qianlizhifeng

@qianlizhifeng (468)

China • Age 42

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Have you ever went from sad to angry?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 26 Apr 13

I have had a lot of things happen in my life over the past few years. At first when I started having problems I just felt really sad and depressed about it. Sad that things I hoped for weren't coming out like I would like them to....

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qianlizhifeng This morning I watched some news on TV when I noticed a woman whose house was destroyed in the big earthquake on April 20th.What's worse,she didn't receive the pensions from the government because of the bad traffic condition in the area.However,she didn't get...

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What are the main habits to make my life happy?....

sri @gamyam (530) • Hyderabad, India 7 Apr 13

I always questions myself about the happy moments in my life throughout the day... But till now i have not received any sort of the best answer for the happiness in my life. Actually i never utilizes my valuable time to get more...

good habits

happy life

things to get joy

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qianlizhifeng In my opinion,happiness comes from our own mind,though most of us are too busy to find them.Sunshine never leaves us even when sometimes there is some wind and rain in our life.To make ourselves happy,we should try to own a heart which will help us find...

7 Apr 13

Yesterday Happy, Today Sad

asdomencil @asdomencil (4265) • Philippines 7 Apr 13

Yesterday we are happy spending the weekend with my family. Suddenly in the evening,, my wife received some messages from her brother and they got an argument via text which resulted into some conflict. This morning I received...

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qianlizhifeng Well,I think we can't predict when we will be happy and when we will get unhappy.When we meet with some unpleasant affairs,what should we do?How can we try to get rid of something that may bring us unhappiness? There are always all kinds of problem in our...

7 Apr 13

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April Fool's Prank

tehpau @tehpau (340) • Malaysia 31 Mar 13

1st April is here. Do you enjoy playing pranks today? I don't do it anymore now that I am 'old'. Today reminds me of my school days. There was once on April Fool's Day we tricked our teachers. The top two classes in school decided...

april fool

prank

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qianlizhifeng My friends seldomly make jokes on me,especially after we graduated from universities.Actually,life will be full of fun,if someone played some kind jokes with us.But some jokes will also bring us bad results. One day more than five years ago,I returned to my...

1 Apr 13

How young is TOO young to marry?

valentinesdiner @valentinesdiner (1214) • United States 31 Mar 13

I know that there are different laws in different states and countries, but from your point of view when is an individual too young to make the decision to marry another person? Also, what is the law in your state or country...

love and marriage

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qianlizhifeng In our country,men of 22 and women of 20 can be married.Because the population in our country is very large,we have to try to control the increasing of population. In my opinion,marriage requires that the couple should both be able to understand what marriage...

31 Mar 13

i love online shopping

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 27 Mar 13

not because I can pay, but because it is my brother who would pay anyway. I would just ask him to buy for me. I don't want to do it myself since I just feel it is time consuming to do the process of paying online and choosing the...

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qianlizhifeng Online shopping is popular in the world these days.All my friends have the experience of online shopping.I also buy something online because of its convenience. However,we should make sure the web where we are buying things should be safe.Last year,I booked...

27 Mar 13

What to do with my days off?

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 25 Mar 13

I just found out I have Friday off from all jobs, Sunday from both, and also Monday from my day job. I sat there going what can I do, Friday I am going to the all things pet show with a few friends and making a day out of it....

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qianlizhifeng I think you must be lucky to have some free time,but you must arrange your free time previously.Why not make a plan,and then enjoy yourself?

25 Mar 13

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Have you ever thought of divorce ??

Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 24 Mar 13

I don't know why,i only married for just 1 year however i thought of divorce many times during the year. my husband loves me,and i think i love him. we live with my parents in law,honestly,i don't like them,but our relationship is...

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qianlizhifeng First of all,I should say sorry to read what you have posted on mylot.I think there must be something wrong in your new founded family.Well,before marrying,lovers think it romantic to live together without considering enough about the reality.For the person...

25 Mar 13

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Do you like to play the cards in train?

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 25 Mar 13

Few days before total 7 members some cousin sisters, brother and their husband and wife was travel in train from Akola to Raipur. Our journey was long so my cousin brother brings the cards and say play it. We were all playing...

playing cards

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qianlizhifeng I haven't taken trains for long.In my memory,there was always no room for us pessengers to sit down on a train.On the train,we often exchange the only seat with our friends,because there might be only one seat for us.If the journey took us long hours,we would...

25 Mar 13

Walking to school or work can be fantastic

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 20 Mar 13

At rush hour many cars are on the road, trains have busy crowds on them and buses can be slow moving due to all the traffic. It takes us fifteen minutes walk to or from our home to my son's school. I push my son along in his...

school

walking

work

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qianlizhifeng Three years ago,I worked in Hangzhou which is a big city in China.I didn't have a car,and I had to get up at about six in the morning.Then,after a quick breakfast on the road,I had to catch the early bus with hundreds of people who also went to work far...

