phoenix35

@phoenix35 (384)

Philippines • Age 49

Joined myLot 13 years ago

Love, life and inspiration.

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Can friends actually be good lovers?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 5 Sep 12

I don't really know where the boundaries go. Sometimes, there are people who set a "friend zone" so to speak and you should never cross that thin line between friend and lover. I'm asking, if ever you cross that line, do...

friends

friendzone

lovers

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phoenix35 Friends can be great lovers... yes. Unfortunately, I do not give friends a chance. Friends for me are like brothers and its really creepy for me to get intimate with a 'brother' even though its only a thought :)

5 Sep 12

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Write what pops out of my head

STOUTjodee @STOUTjodee (3573) • United States 5 Sep 12

Hope I don't get deleted for not staying on track on mylot. I've been answering some discussions with not what a person would expect. I'm not saying I'm not reading the discussions, it's more like I'm thinking "out of the box." I...

thinking outside the box

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phoenix35 I guess sometimes, I think 'out of the box'. When I get bored lol... Well, we must break free sometimes. We should be ready for the consequences though :D

5 Sep 12

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how to say sorry?

missjahn @missjahn (4574) • Philippines 5 Sep 12

how to say sorry to the person you had lapsed yourself? i mean, saying sorry which came from our mouth would be so easy. but the fear that you might be neglected scares you at a very highest level. what would be the other possible...

being sorry

humbling down yourself

saying sorry

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phoenix35 Saying sorry can be hard but it's really necessary especially when it's our own fault. But, even though its not our wrong doings, at least for me. I say sorry just to stop the feud. Life is just to short. We should never hold grudges against other people.

5 Sep 12

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Is it just me, or is it really annoying...

Raine38 @Raine38 (12391) • United States 9 Aug 12

when someone near you coughs or sneezes without covering their mouth? Yep, this neighbor who just passed me by, going out our gate, me going in, just let loose a big sneeze right beside me. Didn't even bother to cover it up. And...

coughing

manners

sneezing

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phoenix35 Ha ha! That is annoying even for me. If someone I do not know, coughs in front of me I would frown. But if someone I know does that to me, I'll give him or her a lecture lol

10 Aug 12

Are animation movies "silly cartoons"?

oindy54 @oindy54 (3445) • India 6 Aug 12

Well, this is what someone told me recently. I love watching most genres of movies and animation is one such genre that I enjoy a lot. I don't know why but I find that many of these films give me unalloyed, pure joy and they...

animated films

animation

delight

enjoying animated films

joy

movies

watching movies

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phoenix35 Hi Oindy, whenever silly cartoons are mentioned I always think of my father. He used to compare me to other teenagers back then that I should be watching basketball instead of wasting my time on cartoons. Well, he was drunk with his friends back...

7 Aug 12

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Your Pattern in Replying to Discussions

mtrguanlao @mtrguanlao (5522) • Philippines 6 Aug 12

Hi friends and mylotters! I have unlimited time online so whenever I visit mylot,I usually just reply to my dear friends' discussions here. But lately,I tried browsing to other's discussions too and find it very...

discussions

mylot

replies

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phoenix35 Hello sis, I don't really have a pattern here. I can only reply to two to three discussions here because I am so picky of interesting topics. I do browse on friends discussions first but when I think I cannot relate, I simply do not respond he he Anyway, I...

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Girls Fight I Pity Them :(

bhabycatch013 @bhabycatch013 (9150) • Philippines 5 Aug 12

hi mylotters, The rain has stopped and it's getting dark here as I heard a commotion so I go outside and look what is happening. Gee bunch of girls are fighting and shouting to each others I hate it cause they should not...

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phoenix35 That was scary and sad to say, its common here too. Its really shameful for girls to fight especially if they are in school getting an education. They should know that fighting is for barbarians. In my part, I am more worried because I have a daughter and in...

5 Aug 12

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eyelash extension--ever had one?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 5 Aug 12

For the first time, I just had my eyelash extension today and I think I am happy about the result although I did not choose to have the very long and thick one so it will have a natural appearance. Indeed, it is very...

eyelash extension

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phoenix35 I tried eyelash extension once because I don't have flattering eyelashes. But, it didn't worked out for me. It was so itchy. I was not accustomed, so if ever there's a chance again, I won't try eyelash extension again.

5 Aug 12

as long as i cannot see mylot notification in my email - i am so much okay!

missjahn @missjahn (4574) • Philippines 4 Aug 12

i really cannot stop myself to laugh when i can remember a thing that i received mylot notification in my email being used in here. it is because few of my discussions were being deleted and to think that those garnered few...

deleted discussions

lapses in mylot guidelines

mylot discussion

mylot notification

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phoenix35 Hey, its OK. We learn from our mistakes. Mylot haven't deleted any discussion of mine (yet) but I have response that have been deleted because the discussion about those topics have been deleted. I did feel bad the first and second time because I have enjoyed...

5 Aug 12

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'Spam' and 'Scam'

oindy54 @oindy54 (3445) • India 29 Jul 12

I was just thinking, these two words seem to be an integral part of the online world!For me, I have dealt with both in so many years of my being online and trying to earn money. What are your thoughts friends?

dealing with spam

opinions

scam sites

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phoenix35 Since I spam on my spammers lol... I can tolerate that. But, scams? No way! Victim of scams gain nothing. With spammers, we'll simply remove them or block them.

4 Aug 12

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Postman always rings twice

thezone @thezone (9394) • Ireland 29 Jul 12

http://blogs.findlaw.com/legally_weird/2011/04/mailman-caught-defecating-in-yard-on-postal-route.html "There's even a shot of the poop itself." Tbhoughts?

