ruchimom

@ruchimom (280)

Australia • Age 47

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Do couples really need to run ERRANDS together?

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 19 Jan 10

Do you and your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband run errands together? At the dry cleaners (where I work), it's often the case that couples come in TOGETHER. I never understood why two people need to come in with one another....

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ruchimom Hi What a question?I love it..Anyways, me and my huband used to go to the shops together be it picking up drycleaning or if something required a hand.Otherwise,we don't go together especially,now that we have kids. It is much of a problem,to take kids out of...

19 Jan 10

Are your grandparents still alive? What is or was your relationship with them?

thedaddym @thedaddym (1731) • United States 12 Jan 10

Are your grandparents still alive? What is or was your relationship with them like? I have one grandmother still alive. We have a much better relationship now then we used to. So are your grandparent's still alive and do you have...

grandparents

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ruchimom Hi Neither of my grandparents are alive,ut I shared a wonderful relationship with my paternal granny.I loved her and adored her and she had the similar feelings. I was always close to her and she never let the generation gaps come in between.She was alwya m...

13 Jan 10

To whom are your children more affectionate?

yogambal_64 @yogambal_64 (1014) • India 13 Jan 10

Are your children more affectionate towards their maternal grandparents or paternal grandparents? I feel my children are affectionate to both grandparents equally. So how about your children? Whom do you think they are more...

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ruchimom Hi We live away from our parents so our kids don't have much of a chance to knowing their grandparents. But whenever they have met either they have behaved in the right manner. I think it all depends on their age and their proximity to the either...

13 Jan 10

Suggest me some name for My Event management company

sonusd @sonusd (1547) • India 13 Jan 10

Dear friends after completing my Hospitality management course Me and some of my friends started an Event management company with name KRAZZY HUNT. we were doing college farewell parties, freshers parties,small birth day...

event management company

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ruchimom Hi I like the name Genesis,moreo because it means the beginning Because you guys are starting out into a new venture,I think this will be appropriate. Anyways good luck with your business

13 Jan 10

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Would you prefer to know your future or not?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 12 Jan 10

My sister knows someone who's very good on card reading, most often she go there every time she wants to make certain decision, especially when it comes to taking risk. Now, as the new year start she ask me to go with her and have...

future

know

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ruchimom Hi No I dont beleive in getting my future read.I feel that it just adds on to new troubles,like I will be very doubtful in terms of everything. I know a few people who catually beleive a lot in all this and can do anything to get the desired outcome. I...

13 Jan 10

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How many times does your baby wake you up at night?

Nottie @Nottie (52) • Finland 30 Dec 09

I recently read an article about a 6 month old baby who woke his parents up between 7-15 times each night! I was a bit chocked and started wondering if this is normal. When does the parents sleep? When does the baby sleep? My 3...

baby

child

sleep

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ruchimom Oh my waking up atleast 7-15 times is outrageous. My sixteen month old still wakes up atleast twice every night.My three old girl never troubled me and she slept throughout the night from day one, I think the baby must be a breastfed baby who just wants to...

1 Jan 10

Should parents be held responsible in the death of thier child?

SharonJohnson @SharonJohnson (459) • United States 29 Dec 09

A woman went to sleep with her 5 month old. Rolled over on the child and killed him. Now she is free to go on with her life as the baby is now dead. The police said it was an accident. I feel people should not sleep with small...

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ruchimom Hi This is very common ,I think she must be drunk or on drugs that is why she rolled over on a baby. and she didn't even realise it. Anyways,I think the guilt of killing her baby will never leave her no matter the police has spared her.I have had two kids...

1 Jan 10

HELP ME.....! I am a bad mother...

Ifamous @ifa225 (14460) • Indonesia 1 Jan 10

uh-huh....ny son tell me that he hate me. I deserve to have that since i often yelling to him because doing some mistake that really annoying me. But unfortunately, it seems i can not stop from my bad habit. Now, every little...

bad mother

children

hate

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ruchimom Hi Looking at your situationi think you should bemore relaxed and patient. I too have my days when I yell at my kids but they are quite small.I think because of his age your son knows that you are angry for soem reason and you will yell at him for something...

1 Jan 10

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Will you consider yourself emotinal or rational?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 1 Jan 10

We are all made different.Some of us are so emotional that we will have feeling on everything we contact with.I remember once I had encounter a very interseting lady.She was a lady taxi driver in her 60's.She told me that she...

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ruchimom Hi I am pretty rational but depending on the situation I can be emotional too. Anything related to kids makes me emotional.

1 Jan 10

Candles???

noteable @noteable (4) • Canada 1 Jan 10

If you got a very unique and very nice candle for a gift....would you be inclined to "save" it and not burn it?? And as time passes you are dusting it?? For how long do you think you would not burn this candle??;-)

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ruchimom Hi I love candles and have collceted several over the past decade, I tend not to burn them for a long time but once I see that they are getting dusty then I put them to priority, I have fancy candles and love burning the frangrat ones as I feel that it...

1 Jan 10

Cradle cap help

zalilame @zalilame (880) • Malaysia 29 Dec 09

My baby is having a cradle cap problem. For those wondering what cradle cap is, Cradle Cap (infantile or neonatal seborrhoeic dermatitis, also known as crusta lactea, milk crust, honeycomb disease) is a yellowish, patchy, greasy,...

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ruchimom Hi My son used to have a lot of it.Try rubbing Johnson's baby oil in a cotton ball around his eyebrow and then using a baby brush rub lightly,do it everyday it should subside. Good Luck

30 Dec 09

As a Coffee or Tea drinker, can you sleep after drinking them?

px_yeap @px_yeap (269) • Malaysia 30 Dec 09

There are people just love coffee or tea so much, it won't even affect them having a good night sleep! First of all, is it healthy? Since the caffeine meant to "wake" you up? To fall asleep meaning one has getting too much of it?...

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ruchimom Hi I am a avid tea drinker and I do not like to have tea before bed because it does keeps me awake.

30 Dec 09

Let my baby cry?

jhess3366 @jhess3366 (67) • United States 30 Dec 09

So my baby is now almost 4 months old and she cries alot. Even after I have made sure she is A-Ok in every aspect she still cries to be held....all the time. Its my fault because I am at home all day and I cater to her. How can I...

babt

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ruchimom Hi yes I think you must let her cry for sometime.I remember I had a midwife who suggested me that when my baby cries endlessly for no reason,just let her lie in her cot and make myself a cuyp of tea.By the time,I will finish my tea my little girl will be...

30 Dec 09

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New Year's day superstitions --- do you have and practice them at this time?

moneymakingtoday @moneymakingtoday (4061) • Philippines 30 Dec 09

There are two things (among the many) that I remember now. Old folks used to tell the children to make sure to clean themselves (take a bath/shower) before the year changes, i.e. doing this a few hours before New Year's eve....

being physically clean

general cleaning of house

greeting the new year

house cleaning

new year

superstitions

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ruchimom Hi yes I have heard these tales, My mom and dad never practised this but I used to hear this constantly.i think teh meaage was just to make sure that you are not lazy and you do the right things.I do beleive that soem things are very true as per the old...

30 Dec 09

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