relundad

@relundad (2310)

United States • Age 58

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Low on funds? Have you ever used dish detergent as your washing liquid?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 2 Aug 09

I have. I tried that this year. In the past I would add some Antibacterial dish detergent liquid in my clothes as it is washing. This added more suds and bubbles. But, now, when we are low on funds, we will buy Dawn Dish...

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relundad I have never had to resort to using an alternative for detergent. However it seems that its just a different form of soap, so it seems likely that it would be able to serve the purpose of cleaning something.

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I give advice, to only have, the advice I have given, not being followed..

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 2 Aug 09

I really get frustrated when I give out advice and the advice that I give out is not followed through, especially if someone comes to me for it. My mother-in-law has a bad habit of doing this to me. She will come and ask me for...

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relundad Just because someone asks for your opinion or your advice on something doesn't mean they should or will follow it. They may only be interested in your opinion for comparision. Or they could just be making conversation.

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What are you doing to earn money on the web?

diamania @diamania (7011) • Netherlands 30 May 09

I am very interested in what kind of things you guys and gals do on the internet to earn your money. I am not really looking for people who do ptc sites but also other things like monetizing your blog, offering paid assistance,...

how to

ways to earn

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relundad I definitely would not consider a forum such as this as "making money", I am a independent business owner of a multi-level marketing company that pays very well that is considered a home based business that all I have to do is "share the secret" with people....

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Respectful or disrespectful?

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 30 May 09

I recently found out I have Asperger's syndrome and the husband and i are trying to figure out what that all means and how we think differently and all that. Back in 2004 my mom passed away. She was quite eccentric and secure...

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relundad Usually the way that we respond at a time of death is usually based on tradition for our families without much thought. However I think that if a person has specifically stated their wishes upon their death then we should respect those and try to respond...

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In A Crummy Mood~~Seems My Deceased Mother's Lies Still Haunt Me

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 30 May 09

Anyone who knows me well, knows about the literal crap I went through with my mother who died on August 27, 2006. Well it seems her lies she had spread while alive, particularly about me are still haunting me. My mother did...

lies still haunt me

mother a pathological liar

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relundad That must be an awful thing to deal with especially so long after her death. However I am not really sure that I would consider them as actual lies, since she did have mental issues. Sounds more like it was just a manifestation of her illness. It would seem...

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Stay or Go

lisa0351 @lisa0351 (303) • United States 30 May 09

I guess I really started thinking....a person I know was in an accident and has basically been in a coma for a few weeks and hasnt improved, only worsened. He has major head injuries and damaged organs. Doctors said that there was...

death

life

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relundad I really think that we have a responsibility to make theses decisions so that our loved ones are not burdened with it. I do believe that if we have a family member that has never discussed what they would want us to do in a time such as this would definitely...

30 May 09

is there such thing as a "Good Boss"?

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 20 May 09

i have to say most of my bosses i have had havent been too bad but i know a lot of people that cant seem to get ONE good boss over several jobs not to mention a lot of them.. why does it seem that so many bosses are cruel or bad...

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relundad Hi Moonlit, It guess it depends on what or how you would define "good boss". But I can tell you that being a "good boss" doesn't necessarily mean that you know how to do the jobs under you. Your job is to make sure that you have someone in place that does...

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would you lie to someone your marital status?

goldief06 @goldief06 (45) • United States 17 Feb 09

when you meet someone you're attracted to, would you lie to that person your marital status? a friend and I went out dancing and she met someone so so cute, they exchanged phone numbers but she failed to tell him that she's...

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relundad For me honesty is always the best policy. I think its unfair to the other person to be anything other than honest. As well I think that marriage is a protected entity and should be treated as such. Whatever that person is seeking, she should try to find inside...

17 Feb 09

how can you tell that you are madly, overheels, inlove with someone?

goldief06 @goldief06 (45) • United States 17 Feb 09

a friend of mine can't stop texting this guy she met.. she's always laughing and gigling while texting him. could this be true love?

