obe212003

@obe212003 (2299)

Philippines • Age 63

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Do you celebrate your monthly anniversary? How?

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 29 Apr 13

Today is mine and my boyfriend's 3rd month of being in a relationship. We're in a long distance relationship and it's kind of hard to celebrate with us not being together. It's sad but I'm still happy that we've reached this far...

anniversary

long distance relationship

monthsary

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obe212003 Just for the books, been married for 20 years, i forgot the date of our engagement, can't actually remember the date we were married (only the month), but i never forget to celebrate everyday as a blessing being together.

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love letters

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 19 Apr 13

i am glad am now married but in the days my husband was a boyfriend it was fun to get love letters from him telling me what he felt and the dreams he had for us.i loved this especially the times he posted this letters and i got to...

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obe212003 I remember the days when i was always being sought after my classmates for me to make them love letters, lol. I was really good at it as i really know how to mix romantic lines just like the lyrics in a love song, and believe me, most of those who asked me...

19 Apr 13

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Time Management

kaichoukebz @kaichoukebz (1190) • Philippines 15 Apr 13

Time is important. We cannot bring it back once wasted. Therefore, we must use it in an effective and efficient way. My friend shared how she managed her time online. I was inspired also. I get to start also my online time...

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obe212003 Time is essentially an important part of our life, of course, it is irreversible and we really have to manage it quite well. And i agree with the way you've set your priorities as this would really determine the amount of time to spend on a particular...

15 Apr 13

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they were laughing at me this morning

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 15 Apr 13

When i woke up, the kids were also awake already and were having this mischievous smile plastered on their faces! but well i thought they were just having some conversation or something so i carry on, took a bath and was...

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obe212003 Good thing with the laughter and the fun they had with that bonding moment, sure is quite a good thing to see that they really such silly things. I found snoring really funny too as sometimes as witnessed my wife that my snoring has a tune, which makes it hard...

15 Apr 13

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How to Tell Your Wife You Love Her Without Saying A Word

Taher Abdelaziz Abdelwahab @taheraa (1545) • Giza, Egypt 7 Apr 13

Over the years, not just at the beginning of a marriage, you must show your wife how much you care about her. To keep the spark alive, try showing your wife how much you love her instead of just saying it. There are many...

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obe212003 Action speaks louder than words, and by that, i just do the tight hugs, the "special massage", lol, holding her hand more, whispering sweet nothings in her sleep, and always to trying day in and day out to put a smile on her face. I guess it's more of...

7 Apr 13

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can you give me some cooking tips to make food tasteful?

ariannet @ariannet (15) • Philippines 7 Apr 13

i love cooking, but cooking doesn't like me.i have been trying recipes from books and internet yet it doesn't taste heavenly.i like to cook something that takes my breath away.

cooking tips

recipes

tasteful

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obe212003 Recipes were made sort of a guide to jot down the ingredients and techniques of how to cook food, right? So it was made by such cooking experts based on what they have gone through with those. The taste can be spiced up, sweetened, unsweetened, or whatever...

7 Apr 13

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do actions speak louder than words?

cherigucchi @cherigucchi (14876) • Philippines 25 Mar 13

A lot of people say that action speaks louder than words. This may be applicable to some but I do more believe that words and action should come together so that the message become more clear. People usually get confused when one...

relationships

speaking

talikng

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obe212003 I would rather let my actions speaks for itself than expressing through words, as sometimes words could be misleading as one's interpretation of even a single word can be overwhelming. I think there is more sincerity in doing things than saying it out loud, as...

25 Mar 13

Should I Tell or Not?

Raine38 @Raine38 (12250) • United States 24 Mar 13

My husband have a guy friend whom we know way back before he was married. Now he also married someone from the Philippines. When they were still dating, our friend requested me to befriend his wife, then girlfriend, and to sort of...

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obe212003 It's hard to claim or alleged anything without proof, and mostly hearsays or gossips as passed on from one to another could be an exaggeration or inadequate, but i guess there's always two sides of any story and once you get those sides, then it would be good...

