sanjana_aslam

@sanjana_aslam (4187)

Malaysia • Age 52

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Are you a vegetarian or non vegetarian? what advantage you think by it?

mohkanari @mohkanari (1957) • India 26 Sep 11

Human beings are normally non vegetarians. But,there are so many people who live as pure vegetarians.There are advantages and disadvantages for both styles.Which is more apt to the nature of human body as well as mind? Which is...

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sanjana_aslam i am non vegetarian. By choice i dont eat some red meats. And at times i am vegetarian for 1 or 2 months in a stretch ....

26 Sep 11

Are you happy with your height?How tall are you?

preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 25 Sep 11

I am 5.8. I am not totally happy with my height. I would have loved to add another 3 inches.How tall are you. I am told women like tall men. Is it true?

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sanjana_aslam hi ... i am ok with my height ... i like taller man because short man has their views at some parts of woman which really irratates me .... i hate short man with attitute ... they are already short and they remain their view at our chest ... YUKS !!!

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Where is the quality, people?

jshekhar @jshekhar (1562) • India 25 Sep 11

Hello friends, Today I came back to MyLot after a few months of break and it really feels great to be back among my friends, sharing my thoughts with the world. However, I have observed that no matter how much you try to help...

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sanjana_aslam sometimes i wonder, if i should like good discussions, i consider that my topics are not that bad (maybe for some it is bad) .... but the people who are here are sometimes not so confident of their English and do not understand the message we are sending. Some...

26 Sep 11

I feel lonely. I am still single at 45.People suggest marriage.But...

preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 21 Sep 11

I am 45 years and for financial reason and because my sister is not married. I am single still. I have only few friends and no girl friends. Chatting is the only way to ease myself.I feel lonely these Days.Friends suggest i get...

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sanjana_aslam Preet hope my little poem sends some good message (sorry if it did not, as i tried to write a good poem for a great friend) Love chooses no age limit, neither ones' desire for mature company. and it is here where you get lost enveloped within family...

21 Sep 11

Is your Mother-in-law a Monster, a Friend or just Indifferent?

merenwen315 @merenwen315 (123) • Philippines 21 Sep 11

Hello guys! I'm really interested on how one differs with relationship with a person with other people. You see, some of my friends complain about their in-laws. The reason is, they correct everything she/he does, or they always...

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sanjana_aslam MIL are not Monsters they are just Mothers who assume they are loosing control over their son, her son overspending on another woman and not her, her son dont have enough sleep taking care of another woman, her son works hard for another woman, her son is not...

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94 days till Christmas, what money making ways you do to earn?

strawberrychocodahi @strawberrychocodahi (4818) • Philippines 21 Sep 11

I just can't stop thinking time is running and for me I feel that what I do for extra income is not enough. I admit that this years online job for me is the driest. I am earning pretty slow unlike before every month I can get $80...

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sanjana_aslam hi dear ... i am in the mids of collecting some simple pastry receipes as i have made arrangements to supply to a small restaurant some of my homemade sweets .... Being Malaysian it is very common for people here to have tea breaks and we are rich with all...

21 Sep 11

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Is mocking at people in misery a good attitude?

preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 21 Sep 11

There is a famous quote'Mock at misery but never mock at a person in misery'.This quote sums it all. There are people in this world who take pleasure in teasing and mocking at people who are below them,mostly financially. They...

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sanjana_aslam my mother have always told us from when we were young to be in the shoes of another person ~ which means when and if i am in the situation what would i want people to do for me ... laugh at me or help me ... People who love mocking others are dumb and...

21 Sep 11

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Do you read what you write, or do you just type to get paid?

tyleika @tyleika (232) • United States 19 Sep 11

I be trying to read some of these respones but don't understand them. Is it that you don't understand me or do you be trying to make a fast penny? Help me to understand you or a better view of how this work. I just don't get it....

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sanjana_aslam hi tyleika .... maybe you are having problem with their english ... Remember that most of us here are from many countries and not everybody are good in their English You have to read their comments slowly and if you dont understand try writing back to them...

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Are you agree with me? Laughing is a good tonic for health without cost.