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phoenix35 That was gross and shame on him. People peeing in public places can be enough to raise an eyebrow but for someone defecating at one's private property? But, on the second thought, maybe he's got a real emergency. Let's forgive him, OK :)

31 Jul 12

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What Do You Hate Most About Yourself?

Umaiya @Umaiya (43) • India 29 Jul 12

I am like very straigh forward, verrry. Sometimes i sai things i am not supposed to and hurt others feelings. I hate this thing about me alot but i cant help it, i would sat at times like that my mouth is incharge not my mind. I...

hate

hurt

straight forward

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phoenix35 Sometimes, I am like that too. When I'm angry I can say the meanest things, then I'll feel very sorry later. I'll apologize, of course but the bad thing about it is, the damage has already been done. I would then, make a promise to myself to control my mouth...

31 Jul 12

What do you do when nothing seems to work right?

sreekutty @sreekutty (1051) • India 29 Jul 12

It is one of those times when nothing seems to work right for me. knoji has low SEO, iwriter- I am not getting compatible assignments and expertscolumn is down at the moment. I feel exasperated. Have you faced such situations and...

how to overcome frustrations

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phoenix35 I usually quit whenever I'm frustrated. And you are not alone. You know, I tried my very best whenever I write for Knoji or for some other writing site. Not only that, I study on a topic if its going to have a good ranking, I also promote endlessly for people...

31 Jul 12

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In my next life, I just wish to be with her....

mr_pearl @mr_pearl (5018) • India 28 Jul 12

Hello :-)... I just discovered that I still miss my first love. I mean, I've been seeing her face all the time, maybe hallucinating... I am kind of searching for her, I guess.. Few girls came in my life even after that, but I...

love

next life

rebirth

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phoenix35 You are so in love with this girl. I pray that you have your second chance. But, do you think it's impossible now that you can't be with her anymore? Can you still reach her to say your heart's intention? If you still can then you have that chance my friend.

29 Jul 12

How do you enjoy your life?

mrfdg1972 @mrfdg1972 (3237) • Philippines 27 Jul 12

I am so burden with problems and hardships, all these i accept, truly i enjoy working my heart out for my family, seldom do we have time for each other, ( My wife and I) All our kids are from 12,14,17 years old. we are sending...

enjoying life

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phoenix35 If I would compare my life to my rich cousins, I will really feel bad. I know that no matter how hard I work, I can never taste the life they have. But, I do believe that God has a good purpose for me and for that I trust in Him. My life can be stressful...

29 Jul 12

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What did you learn from Pride & Prejudice, a book by J. Austen?

desiree91 @desiree91 (515) • Malaysia 26 Jul 12

I managed to get hold of this book last year and it's one of my favourites since then. What fascinates me most is Austen's writing style, as I'm also very interested in British English more than any other language I've...

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phoenix35 Hi desiree, you are right, it takes twice a read to appreciate Pride and Prejudice. However, I loved it the first time. I am always intrigued by Darcy and Elizabeth whenever they see each other. And I admire Elizabeth. If I have the time, I am going to read...

27 Jul 12

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Fast Music will Cause You to Eat More

caseyluvsyah16 @caseyluvsyah16 (74) • Philippines 26 Jul 12

A study was done that concludes the connection between music and eating habit. The researchers said that when people eat with fast music they tend to eat a lot. However, when people are subjected to slow music they'll tend to eat...

eating habits

music

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phoenix35 I think, it's true. I get the same experience when I eat while a music plays. I eat slow and relaxed with the sound of mellow, jazz tunes. But, with rock music - that's really fast, I eat very quickly.

27 Jul 12

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It Finally Happened...A Lizard Fell on Me

Raine38 @Raine38 (12391) • United States 25 Jul 12

Remember all those discussions about house lizards, them falling off the ceiling, landing to us...well, it finally happened to me tonight. I was watching some cartoons with my kid siblings; I was seated on the couch that's near...

house lizards

lizard landing on you

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phoenix35 OMG, I am so terrified of those things. I will not know what to do. You know, our room, our bathroom have none of these because my husband knows I'll freak out so he gets them out. I feel so sorry for you, it must have been so cold? I don't want to imagine :(

27 Jul 12

Are heavy equipment trucks hard to drive?

caseyluvsyah16 @caseyluvsyah16 (74) • Philippines 24 Jul 12

Yes, I haven't forgotten I'm a girl (or a lady). But I've always wanted to drive bulldozers and backhoes---the big construction vehicles. I see them pass by a car I ride and my eyes sparkle. LOL I also want to operate that thing...

bulldozers and backhoes for girls

drive trucks

heavy equipment

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phoenix35 One time, my father was teaching me to drive. I drove a van and its heavy. With bulldozers and other big trucks? I am sure they can be very heavy and hard to manipulate. I've seen women drove trucks though. Maybe we'll just have to practice lol

25 Jul 12

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Dream as if real one

asdomencil @asdomencil (4265) • Philippines 24 Jul 12

My son's nanny told us that she got a dream at around 3 in the morning that my wife is alling hs brother telling him that we are going to fire her because whe just let the hot water on a kettle stayed in the floor where my son can...

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phoenix35 Dreams that can seem very real can be terrifying. I had one 3 nights ago. I was so scared that before confiding it to my husband, I whispered this bad dream to a plant. Maybe, I'm a Little superstitious but they say when you tell a bad dream to a plant, it...

25 Jul 12

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