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relundad I don't think there is a "one size fit all" answer to your question. But it sounds like this person is just having fun with something and someone new. I find it hard to believe that you can truly love someone that you don't really know. If she recently met...

17 Feb 09

Babies

ScarletAlston @ScarletAlston (2693) • United States 15 Feb 09

Okay so I need some advice from the experienced mothers...I took the issue to my friends but I want some real advice..I just had my so five months ago and I had to take a pregnancy test last night..I cried like I won the Superbowl...

babies

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relundad Wow this is a simple question for such a complex answer! I don't there is a one size fit all answer. It seems from what you wrote here that it may be some degree of instability going on and I personally don't think thats the ideal time for a "planned...

15 Feb 09

I feel that I am very jinxed!!!!

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 9 Feb 09

It has been so much of bad things that have happened to me since I have been living. I have been through the worst situations and outcomes. I feel as if I am surrounded by bad luck. I feel very sad at times. It is like when I plan...

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relundad I personally don't believe in jinx, bad luck or good luck. I think that most things yield a certain result based on decisions that we make. I think that most times we continue to do the same things and expect different results. Sometimes after a period so...

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Professional behavior vs Unprofessional behavior...

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 9 Feb 09

If a manager is the owner of a motel or hotel. Should they show their customer more respect? If they want a customer out of their motel, should they allow a customer to remove their own personal items themselves? Or should the...

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relundad Professionalism is always expected. However at a certain point when we are on the receiving end of something less than what we want or expect, we quickly call it unprofessional, when it may not necessarily be the case. In the example that you give above,...

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What do you think of MLM...

sayasakti @sayasakti (167) • Malaysia 8 Feb 09

What do you think of MLM (Multi Level Marketing) among university students?

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relundad MLM's do work and you can make money from them. The key is finding one that you can afford and one that you can sell. I am involved in one and it has proven well. So for a college student, if one is priced right so that their friends can also join and promote...

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whats is your favourite quotes?

sayasakti @sayasakti (167) • Malaysia 8 Feb 09

whats is your favourite quotes?

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relundad "live the life you love and love the life you live"

8 Feb 09

Are chicken wings considered dark meat?

sayasakti @sayasakti (167) • Malaysia 8 Feb 09

Are chicken wings considered dark meat?

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relundad Chicken wings are considered white meat. However if you are asking in reference to dieting, most call for the breast, as its almost impossible to remove the skin from the wings.

8 Feb 09

Octuplet Disability Payday....???

CraftyCorner @CraftyCorner (5600) • United States 8 Feb 09

Nadya Suleman, mother of 14 children including the now famed Octuplets received a massive California state Disability payday because she had all her pregnancies after receiving an on the job back injury. The $168,000 payment was...

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relundad I actually think this woman has some mental issues going on and then found a quack of a clinic and doctor to match. They also said that the parents had to file BK after trying to assist her with the kids. For someone with financial problems where did she...

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Do you agree in giving mobiles to young kids?

GAUCI123 @GAUCI123 (1042) • Malta 8 Feb 09

Well these days I see children around nine or ten years old going out with their mobiles. Well do you agree in having young children already owing a mobile phone? Personally I don't really agree, but today it is something that all...

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relundad My son just turned 10 last month. He got his first phone for Christmas. Most of his classmates have had them for at least a year. Part of my reason for getting the phone was for my convience and not so much his. He does have his "own life" so to speak,...

8 Feb 09

A non smoking room with smokers in it.

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 7 Feb 09

I am staying at this motel, and we are on the non smoking section part. Well, our next door neighbors were smoking. They were smoking so bad that the smoke was in entering in our room. So, my mate came back from work and he...

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relundad Hi cream, didn't see you around for awhile, welcome back. I am a smoker, and I think that those neighbors were wrong for smoking in a non-smoking area. This is rude to the neighbors, the management and the next set of visitors that will ask for a non-smoking...

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