20 Mar 13

Mother-in-Law

Always smiling @allknowing (137552) • India 19 Mar 13

Are you the lucky one that you have no problems with your mother-in-law? Or is she the lucky one? The situation becomes unfortunate when you like her but she does not like you. Or she likes you but you don't. What is your...

relationships

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qianlizhifeng When I got married,my mother was a little worried about the relationship between my wife and her.There had been some stories in our community showing it was a little difficult for a mother-in-law and a son-in-law or a daughter-in-law.So my mother always...

20 Mar 13

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Remember the Old songs?

bluebutterfly20 @bluebutterfly20 (462) • United States 19 Mar 13

Im watching an infomercial right now showing the singers and listening to the Old Songs before. It made me smile and think of my parents singing it. Songs like "Raindrops keep falling in my head, You light up my life, She believes...

infomercial

old songs

parents

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qianlizhifeng Old songs are not only just songs,they to some extent,are something wonderful in our memory and soul.When I am tired,I will listen some old light songs,which make me relaxed.When I am depressed and lonely,I will listen to some soothing music.Sometimes,some old...

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Another Officemate is leaving... =(

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 14 Mar 13

And its her last day today, officially that is. She will be back next week to offset her absences so those won't be paid leaves anymore for her. But she's such a great company and I really can't believe that she is leaving us so...

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qianlizhifeng I think it's normal for everyone of us to be sad when we see our friend leave his or her company.But you needn't be sad for too long. Since she is your close friend,your friendship will be kept no matter if she is your colleage or not.In addition,you needn't...

14 Mar 13

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Knock on my door or at least call my name before you enter my room

mrswhitfield @mrswhitfield (2044) • Indonesia 14 Mar 13

I am so annoyed with one girl, she live next to my room. There are 4 of us renting room upstair and her room is next to mine. She is very cheerful, pretty, and friendly, such a perfect friend but one thing I don't like from her is...

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qianlizhifeng From your discussion,I can feel that you don't want to be annoyed but at the same time you don't want to hurt the girl,either.It showed the close relationship between the girl and you for the girl to enter your room without your permission.At least she treated...

14 Mar 13

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Your Mylot digest.... Are you waiting to see your discussion?

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 11 Mar 13

For those who depend using discussion through their mail notification like I am I must admit I happy to see it everyday in my notification and wishing to see my discussion to be on the list of top discussion. But...

digest

discussion

mylot

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qianlizhifeng As for,I usually open my email-box to check whether there is something that I'm interested in.I seldom read Your Mylot Digest,but always go the the website directly. When I think of something interesting or attractive,I will post some discussions on mylot to...

11 Mar 13

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What will happen to your online business if you die?

shaina228 @shaina228 (119) • Japan 10 Mar 13

My apology, this post is a little touchy. Sorry to those that are not comfortable talking about passing away or death. It is not bad to plan ahead. Today is the second year after the gigantic tsunami and uncountable earthquakes...

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qianlizhifeng I haven't imagined what would happen about my online business after my death.To some extent,my death may end all to me.I would not be able to control my oline words or articles,and it would not matter whether anyone would be interested or not.I would not care...

11 Mar 13

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Interesting thing happen in your life?

mayank147 @mayank147 (17) • India 6 Mar 13

As everybody in this world has something happen in their life that makes anyone happy or sad so whats the most interesting thing happen in your life share with us :)

intersting thing

life

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qianlizhifeng I've also met something interesting in my life.Just some days ago,I dreamed of the music that was only played at the funeral.It made me so scared that I woke up at night.What's more interesting,the next day when I went to the street,I saw some people were...

6 Mar 13

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It is so hard to maintain relationship in office.

512771751 @512771751 (1096) • China 4 Mar 13

I have worked for about half a year, and now I find that it is so hard to maintain relationship in office. I work in college, as a teacher, I thought I just have to prepare good lessons for my students, but now I know relationship...

relationship

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qianlizhifeng Some similar affairs happened to my wife these days,though she had been worked in her company for more than seven years.Last week,she told me that her boss required her to work at the construction site.But as we planned to have a baby this year,she talked to...

4 Mar 13

struggling with feelings

papascel @papascel (26) 8 Jan 13

I had known a person who suffer from bad feelings,she had felt herself as useless and she always blame herself even if we praise him of his good deeds.And he said to me that he is unworthy of happiness. How can I help to my...

struggling with feelings

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qianlizhifeng First of all,I think you should spend some time learning about your friend's past life.Did she experience some failure in her past life,which made her disappointed about herself.Unless you do some learning about what's in her heart,you are not able to help...

8 Jan 13

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I pick up cans on the streets

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 5 Jan 13

My daughter is embarrassed and makes fun of me because I started picking up cans off the sides of the streets while walking. Hey it cleanes up the neighborhood and I get extra cash for taking them into the recycling.

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qianlizhifeng I did some similar things several years ago, and was laughed at by some strangers.On a cold afternoon,I was taking a bus to the city not far away when I noticed a purse with some cash under the seat.I picked it up and asked if anyone had lost it.But no one...

5 Jan 13

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