RaiscaraAvalon

@RaiscaraAvalon (250)

United States • Age 41

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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RaiscaraAvalon's Activity

When We Meet... Will You Be The Same "You" I Knew Of?

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 12 Dec 11

Hi Lotters and Friends Christmas Time, New Year Time.... Holiday Plans time. The Scenario: So let us think about this - You get a chance to meet a Fellow MyLotter for the very First Time in the real world. You...

meetin a mylotter

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RaiscaraAvalon Yes. I am the same online as I am offline, though I'm sure there would still be many differences, as one cannot see expressions or even get tone through online only conversation. Would I be nervous? Nah, unless we were meeting at my house! ;)

20 Dec 11

My myLot and how it has changed

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 13 Dec 11

So I'm sitting here, actually on myLot for a change, looking at my status in the top 10 (number of posts) and thinking how I'm going to be passed up by more people soon because I can't get on here during the day any more. And...

auld lang syne

memories

the way we were

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RaiscaraAvalon There is quite a bit I don't miss about the 'old Mylot', like the ridiculous discussions started. Seems to me that there are better discussions started, and more real answers vs 'just trying to get my money' answers. I haven't been back all that long, nor have...

20 Dec 11

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Can a man be just friends with a woman?

Nezavisima Deskata @nezavisima (7408) • Bulgaria 14 Dec 11

how can you think friends a man can only holder with only one woman. if he does not have any other thoughts or just a true friend how you think. I always think that there can be no friendship between man and wife because...

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RaiscaraAvalon Yes a man and a woman can have a purely platonic relationship. I have a male friend like that, there is no interest in 'other' activities at all. On either end. He is my best friend. ;) Of course not all male/female relationships are like that. And yes, a man...

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Are You Fond Of Coffee?

srjac0902 @srjac0902 (1169) • Italy 15 Dec 11

Everybody know that coffee contains Caffeine. Experts say that caffeine is considered a safe ingredient. caffeine excites the nerves cells of the brain. But continuous consumption can lead to adverse reactions in some people . It...

stimulator

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RaiscaraAvalon I can't live without coffee, and trust me, no one wants me to live without it either! I have to have my coffee in the morning, it makes me human. ;) I also love the taste of coffee, so I'll sometimes drink it just to drink it. I also always have a pot ready...

20 Dec 11

Do you consider laptop as a necessity?

JS @Jess1991 (77) • Indonesia 15 Dec 11

In this modern era, it is common to see people having PCs or laptops. The devices have been very useful mainly to ease tasks, connect with the people around the world, getting more information, entertainment and even for games....

laptop

laptop as necessity

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RaiscaraAvalon Oh yes, a laptop is definitely a necessity for me. I have a desktop PC, but also need a laptop for when I can't sit at my desk. I do most of my work on a computer, so I need both due to several health issues that make it difficult to stay in one spot too long....

20 Dec 11

Christmas Presents; Money or Wrapped Gifts, which do you prefer?

PalePurple @PalePurple (157) • Philippines 16 Dec 11

Christmas is a time where people give and receive presents. Sometimes people even have wish lists of what they wanted to receive. Even though you sometimes wished for a gift, it sometimes turned out that it is not the right gift...

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RaiscaraAvalon I prefer both, depending on the situation. If someone buys me something I've asked for, then I prefer wrapped gifts. But otherwise I prefer money or a gift card so I can buy what I want. Usually I'm in the money or gift card side of the argument, because most...

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Is it Harder to LISTEN than to TALK?

incus99 @incus99 (1083) • Philippines 12 Aug 10

When a friend approaches you for advice... are you the type of person who voluntarily talk and talk or are you the type of friend who hears out a friend in need? In my personal experience, often times its the time invested to...

advices

friends

listener

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RaiscaraAvalon I do both. I listen to what my friend has to say, so that I know whether to give advice or just a hug. A lot of times I spend my talking time either giving advice or asking questions to lead them to their own answers. Or I'm giving encouragement, depending on...

15 Aug 10

80 emails and counting...

T_Diamond @T_Diamond (965) • New Zealand 9 Aug 10

I receive about 80emails from myLot on average everyday. Discussions started by friends, invites, messages, new replies to discussions...the whole shabang. Sometimes I lose track of time while going through...

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RaiscaraAvalon I turned off all but the daily digest. :) So I only get 1 email per day just about. Sure I miss a lot of discussions that way, but right now I'm so busy with other things that MyLot has kind of taken a step back. I get about a hundred emails a day easily, so...

14 Aug 10

who is the best guitarist in the world for you?

chipesterkhan @chipesterkhan (2925) • Philippines 8 Aug 10

as a guitarist i have always been fascinated with other people who play guitar better or worse than i do i have my personal favorites with very familiar names like eddie van halen (evh), slash (guns and roses), vitto bratta...

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RaiscaraAvalon Randy Rhodes, hands down. He may be dead, but I think there are very few guitarists living today who can touch him.

12 Aug 10

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NO Savings. No marriage. No plans. OMG!!

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

I asked my boyfriend for the first time if he's ready to get married with me but he said no. I asked again after a year if he's ready to settle down with me but again he said.. he doesn't have enough money. Once again, i asked him...

love

marriage

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RaiscaraAvalon A man only does what he wants to honey. Sure, give him the chance to discuss the issues you are having in the relationship, but be prepared to walk. He could have some important reasons for delaying things, but from the looks of things, it could very well be...

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Developing A Concept of Time

RaiscaraAvalon @RaiscaraAvalon (250) • United States 3 Aug 10

I have absolutely no concept of time. I know that days pass, mostly due to the fact that there is light then it is dark, but after that I have no concept of the fact that a week has passed, or a month, or even a year! It causes me...

performance

time

time management

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have you ever liked eating oatmeal?

Popsiecles @skbh12 (2946) • Philippines 2 Aug 10

hi mylotter! i have just discovered last july 8th of the morning that oatmeal is a tastey good food. ahaha! at the age of 25 was the moment i realized that oatmeal was sooo good.. or should i say DELICIOSO! hahaha. i know you...

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RaiscaraAvalon Personally I love oatmeal, and always have. Even better is Cream of Wheat. I used to love to sprinkle bran on my oatmeal as a kid. Odd, I know. :)

3 Aug 10

Death to Animals

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 5 Jan 10

Those that we are about to eat anyway. This discussion is really aimed at the carnivores amongst us. I am a very happy meat eater and understand pretty well the process by which our burgers, T Bone steaks, Lamb cutlets, Chicken...

slaughter

yummy meat

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RaiscaraAvalon Without batting an eye. I'd rather never eat a vegetable again then not eat meat again. I have issues with the cleaning aspects of it, mostly because I refuse to touch anything dead until a decent amount of time has passed. But if I absolutely had to do it, I...

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Do you take medicine immediately?

dolce_vita78 @dolce_vita78 (8062) • Philippines 5 Jan 10

When you do not feel good, do you take medicine immediately? For example, when you have a headache, do you take aspirin or ibuprofen immediately? Or, do you wait for a few minutes because the pain might be very temporary? Are...

medicine

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RaiscaraAvalon I very rarely take medications of any sort, unless there is no way around it. I'll use other methods before I have to take a pill, either relaxation, laying down, wet compress, drinking water, eating something, making myself a tea or tincture. Medication is...

6 Jan 10