24 Mar 13

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Now, I have "The Secret"!!

maurya83 @maurya83 (923) • India 16 Mar 13

Yesterday i found the very famous book "the secret" when i went to library. Not surprisingly i took it immediately..I wanted to read it for a long time.from when, I have seen movie "the secret".. Last night i started reading it...

book

reading

the secret

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obe212003 It's more into the positivity with ourselves and how the environment or universe would react correspondingly to the positive aura that emanates from you. It's more into enhancing an a positive attitude so as to cause reaction of positive changes in your life...

17 Mar 13

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Is it good or bad?

bluebutterfly20 @bluebutterfly20 (462) • United States 16 Mar 13

Is it bad to eat two eggs a day?? I like boiled egg alot but I'm worried if eating two eggs a day will be bad for me or something. I like having egg in the morning and sometimes I crave for it for a snack.

boiled egg

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obe212003 I think two eggs are better than one, lol!, seriously, the i think there's nothing wrong with having to consume two eggs in a day, more than that, say, six or more, would surely cause some metabolic imbalance in your system. But i would say anything in excess...

17 Mar 13

Would you still keep your hope up after disappointments?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 16 Mar 13

I don't know how well people handle disappointments, and how often people face disappointment or failures in their lives. For myself, I had encountered disappointments after another disappointments through my love life, business...

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obe212003 When expectations are not met then disappointment would surely be inevitable, but it should be short-lived in a way that you should learn to snap out of it or else it would to or tend to cause for us not to take things as they are and somehow get depressed...

17 Mar 13

what in your opinion ....???

ayano678 @ayano678 (441) 11 Mar 13

I had a college friend who worships a woman. Up to a dozen times betrayed, he remains faithful. Hundreds injured, it's still not budging put his heart on the idol's heart. Thousands of suggestions have been given, other views have...

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obe212003 A clear case of love being blind or should i say really truly deeply in love, lol! Sometimes the heart hears and sees differently from what our eyes and ears do, but the overwhelming emotion within sort of reflects undeniable happiness that somehow makes one...

11 Mar 13

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annoying people

starirai @starirai (21) • Philippines 11 Mar 13

I know I'm a chubby person, and I accept what body I have today. But sometimes some people would always comment of your body, and it's kinda annoying, everytime we see each other that is always his/her comment. They letting my...

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obe212003 You know what? Some people would never stop criticizing, good or bad, especially relating to physical attributes or features. The aesthetic value physically comprises only a small part of who we are and what really gets a big piece of the pie is within us,...

11 Mar 13

Which is best, True Love or First Love?

borgieboy7 @borgieboy7 (72) • Philippines 11 Mar 13

I have my first love before 8 years back then. I love the person so much that I cannot forget anything about her. I remember her birthday, how we met, our sweetest moment, our affections and places that we've been through as we're...

first love

love

true love

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obe212003 First, past, current, true or fling, i think the important part is you continue to feel love and be loved. Everything changes with time and the part of you that you should sustain is to have a clear understanding of how you feel, what makes happy and complete...

11 Mar 13

Am I a difficult person?

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 11 Mar 13

I'm working for a private company. My boss' family usually gather at office to talk and eating or drinking. They even permit their dog going to here. As me, it's terrible. I can't stand fast food smell from their daughter,...

office

work

working environment

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obe212003 No, actually i think you're just being yourself and as a matter fact it seems you really are at odds with things that you don't like and expressing them out would really define who you are. Patience and perseverance are real good virtues in the company set up...

11 Mar 13

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haist... sometimes my mother is so annoying

missjahn @missjahn (4574) • Philippines 9 Mar 13

gosh, it is twelve midnight in here. and kindly know what is my mother doing at this very hour. she is having a laundry! what?! yes, washing clothes manually as she washed the soapy clothes in the faucet. grrrrrrr... all of us...

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obe212003 My mom is 75 and she is doing house chores faster than my wife, lol! She always has a good sweat by doing so day in and day out, and says it feels good, meaning healthier. So out of respect, i just let her do what she enjoys most and probably making her...

9 Mar 13

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Lonely Night

jearl02 @jearl02 (211) • Philippines 5 Mar 13

I married my wife 2 years ago. IN 2 years, we are always together with our son. Yesterday, my wife went to her parents with our son. She is expected to be back home tomorrow. Last night, I was all alone. I can say that it was a...

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obe212003 Yeah, i know how you feel, feeling all alone. I guess that's why we love someone so dearly, life seems almost complete, and you would only know how much you love someone if you somehow loses him/her.

5 Mar 13

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