nightlily

@nightlily (33)

Philippines • Age 57

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Parent or Best Friend? Which am I suppose to be?

gypsylady28 @gypsylady28 (945) • United States 30 Jan 07

To me, this is one of the hardest things for a parent to decide. I love my children, but to me, being a parent is the most important. I think there is a line we have to draw between parent and friend. Do you feel the same? My...

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nightlily You're right a line should be drawn between being a parent and a freind. We should desern when to be one. When a stick of rod must be shown to them, then we're parents. When we asked them about their first in everything then we're freinds. Actually I want my...

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Who should do the first move---the boy or the girl?

here_for_you @here_for_you (325) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

Nowadays, women no longer wait for suitors; they can now court some boys they like. Do you think this should continue? Is it okay to make things go that way?

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nightlily Well, I still go for the old fashion way of courtship. Even in this world of 20th century, where everything is instant and just one click of a botton, still I longed to be woo and courted by a handsome man. Its our pride ladies.

30 Jan 07

should i marry him..?

symontimea @symontimea (842) • Romania 28 Jan 07

i would share my situation with you...maybe i will get some advice. my boyfriend is much older tha me, but he is very nice to me and also to my friends...and loves me extremely much. i also love him, but what about the big age...

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nightlily How big is the sge difference? 10?20?twice as yours? My dad is 10 years older than my mom, and they still living happily till now. My frerind marry her husband with 16 year age difference, and they are very happy and contented. What problem do you envision...

30 Jan 07

Love Letters

Astarte @Astarte (812) • Italy 29 Jan 07

Has Someone ever written a Love Letter for you? What was your reaction? Was it a nice letter?:P Have you evere written a letter to someone?

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nightlily Yes until now my husband writes me love letters as well my two kids and I kept them all. Its good to remember this thingsand when Im old and gray I will just sit on my rocking chair with my letters on my lap and read them all.

30 Jan 07

do you keep LOVE letters?

alecs76 @alecs76 (657) • Philippines 29 Jan 07

the innocent boy who got enchanted with a cute little girl sent her a note... the first love letter from a suitor... the exchanges of letters from your girlfriend/boyfriend... the notes from your spouse or partner... even the...

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nightlily I do since I love writing them. Infact I still have the letters from a high school freinds of mine. As well as letters from suitors way way back. Ah its good to remember them all. Feels like Im going back to the time when it all happened.

30 Jan 07

Single SINCE BIRTH

sweetmia @sweetmia (454) • Philippines 30 Jan 07

I am 23 years old and i have never had a real boyfriend. i know. there's must be something wrong with me. am i the only one? are there any other people here who have been single since birth? if not, how old were you when you have...

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nightlily Dear, your still that young! I was 27 when I had my boyfreind. And I was dreaming of getting marry by the age of 25 then. And stop saying that there's somthing wrong with you. You're just being presured by your surroundings as well as peer group. But believe...

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What is considerd work...having a paying job or taking care of the house?

winky73 @winky73 (1404) • United States 29 Jan 07

I've had this discussion just this morning.I was told that he works seven days a week after I told him he just wants to be waited on hand and foot. Well I work seven days a week as well....doing laundry,paying bills,buying...

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nightlily It shouldn't be an excused. It might be true that he works 8 or 9 hrs a day 7 days a week, but just a you reasoned out, you work much harder but without pay. Its not that your complaining its just that your looking for some sense of consideration from your...

30 Jan 07

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can a man live without a woman.......

nipunearthman @nipunearthman (56) • India 28 Jan 07

i think that every one needs a life partner to live his life...Therefore marriage is an imp. part of life for which every man & woman aspires...Even though they run away from it as far as possible...So all you out there post ur...

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nightlily I belived man can't live without woman and vise versa. It's a holy structure of God since the begenning of time. Man is incomplete without his missing rib. And woman is homeless and lost without the man's body to fit in.

30 Jan 07

How should i forget him?

sunflowergirl @sunflowergirl (3064) • United Arab Emirates 29 Jan 07

i was in love with a guy and after like 5years i come to know that he has been lieing to me.... lies which i can not take...i mean any girl wont....can plzzzzzzzzz any one help me how should i forget him??should i make friends...

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nightlily How young are you anyway? You shouldn't stock yourself in one corner because it wont help you in forgetting him. Go out in the world, find a freind and start living again. There's alot there girl. If you can't find someone like him, I asure you, you can find...

30 Jan 07

I am getting married today!

krysy1982 @krysy1982 (1041) • United States 30 Jan 07

Well we have decided to go ahead and take the plunge and get married. We will be married at 4:30pm today. What I do not understand is why mom is so against me getting married? We have been together going on 8yrs and we have...

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nightlily Have you seriously asked your mother why she refused the marriage? At times mother/father sees something that we cant see niether understand. So i suggest to talk it over with your mom, even the wedding is already through.

30 Jan 07

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Husband VS Sister???Help!!!

tabitha_calhoun @tabitha_calhoun (247) • United States 29 Jan 07

What do you do when your husband doesnt like your sister and she is coming to visit? She just turned 18 and had a baby. I am very excited to see her, beings I have not seen her in many years! Just the thought of my sister coming...

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nightlily What's your husband's problem? Your sister wont be staying there for good. She will just visit you. And if he truly loves and respect you, he wont take you away from your own family, but support you instead.

30 Jan 07

would you ever marry someone

cowboys33 @cowboys33 (421) • Australia 27 Jan 07

just for money even if the person was like 50 years older then you

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nightlily No way! I'll still would marry for love and happiness not becuase of anything else.

27 Jan 07

Do you care if your partner / GF/ BF Smoke

victorwzj @victorwzj (539) 27 Jan 07

Do you care if your partner smoke? . I personally mind if my Girl friend smoke and I cannot tolerate the smell not to mention it is bad for health especially inhaling those second hand smoke. What do you think ?.

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nightlily I cant stand it too. It irritates me that much. Good thing my love doesn't smoke.

27 Jan 07

Men who try to buy a woman's affections. Is it sweet or is it ridiculous?

hassanchop @hassanchop (820) • United States 22 Jan 07

You know what I mean. The dudes who go all out, buying a 5,000 dollar engagement ring, or spending 3,500 dollars on Christmas gifts, or buying flowers and chocolate every week, and ESPECIALLY the dudes who buy flowers after a...

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nightlily Well, maybe some guys just dont know how to show affection without waving a bills on their girls faces. As they say, " the best things in life are free " " Money cant buy you love only lover "

27 Jan 07

Would You Marry someone OLDER then You?

abhax123 @abhax123 (1695) • India 27 Jan 07

One of my friend is in love with a girl who is five year older then him. They both love each other too much and have told there family that they are going to get married. The girls family has no objection but my friends family is...

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nightlily I have no problem marrying anyone older than me. As long as we love each other and will always understand each other, I believed things will work out just fine. Dont let anyone dictate ur future. Its you and you alone who can make or break your future.

27 Jan 07

is what im doing wrong?

Ashlymm03 @Ashlymm03 (77) • United States 26 Jan 07

i have a boyfriend. and ive been dating him for quite sometime, and well i dont think i have the same feelings anymore... i have this really good guy friend. named shane. and he asked me to go to the dance because mi bf couldnt...

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nightlily We all have a choice. Its our free gift. THere's nothing wrong if you want to enjoy your life. You've been honest to your ex. If he can't take that, its his problem noy yours.Go ahead enjoy the dance. Its now or never . nightlily

27 Jan 07