nitzel

@nitzel (79)

Philippines • Age 52

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Is it ok to barrow money from friends?

jbelle @jbelle (912) • Philippines 4 May 07

Yes I admit that sometimes if my salary get short till pay day I barrow money from my friends or in emergency cases. Do you also barrow money from your friends? Is ok or a bad attitude?

barrow

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nitzel I believe it's ok to borrow money from friends especially in emergency cases. As long as we have the intention to pay, there's nothing really wrong with it. However, we have to be careful that it may become a habit also.

10 Oct 07

do you always let others borrow money from you?

izathewzia @izathewzia (5134) • Philippines 9 Oct 07

For sure, all of us already experienced borrowing money from others especially during those times we are in dire need. But how about you, do you always lend money to others? Or you still choose the persons and the situations...

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nitzel I must say that we're alike. My heart easily goes out to people who are monetarily in need. Even if I have already budgeted my income, I'd rather lend it to that person rather than buying what I need first. The only sad thing is that aside from always...

10 Oct 07

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Cheating on Husband right or wrong

usmcsgtwife @usmcsgtwife (4997) • United States 29 Oct 06

No I am not cheating on my husband or nor would I ever.. But I would like people opions on people who do cheat espically military. For an example I have a friend who's husband is deployed to Iraq for a year and she is cheating and...

cheating

iraq

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nitzel Cheating can never be right. Once you are committed to someone, you have an obligation to keep and honor that commitment. If you don't have the intention to keep it, you should never have done it. Cheating is betrayal and it sucks bigtime.

10 Oct 07

Would you forgive your partner for cheating on you?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 29 Sep 07

Would you forgive and forget if you found out that your partner/ BF/ GF was having another relationship simultaneously? It might not be that strong as the one between you two but was definitely a serious one. He/she asks for...

relationships

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nitzel I might be able to forgive, but forgetting is hard to do. Because of the love factor, I might go on with the relationship. However, trust is difficult to regain.

10 Oct 07

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When you go to a hair salon, do you tip the person who washes your hair?

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 9 Oct 07

Are we supposed to tip the person who washes our hair or just the person who styles it? I don't often go to "salons". My hair is long and I don't get it cut often. I've gone to supercuts and hair cuttery as often (if not more...

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nitzel I only give a tip if I'm happy with how the person has handled me regardless of the job she has done for me.

10 Oct 07

broke up

donsky14 @donsky14 (5947) • Philippines 19 Jun 07

my friend's gf broke up with him yesterday because she had no feelings for him anymore and she was starting to fall for her ex bf. They've been together for 3 yrs. My friend said that he gave her the freedom to be friends with...

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nitzel It's not wrong that he gave her freedom to communicate with her ex. Maybe the problem was, their own relationship wasn't that strong for her to fall with her ex again.

20 Jun 07

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Do your friends health every worry you?

joey_matthews @joey_matthews (8354) 17 Jun 07

I always get worried to close friends and family when there health becomes an issue. Do you worry about your friends health? I'm always nagging my brother to eat more and keep up with it, he's not much of a eater but when...

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nitzel I worry about everything (not only health) with anyone who is dear to me. We always want what's best for our loved ones and friends.

20 Jun 07

STALKERS ~ Do you worry about anyone on myLot, that they may have a stalker?

makingpots @makingpots (11915) • United States 19 Jun 07

I do. I don't wan't to cause alarm but there is one girl who writes often and gets lots of responses when she does. A friend of her's responds often and kind of weirdly to many of her discussions. I have just looked her up...

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nitzel Sounds ridiculous to me, but you can never be too careful. How can anyone stalk someone on the internet or on myLot? I don't know, maybe i'm naive. Or maybe they both personally know each other.

20 Jun 07

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How many times do you comb your hair?

dons626 @dons626 (404) • Philippines 19 Jun 07

I have long wavy hair. I'd comb my hair only in the morning then tie it up. I dont like it when my hair falls when combing hair thats why I do it once a day. Do you comb our hair more than thrice a day? Do you think its...

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nitzel I comb my hair whenever I need to like when it's already all over my face and tangled up. I have long hair too and I don't like to tie it up bec. it gives me a headache. I have read from beauty magazines that combing the hair often makes it more shiny.

20 Jun 07

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Longer or Shorter Hair? Which is sexier?

mean_queen @mean_queen (1713) • Malaysia 5 Jun 07

Some girls, like me, have the notion that longer hair makes you sexier or more beautiful. Throughout my life, I've only had my hair cut short once! And that was done out of curiosity. After that, I have no intention of cutting it...

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nitzel It depends on how you carry yourself. I think, it doesn't matter if long or short hair. Some girls look really good with short hair and others with long. For me, being sexy is feeling confident about yourself.

20 Jun 07

attraction!!!!!!

natash121 @natash121 (219) • Australia 20 Jun 07

What is it that makes you look at a person twice, for men its probably boobs first , am i right? let me know!!! What about for females? What makes you think a man is attractive , i mean look ways? Is it his face, arms? I like...

attraction

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nitzel For me, a clean well-shaven face really makes a man look attractive. I just love men with boyish clean looks.

20 Jun 07

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Beauty, Is it only skin deep?

lovelydame3000 @lovelydame3000 (1577) • India 9 Jun 07

I am sick and tired of guys(some girls too) saying that i am beautiful and flirting with me. This happened more on chat and friendship sites. Some even demands me to take of my cloths and i just ignore them.I think that i am more...

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nitzel I understand how you feel. There are just people who are into the physical attributes more than the qualities that really makes up the person.

20 Jun 07

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Flirting

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 19 Jun 07

Do you flirt? Why or Why not? How do you define flirting? I have gone through periods of time where I would say that I flirted. Most of the time I just like joke around, but some would consider that flirting. I try to be careful...

do you

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nitzel How I wish I know how to flirt without feeling bad about it. I'm just typically shy and I think I would like to try flirting sometimes just for experience.

20 Jun 07

What part of your body don't you like?

nitzel @nitzel (79) • Philippines 14 Jun 07

I've always been criticized for my big eyes. People always say things that make me feel that I'm being cursed for having such big eyes. It hurts so much, but I am happy with myself. God made me this way and I think we are all...

body

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nitzel Thank you, urban girl. I just wish more people look at it like you do and don't hurt others.

20 Jun 07

Telemarketers How Do You Deal With Them?

Rickrocks8 @Rickrocks8 (1751) • United States 13 Jun 07

Telemarketers how do you deal with them? Do you screen your calls and just not answer? Do you take the time and listen to their little script? Are you nice? Are you sarcastic? I have to say I have tried it all. After they come...

people

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nitzel Telemarketers are the reason why I don't like giving out my number. They just can't understand NO! I do understand that they are just doing their job, but they have to respect the person's decision and right to say NO. Thing is, after you say no to someone,...

14 Jun 07

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How many times did you post on My Lot today?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 14 Jun 07

Posting on My Lot is fun and rewarding. But, it's also very time consuming. Most days I strive to post at least 50 discussions and 25 replies. Today, I only posted 39 discussions and replied to a handful of posts. This was...

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nitzel I've only posted 1 discussion and replied to about 30. I enjoy reading the discussions and replies. I've read somewhere though about someone claiming to have made $50 in 8 hours with about 1000 posts.

14 Jun 07