safwan0012

@safwan0012 (117)

Age 29

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a very difficult decision to make

lovcie @lovcie (116) • Philippines 6 Sep 12

I watched a tele novela yesterday and the situation was to choose between the life of the mother and the newborn baby. I find it tiring to see again again that this is the same plot novela writers have. but thinking again, what if...

decisions

life

relationships

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safwan0012 this is really a hard and stunning decision.you chose the write hing.mother has the superiority on all.if mother dies she cant come back you cant have a new mother but if child dies another child may come.so you did a right thing.i were you i will hace chose...

7 Sep 12

No sleep at all ! fresh even after 2 a.m

RUBESH @Manasha (2755) • Pondicherry, India 7 Sep 12

ooops.. Life is frustrating as my sleeping habit has gone awkward. I usually goes to bed at 11.30 pm but I could not sleep even after 2 am. I don't know why? I have been walking daily for 1 hr but in vain. I also forget every...

sleeping

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safwan0012 you should consult a good doctor.i hope a good doctor finds your discussion and give you a advice.

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Whether to return the gift which is received from former boyfriend?

moshishibie @moshishibie (252) • China 7 Sep 12

One of my friend,she is a girl.Yesterday she ask me a question,I do not know how to anwer.The qustion is my discussion subject,just as you read.Can you give me some suggestion?

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safwan0012 yes ofcourse yes.you should be loyal to your present bf.he is loving you thinking that you wouldn't cheat on him.so be according to his expectation.if you accept his gift it will be that you want to be with him again and he too wants you to be with him.please...

7 Sep 12

should i be worried or not

manduri20 @manduri20 (108) • Uganda 7 Sep 12

someone has been calling my number frequently and whenever i answer he starts speaking very weird words that i don't understand. at first i thought that maybe he called a wrong number and was speaking a different language but then...

worried

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safwan0012 no you shouldn't.i know such persons.they are humorous clowns and nothing else.they try to disturb people by this way.i m sure he is joking on you.if there could serious he wouldn't recieved call from your sister's number.he is just teasing you and you are...

7 Sep 12

Music helps me to reduce stress.

jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 7 Sep 12

Music is good on everyone no matter what we encounter any difficulties. This plays very important part in our life. Especially in the morning and also through my whole day's work. This really works. What about you guys, music...

reduce

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safwan0012 yeah you are right.music does the same to me.music has this quality by nature but man should not always dependent on music.there are alsomany other ways to reduce stress like comedy on tv or fiction or reading a novel or playing a game or doing some physical...

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When you start initiating discussion threads the rating goes down,isn't it?

fannekhan @fannekhan (783) • India 7 Sep 12

I have noticed my rating going down whenever i start new discussion threads, I wonder why?

discussion

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safwan0012 no its not.look like you are making a slight mistake.your rating depends upon the quality of your work,you did on mylot like responding,commenting etc.that is if people give your work a positive remarks (by clicking on + button under your discussion)you get a...

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Friendship Over Money?

lovellehanna @lovellehanna (39) • Philippines 6 Sep 12

How can money ruin a friendship? I would never forget the time I borrowed money to a close friend. I was in a hospital that time, and I needed additional amount so I could go out. My mom promised to help me then but she had...

friendship

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safwan0012 i will just slap such friend.such people are a stink to friendship.friendsihp is world's most beautiful relation and it requires sacrifices.a person not able to bear such hardships,should never make friends.he not only degrades himself but also break someone's...

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how to say sorry?

missjahn @missjahn (4574) • Philippines 5 Sep 12

how to say sorry to the person you had lapsed yourself? i mean, saying sorry which came from our mouth would be so easy. but the fear that you might be neglected scares you at a very highest level. what would be the other possible...

being sorry

humbling down yourself

saying sorry

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safwan0012 there are many ways.you should say sorry in such way that he may be forced to forgive you that is in the most beautifull and charming and attractive way that he may be forced and will feel himself to do nothing but to forgive you.you may send him some thing...

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Suffer(Travel) Makes you Suffer....??? Really

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 6 Sep 12

hi to all, well, guess this discussion is bit confusing for you, actually in our Urdu we say Travel (Suffer), right now I am doing a job & My Office is very near to my home, once I talk about it to my friend & he laugh &...

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safwan0012 i also know urdu and i know what you mean to say.i consider travel as a key to success.so i dont think that i causes any suffer but is good for discovering new things. and success.i like to travel and i enjoy it.

6 Sep 12

What external hard disk brand?

imAbigael @imAbigael (475) • Philippines 6 Sep 12

Right now I'm cleaning my files, and I'm planning to buy external hard disk.. So what external hard disk's brand is the best to buy, I don't want china's product because it easy to be broken. I need your suggestion and I'm new...

