rdcortezjr

@rdcortezjr (30)

Philippines • Age 45

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Comments (14)

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What do you and your partner avoid talking about?

magojordan @magojordan (3252) • Philippines 15 Sep 08

Communication is very important in a relationship but of course we have to be careful of what we say to avoid conflicts in it. So tell me is there anything that you and your partner avoid discussing about?

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rdcortezjr Exactly! Keeping things to myself really stresses me out so I tell her that this is the way I feel at the moment and that it may change when I get to share it with her.

15 Sep 08

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husband vs wife

saroodebolan @saroodebolan (408) • Pakistan 14 Sep 08

hey people, do you think, our ever experienced that a husband do not like his wife to be better than him... in context of education, achievements, and etc...wht you people think?

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rdcortezjr Galena is right. There are things I'm good at, and there are things that I really suck at. Men who feel threatened by "better" women don't have the balls to be called men. It all boils down to respect. Respect what each of us can and can't do, and accept...

15 Sep 08

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Should wives always be submissive to their husbands?

rdcortezjr @rdcortezjr (30) • Philippines 22 Jul 08

We are newlyweds, barely six months. We have had a lot fights, what with all the adjustments newlyweds encounter. Whenever things come up, we usually talk about our own opinions and go from there. I want this to happen in my way,...

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rdcortezjr That's what I'm talking about! If its for the family, and it won't harm anybody, I really think the husband should have his way.

6 Aug 08

Should wives always be submissive to their husbands?

rdcortezjr @rdcortezjr (30) • Philippines 22 Jul 08

We are newlyweds, barely six months. We have had a lot fights, what with all the adjustments newlyweds encounter. Whenever things come up, we usually talk about our own opinions and go from there. I want this to happen in my way,...

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rdcortezjr This is a good advice. If I give in and let her have her way, then the time, I will have my way.

6 Aug 08

What is your favorite pastime when it rains?

rdcortezjr @rdcortezjr (30) • Philippines 3 Aug 08

It's raining almost everyday here in Manila, Philippines. So what do you guys do when it rains?

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rdcortezjr Are you any good? Maybe you can upload some and we can comment? You could also sell it.

3 Aug 08

What is your favorite pastime when it rains?

rdcortezjr @rdcortezjr (30) • Philippines 3 Aug 08

It's raining almost everyday here in Manila, Philippines. So what do you guys do when it rains?

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rdcortezjr Hi there myliezl0903! Good to know there are a lot of Pinoys here. I'm really new so I don't have friends. Mind if I add you? Eating does seem to be better when its raining. I don't know why though.

3 Aug 08

What is your favorite pastime when it rains?

rdcortezjr @rdcortezjr (30) • Philippines 3 Aug 08

It's raining almost everyday here in Manila, Philippines. So what do you guys do when it rains?

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rdcortezjr Wow! Don't you ever take a break?! I'm kidding. ;) It's good to know your very productive. Best of luck on your blog!

3 Aug 08

What is your favorite pastime when it rains?

rdcortezjr @rdcortezjr (30) • Philippines 3 Aug 08

It's raining almost everyday here in Manila, Philippines. So what do you guys do when it rains?

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rdcortezjr Haha! You're funny! I also like reading. You know, I used to read a lot, at least one hour per day. Now, I'm finding myself too busy to read. Hope it rains really hard so I have a good reason to stay at home!

3 Aug 08

What is your favorite pastime when it rains?

rdcortezjr @rdcortezjr (30) • Philippines 3 Aug 08

It's raining almost everyday here in Manila, Philippines. So what do you guys do when it rains?

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rdcortezjr Yes. That's where I got this. They only interviewed well-known personalities. This way, ordinary people like us can share. I also like drinking hot choco, and maybe pairing that with some toast, jam, and butter!

3 Aug 08

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Couple...in one Office?

marcroswell @marcroswell (473) • Philippines 31 Jul 08

Would you like your husband/wife to be your officemate as well? Your thoughts...

same office with partner

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rdcortezjr I think it would still be the same. I this depends a lot on the people involve. My wife and are are pretty great together. Though we don't agree on all things, and we still have a lot of issues, we do support each other and will stick together no matter what....

1 Aug 08

Should wives always be submissive to their husbands?

rdcortezjr @rdcortezjr (30) • Philippines 22 Jul 08

We are newlyweds, barely six months. We have had a lot fights, what with all the adjustments newlyweds encounter. Whenever things come up, we usually talk about our own opinions and go from there. I want this to happen in my way,...

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rdcortezjr You got that right. Marriage needs a LOT of maintenance. We've been good listening to each other's opinion and feelings. It's just that times come when we both have good points (meaning we are both equally right), and it all comes down to who's decision should...

22 Jul 08

Should wives always be submissive to their husbands?

rdcortezjr @rdcortezjr (30) • Philippines 22 Jul 08

We are newlyweds, barely six months. We have had a lot fights, what with all the adjustments newlyweds encounter. Whenever things come up, we usually talk about our own opinions and go from there. I want this to happen in my way,...

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rdcortezjr That is going to be a tough decision. I have this feeling that my decision should be followed, but then again she does have her points to consider. Hmm..

22 Jul 08

Do you an your partner fight about money?

honeydew82174 @honeydew82174 (1720) • United States 21 Jul 08

We needed a second vehicle and bought a mini van this weekend. The hubby took it back this morning without talking to me! It really makes me mad he did that without talking to me. When he comes back I'm not going to...

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rdcortezjr Thanks! Nope! Not a shrink. Just plain old husband. My wife and I have experienced a lot of fights and adjustments during our first few months, and so I am learning a lot on how to handle relationships. Good luck!

21 Jul 08

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If a married woman has no kids, does that make her less of a woman?

polaris714 @polaris714 (607) • Philippines 17 Jul 08

My friend has been married for 10 years, but until now they are still childless. She really wants to have kids, but so far no luck. And lately she has been lamenting that she feels as if she makes a poor wife and inferior as a...

meaning of life

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rdcortezjr Yup! I just learned about MyLot a few days ago. So far it's been good. Lots of people with interesting things to say. Thanks!

21 Jul 08