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 19 Sep 11

Mostly I started funny discussion because I know laughing is good tonic for health and we not required any money for this…and when I have seen many mylotters are laughing after reading my discussion and respond on it in funny way...

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sanjana_aslam yes dear surekharathi it is the best medicine in the whole world ... there is one channel in our country which runs 24 hours of comedies ... we are glued in front of tv the whole time we are home . they repeat it so much that we have memorised the...

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Why do some people develop an "Online Personality"?

blackwinged @blackwinged (99) • United States 19 Sep 11

So I have noticed that a lot of people that talk online are so much more open than if they were in person. Perhaps its easier to open up in front of a computer screen rather than another person? I find that I myself respond much...

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sanjana_aslam Guilty as charged !! I am one of them too ... i dont like people to judge me, real friends and family are very judgemental, not leaving at that they like to spread stories and self made tales about us and our characters ... Which is why i am...

19 Sep 11

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What is the sweetest thing someone has said to you?

eseulhan @eseulhan (199) • Philippines 19 Sep 11

Actually, I've had a lot of sweet things said to me, so it's hard to decide what's the"sweetest ever". First, my parents openly telling me he's proud of me, how mature I am, and for the decisions I've made for myself....

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sanjana_aslam ....my parents are of older generation, they do not know how to praise children .... .... Friends ... i have always thought of their praises as not sincere ... My husband is different, from the day i met him 19 years ago until today, he sings songs of...

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Have you ever fasted for a purpose??

preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 19 Sep 11

Fasting is fast becoming a way of achieving our objectives. Its a Ghandhian way to get things done.Anna Haraze a crusader against corruption fasted for 14 days and achieved his purpose.The CM pf Gujarath is now fasting for a...

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sanjana_aslam There is a festive just after Deepavali and i fast for 6 days ~ the actual requirement of this fasting is 6 continues days without grains only drink milk and plain water but for me .... i consume vegetarian food once daily at night. Have done it for the past 7...

19 Sep 11

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is women God's best and worst creation?

preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 17 Sep 11

They say, a women can make a hell out of a heaven and a heaven out of a hell.She is soft,mild and calm.But beneath she is a powerhouse capable of achieving anything she sets her mind on.Her exterior posture of tranquility and...

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sanjana_aslam However God created you, He didn't make a mistake. Adding gifts and talents, He sculpts us out individually He lovingly knows each one of us The beauty of each being holds the proof of His Awesomeness!

18 Sep 11

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Is wife beating common in your society?

preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 12 Sep 11

This topic i had to raise because of an incident that happened two days before in my city.A famous film actor beat his wife badly.She lodged a complaint with the police under various sections-attempting murder,assault etc...

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sanjana_aslam i am a product of that .... my mother was beaten by my dad all the time ... it was confusing, but we did not hate our father ... now at this age and in a committed relationship with a wonderful husband... i see where it went wrong .. sorry to say this...

15 Sep 11

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be calm in the midst of trouble

Hazel Funcion @Zelmarq (12607) • Cebu City, Philippines 13 Sep 11

In everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all undertstanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippinas...

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sanjana_aslam Cup our hands and imagine holding our worries. As a child raises a broken toy to a parent to fix, raise our worries to God as we pray. This is so lovely ..... no matter what religion we are, we should be able to practice this way of thoughts ... and i am...

15 Sep 11

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are you happy with your physical appearance?

preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 14 Sep 11

According to a survey more than 90% of the people around the world are not happy with the way they look.This is true of all nationals.Film actors and actresses who we think are very beautiful also carry this inferiority...

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sanjana_aslam hi preet my problem has always been with my weight. Overweight actually reduces your self confidence in the public. Other than that i am fine with my looks cheers

15 Sep 11

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family coming between relationship

xmichelletarax @xmichelletarax (370) • United States 14 Sep 11

I have been with my boyfriend for a long time now and his family has never really liked me. I have never been anything but nice to them but for some reason they always seem to come up with some reason to complain about me....

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sanjana_aslam hi xm Your husband is in more difficult situation then you are. He is split between duties and responsibility. He is split between mother and wife. It is difficult for him to decide who comes first. At this time the best thing for you to do is be at his...

14 Sep 11

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