdo Maybe some marriages where abuse is present can be saved, in others, the abuser says sorry, tha abused part forgives this person...and ends up dead a few moths later after it turns out the other person wasn't truly as sorry as they said. I'm just saying, each...

28 Jun 11

Sould children be watching tv regular for long periods of time?

katrinakat1987 @katrinakat1987 (183) 28 Jun 11

I ask myself this question all the time, I know some mums that will let there child sit and watch tv all day long and not have a problem with it. Don't get me wrong our son watches tv, but within reason, he usually watches it...

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neusdo Hi katrinakat! I think that maybe there should be a healthy balance, as you're doing right now. Your child watches just a bit of tv, but not all the time. I think that is important for kids to have active lives and have interests that make them grow as human...

28 Jun 11

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the only country with no divorce -Do you want to get married in the Philippines?

bhonti @bhonti (1246) • Philippines 27 Jun 11

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neusdo Hi bhonti! As much as I would like my marriage to last until one of us drops dead, I wouldn't get married in the Philippines. Yes, marriage is not something to be taken lightly and people should work on it. I wouldn't get a divorce just because I had an...

28 Jun 11

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Should you stay in a marriage for the kids?

neusdo @neusdo (33) • Puerto Rico 27 Jun 11

I have a friend who had a child less than a year ago. Her husband isn't a bad person, but they've been having problems even before they got married. They even went to couples counseling when they were dating, they hadn't even been...

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neusdo That's one of my concerns, one day this kid is going to be grown enough to understand that his parents are not happy and that can also be very problematic for a child to see.

28 Jun 11

What makes a good relationship?

neusdo @neusdo (33) • Puerto Rico 27 Jun 11

I think that most of us have a concept of what relationships must be like. I'm a woman, and I used to think, a long time ago, that romance and flowers and candles and all that somewhat superficial stuff, where important. Now, I...

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neusdo That's true, understanding is extremely important in relationships, my boyfriend always says that one of the main reason he loves me is because I understand him, so I get what you're saying.

28 Jun 11

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Do you have to be married to be truly committed?

neusdo @neusdo (33) • Puerto Rico 28 Jun 11

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Own Business - this is my dream before but now I dont know anymore

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 27 Jun 11

Eversince I was an adolescent, I have dreamed of establishing my own business. As I always do my best to save money to raised up an amount to serve as my initial capital. Aside from that, I always consult my parents on how will...

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neusdo You need support on terms of advice from your parents or financial support? I know that sometimes we feel like we need to know what our family thinks about a certain endeavor, but if you keep waiting for that to happen and you don't try, you'll never do it....

27 Jun 11

Oh you are so dumb!

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32190) • United States 27 Jun 11

I have a friend that annoyed me and so I blocked her from my facebook profile. She can not see what I write, and so she can't like any of my statuses (which is a relief - she was the "like everything" type of facebooker.) Well...

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neusdo I think that your friedship is broken, so it would be a good idea if you just end it altogether. She may be a drama queen, but it's better to confront her now and get her out of your life if that is what you want than to have her constantly trying to contact...

27 Jun 11

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Getting Married?

willwood123 @willwood123 (66) • Australia 26 Jun 11

Hi I refuse to get married. My other half got down on bended knee once about 7 years ago in front of all our friends and I said no. In my defense i had told him a few days ago that I hate the attention that weddings bring and...

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neusdo I think that if you're happy together, you should stay the way you are. But since you've been with your partner for a long time, ask him why he keeps asking you to marry him, and consider, rationally his response. If you do decide to ever get married, you guys...

27 Jun 11

Michael Moore movie producer, Love him or hate him?

katrinakat1987 @katrinakat1987 (183) 26 Jun 11

I am a huge huge fan of Michael Moore and really respect him for speaking the truth and making valid points that many wont do and will speak out even if it means people dislking him, hating him, sending him hate mail. But hinestly...

michael moore

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neusdo I like him. I think he's raised some interesting issues that a lot of people were not discussing. To me, the main acomplishment he's had is letting a lot of people know and understand that the world we live in is far more complex and unfair than we'd like to...

27 Jun 11

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