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safwan0012 there are many brands.you may search in google it will help you a lot.i yhink in this regard kingston is best.other companies are also in this field and producing good products.

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City vs village

didi13 @didi13 (2926) • Romania 6 Sep 12

I am, obviously, a man of the city. Of course, I love nature, hiking and going to other horizons. I dream own a piece of land on which to get my blanket to lie down in the shade with a glass of something cold and netbook lap. To...

comparisons

town

village

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safwan0012 both sides have their own advantages and disadvantages.how ever i will prefer villages especially when they are in some developed country especially china.how ever in our home country villages have the worst condition and they though have serene environment...

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Do you think that nature of a person is permanent thing ?

deserve40 @deserve40 (1656) • India 5 Sep 12

We often hear that people say that someone has changed a lot. That person is no more the same person at all. The change may be good or even bad also. However, many times it is found that the person who had changed a lot...

nature of a person

permanent

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safwan0012 yes it is a permanent thing and will reamin till death.a person cant change its nature.its heriditary and as you cant change your geans you cant change you nature.for example a person who is acting wild and its his nature to tease people then it cant be changd...

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Does your music affect the mood that you are in?

Lingling89 @Lingling89 (88) • Philippines 5 Sep 12

Well, I'm really a music lover. I can't go on a day without relaxing myself. But the type of genre I'm listening depends on the mood I'm in. I have favorites on almost all types of genre but I don't go into those metal rock...

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safwan0012 yes it does.if i am happy i will feel some sadness on a sad sng.i will be happy on some comedy song.i will feel thrilling on some thrilling song.i will be wild on a rock song.mean to say that a song may have great affects on a human.you ccan get different...

6 Sep 12

It's not done!

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 5 Sep 12

I had a split study last night. Next Tuesday night and I have to have another. I had to cancel a doc appointment because of finances. These two studies are costing ne $40 each in copays. I'll be running out of meds from my spine...

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safwan0012 you must beleiv yourself under all conditions.no matter what the conditions is just do as you think is right.work hard is sure to bring you success.wish you best of lucks and may the succes finds it.

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Can friends actually be good lovers?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 5 Sep 12

I don't really know where the boundaries go. Sometimes, there are people who set a "friend zone" so to speak and you should never cross that thin line between friend and lover. I'm asking, if ever you cross that line, do...

friends

friendzone

lovers

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safwan0012 yes it is quite possible.in most of the casses the friends fall in love.its natural just as positive charge attracts negative charge in the same way a boy and a girl can never be friends forever.i think atleast one will surely have some feelings for the other...

6 Sep 12

Do you believe in Astrology?

rouble92 @rouble92 (65) • India 5 Sep 12

One of the most complex practice "Astrology" which is quite evident in India and other asian countries has its roots back in ancient time. Here in India anytime you turn on a news channel and you will see the so called...

astrology

myth or real

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safwan0012 i beleive in astrology because it has proven true but you should consult only good astrologer who has the deep relevent knowledge.however in my religion its prohibitted to consult astrologers or try to know about you future so i dont practically use it.

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Visiting the sick

Aoi Hana @swirlz (3136) • Philippines 5 Sep 12

A couple of weeks ago, my aunt's husband was brought to the hospital. He was confined in the ICU for a while, so it was pretty bad. I wasn't close to the family, and has only seen them a handful of times. I get updates through my...

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safwan0012 visiting sick people is very good act because it gives them the feeling that there is someone who cares for them.now you should stay shortly their so that they may not be irritated by your presence.you should ask for his maedication and his situation bribg...

6 Sep 12

Do you give tip to the one who delivers your Package?

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 5 Sep 12

I ordered bags online on my daughters friend who owns an online shop. And Im happy that I got it yesterday, I gave the man 100.00 pesos as a tip but he refuse it. Huh he don't want money? He just told me its...

package

service

tip

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safwan0012 i never gave beacuse i never go to hotel.if i go the i think i will give give tip because i think they deserve that however i think the fassion of tip is insulting for weaters and server.i think they shpuld be given proper income according to their work so...

6 Sep 12

Its going to be a guest room soon!

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63594) • United States 5 Sep 12

So, you guys remember when the crazy roommate moved out. We decided to turn that room into a guest room. First we had to clean it, lordy but she left it filthy! Then we painted it - purple... actually, we got Kilz and got it...

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safwan0012 first of all congrates on eimproving your life style.i think your rightly excited.everybody feels very very good when he get something from his own money.i would be excited too if i were you.we should all try to get better things like you.making guest room of...

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