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PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 14 Jan 10

The old saying goes: sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. Now I've had many things that caused physical pain, and still do, but...what of the emotional pain or damage to...

emotions

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PeacefulWmn9 You are welcome, Deepak. I would give you the BR all over again, as I felt your response very deserving of it. I always appreciate your kind input and your wisdom. Karen

5 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 7 Jan 10

Hello all. I remember when raising my children, their were certain words in our home that were not allowed...not cuss words, for that was a given, but other words that were no no's. We did not say things like...

family

forbidden family words

language

parenting

respect in families

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PeacefulWmn9 Hello Cloud Your guidelines sounded much as my own were for my children. Words should be chosen with great respect and encouragement. I am glad you've implemented such great standards and have passed those on to your children. Karen

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 11 Jan 10

Hello to you all Sometimes, when life has been very difficult, not only the body, but the mind and the spirit long for a "a place of healing." For some it could be right inside their home or their own back yard....

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PeacefulWmn9 Hi Arystine Yes, when lost and sad, a church can indeed be very healing, as can be praying to God. Everyday I could not go through without saying prayers :) Thank you for such a lovely response. Karen

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 14 Jan 10

The old saying goes: sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. Now I've had many things that caused physical pain, and still do, but...what of the emotional pain or damage to...

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PeacefulWmn9 I forgot to add that you are right, too, about the financial abuse. For one who is disabled and cannot draw the money because of the husband's salary, and he refuses to pay for even basic health care co-pays, or leaves you for dead to go plow his cousins...

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 14 Jan 10

The old saying goes: sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. Now I've had many things that caused physical pain, and still do, but...what of the emotional pain or damage to...

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PeacefulWmn9 I so much agree, Dana. No one is ever physically abused without it being accompanied by verbal abuse. The combination of the two is life-altering. We survive, but we are "different" than we would have been had we not been exposed to that kind of thing. People...

3 Feb 10

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PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 14 Jan 10

The old saying goes: sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. Now I've had many things that caused physical pain, and still do, but...what of the emotional pain or damage to...

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PeacefulWmn9 We are obviously talking about two entirely different kinds of "words." But I already said that, so will not beat it to death, Canellita.

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 14 Jan 10

The old saying goes: sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. Now I've had many things that caused physical pain, and still do, but...what of the emotional pain or damage to...

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PeacefulWmn9 Hello dear friend. I also think the opposite is true. Physical wounds often heal much faster than emotional wounds, for the emotions are so greatly connected to the spirit. One should always choose words with great care and...

3 Feb 10

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PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 14 Jan 10

The old saying goes: sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me. Now I've had many things that caused physical pain, and still do, but...what of the emotional pain or damage to...

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PeacefulWmn9 Thank you, Sky, and I always appreciate your well thought out responses :))

3 Feb 10

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 1 Feb 10

over and over I have read pages now what happened to my earnings? I had almost ten dollars towards payout, or I had twenty dollars, and was just gone a short while? What happened? Yet these same complainers have never bothered to...

gonna read it one day soon

too busy

too bored

too long

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PeacefulWmn9 Like you, I don't even remember how I found MyLot...but it was by accident. I do recall reading the how-to things, though. But I'm sure glad I DID find it :))

3 Feb 10

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vanny @vandana7 (100526) • India 1 Feb 10

And there are other such things that need explanations as well. For example some large geometic patterns coming up overnight on large farms (I wish somebody would give me the word for it - I am aging fast so I dont remember - I...

bermuda triangle

wonder

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PeacefulWmn9 Even scientists have no concrete explanation as yet, but yes, too many accidents and disappearences have happened there for it to be mere coincidence. I would think, like you, that something would show up on satellite! Karen

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 27 Jan 10

Hello all. I was just watching a TV show where a busy mom, wife, and loving relative literally found her alone time for 15 minutes in the bathroom at her place of work. She read for a while, polished her...

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PeacefulWmn9 LOL Dawn There are fewer interruptions once the kiddos are all grown up. Then it actually gets TOO quiet at times lol. Happy mylotting to you. Karen

3 Feb 10

humairaku @humairaku (2038) • Indonesia 2 Feb 10

How do you feel if nobody gives comment to your discussion? will you feel so horrible? or just neglect it and start a new discussion?

comment

discussion

question

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PeacefulWmn9 Sometimes it's interesting to discuss the latest on the news...or if you go through the list of interests on mylot, that might trigger something to discuss or a good question to ask. Also, you can comment on something you've been through or...

3 Feb 10

k sridharprasad @yugasini (12893) • Secunderabad, India 2 Feb 10

hi mylot friends,First i am using Internet Explorer for browsing after that i know about Mozilla then i have started Mozilla for browsing instead of Internet Explorer,when both were not worked in my computer i have installed...

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PeacefulWmn9 Hi Yugasini...if you do a search for "google chrome" it will take you to the site, and there it will tell you all about the features.

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 1 Feb 10

Hello all I've just read a couple of discussions that have really made me think: just how much work on a relationship is TOO much work?? I know we need to nurture and tend any relationship for it to flourish,...

love

relationships

relationships and effort

working at relationships

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PeacefulWmn9 Hi Jess True, and you said it well...more work than reward is not a good sign. And if in re-evaluation, nothing can be agreed upon that will make it better, something is wrong. I agree, some relationships do require more effort than...

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 1 Feb 10

Hello all I've just read a couple of discussions that have really made me think: just how much work on a relationship is TOO much work?? I know we need to nurture and tend any relationship for it to flourish,...

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PeacefulWmn9 Hi 7 Yes, the kind of stress that can kill one! What you said about most of it being a joy is what I meant ... it should come naturally and be a labor of love...not of direly hard work. Something is amiss if it is that difficult for two...

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 1 Feb 10

Hello all I've just read a couple of discussions that have really made me think: just how much work on a relationship is TOO much work?? I know we need to nurture and tend any relationship for it to flourish,...

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PeacefulWmn9 You sure have that right! There are far worse things in the world than living alone. I like the freedom and peace of it and if I want companionship, I can go visiting or have company over. Happy Weds. to you, too :) Karen

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 16 Jan 10

I believe all of us have what some call "gut" instincts. It is that little feeling within us that tells us we are about to make a good choice or a bad choice. Every time I have gone against that "gut" instinct,...

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PeacefulWmn9 Hello to you It is good when we can learn from our prior experiences...and I'm glad you do listen to those good instincts you've acquired in life :) Karen

3 Feb 10

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 16 Jan 10

I believe all of us have what some call "gut" instincts. It is that little feeling within us that tells us we are about to make a good choice or a bad choice. Every time I have gone against that "gut" instinct,...

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PeacefulWmn9 My pleasure to give you the BR. How lovely it would be to meet you and talk, face to face :)) Perhaps if God wills it, someday I will be able to come to your country! God's blessings to you Karen

3 Feb 10

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PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 28 Jan 10

We, as people, can be very innovative when we wish to be undisturbed or dodge someone. Whether it was in your childhood or adulthood, where was the oddest or most unique place you've ever hidden from someone? Why...

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PeacefulWmn9 Hi Dawn...those are all very good choices...especially if you STILL hide under the bed...who would think to look for a mom there? LOL Karen

3 Feb 10

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dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 5 Nov 09

As the holidays come upon us yet again, it is the time of the year that I get nostalgic. I think about the numerous ways that I have been blessed in my life. And I'm sure that there are other people that do the same. Please share...

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PeacefulWmn9 Babybarbaso...what beautiful blessings you have listed! Dorann, I'm not sure if the BR is for me or for BabyB, but thank you! xoxo Karen

3 Feb 10

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