sassy_zhai

@sassy_zhai (63)

Philippines • Age 45

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Sassy and pretty

Responses (26)

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love is blind and marriage is an eye opener!do u agree.

coolcat123 @coolcat123 (4387) • India 27 Mar 07

upon your personal experiances do let me know ,is really love blind,never sees the caste,status etc and marriage lets you know the real taste of life.the reality a person observes which opens its bitter or sweet secrets after...

experience

love

marriage

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sassy_zhai well i think i can say what you said is true. although i am not married yet but i observed that couples get to know each other more whent they are married already.

21 Apr 07

How can we as husbands/wives not fall into the pattern of just being comfortable

dedicated_28 @dedicated_28 (1383) • United States 20 Apr 07

I am married and unfortunately we seem to have fallen into the comfortable thing. Almost taking each other for granted. We both kinda just think well he/she loves me so it will be okay tonight if I stay out late and then just go...

comfortable routines

marriage

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sassy_zhai maybe going out and for each partner to sometimes think that they are still on the courtship stage. WHat do you think?

21 Apr 07

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How do you deal with PMS??

MagdalenaM @MagdalenaM (681) • United States 9 Apr 07

Ohhhhhhhhhhh that time of the month can be a pain and to top it all we have to deal with mood swings and other PMS syndroms - I have some pills (Midol) that are should be helping me feel better during these times and while it does...

pms

women

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sassy_zhai MAKE LOVE WITH YOUR PARTNER! It will help alot! haha, im just kidding... what i do during PMS is to put a hot compressed just below your below button... it eases the pain

10 Apr 07

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why women are marrying for the sake of it?

aciddrop @aciddrop (798) 10 Apr 07

i have been told that when a girl reaches her late 20s,single still,she would be very anxious to marriage.and this is what i witness as well.the most incredible example around me is my sister who is at the age of 23,already thinks...

marriage

men

women

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sassy_zhai Well, i guess it is a biological need for women... as they say: when a woman turns 25 her market value diminishes and her biological clock is ticking... as for your sister, i think she is quite young maybe she should wait til she turn 25 before considering...

10 Apr 07

Are all women bad ? Am I a man with bad luck ??

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 10 Apr 07

I had a bad relationship with a woman who I did not trust from the begining now I have a very hard time trusting women. Am I right to think all women are bad? Or am I just mentally ill? I mean it seems kind of ridiculous to not...

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sassy_zhai No, not all women are bad just like not all men are bad. Ypu just have to learn to trust people and learn to forgive. Maybe you have been betrayed by that woman but try forgiving her first so that you can learn to trust other women.you do not need to trust...

10 Apr 07

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love

indian_delhi2007 @indian_delhi2007 (77) • India 6 Apr 07

what quality are important to you an a boyfriend or girlfriend?

boyfriend

girlfriend

love

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sassy_zhai Respect, love, and loyalty

7 Apr 07

Do you check your boyfriend/girlfriend text messages and call history?

reeze_828 @reeze_828 (137) • Philippines 20 Mar 07

What are your view about this? Do you agree that they have the right to check it? Or you JUst feel so bad When they check it? I need your opinion about this matter! Thank you in advance....

check

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sassy_zhai Yes, at the begining of our relationship i usually check it out... it was my way of testing him how open he is to me and if he is hiding anything... but eventually i stopped i actually find nothing there... but sometimes i check it out of curiousity

7 Apr 07

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Should i stay or should i go

ckloeckner @ckloeckner (216) • United States 6 Apr 07

i am having serious trouble making this decision and i feel as though i am drowning. i have the opportunity to leave my boyfriend who is controlling and manipulative but it doesnt change the fact that i love him and he is very...

relationships

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sassy_zhai better think hard about your relationship counseling will be very helpful but do something about it.we are suppose to be happy with our life not miserable.

7 Apr 07

if someone asked you, what is your asset?

simplycza @simplycza (1480) • Philippines 4 Mar 07

what will be your answer?

asset

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sassy_zhai my assets are all my equities minus my liabilities

3 Apr 07

One more cheater!

sweetlady10 @sweetlady10 (3611) • United States 20 Mar 07

I have come across to another cheater. He is also from China. He is repetadly posting this line " i ha ha ha ha ha you ha ha ha ha" in his response. He even don't write things like "I don't know" or something stupid what most...

cheater

copy paste

mylot

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sassy_zhai Poor guy, but please let us not judge him, let us give him a benefit of the doubt, maybe the best thing to do first is to call his attention maybe he is not aware of how bad he is doing. he probably wants to earn points.

21 Mar 07

What do you do at work when there is nothing to do???

mzbubblie @mzbubblie (3839) • United States 14 Mar 07

This question came about just sitting here.... I just started my new position on Monday, however, there is nothing for me to do but surf the net, shop online, read the paper and chat from time to time.... Until Monday when my...

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sassy_zhai LOL, you are lucky... why don't you just read books or e-books on your spare time so that you'll have more idea regarding your work?

15 Mar 07

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Have you ever tried grits

bicklelady @bicklelady (1404) • United States 13 Mar 07

I grew up on grits. When my inlaws came to visit, They could not figure out what grits was. It was so neat to watch them try them. some of them liked it and some said they would stick with there cream of wheat. It is so funny that...

grits

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sassy_zhai LOL, actually i don't know what grits are and i haven't even taste it. this is the first time i heard about it.

14 Mar 07

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How long will it take to heal a broken heart?

fairygreen @fairygreen (533) • Philippines 13 Mar 07

It was really funny, to ask this question rather.Going through this experience wasnt easy for me to move on.I mean doing all possible diversities just to mend two broken hearts.Maybe you guys are thinking that ive been through so...

broken hearts

healing

healing a broken heart

hurt

time

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sassy_zhai well, for me it takes only 1 - 6 months before i move on. When the other party is guilty its only 1 month for me but if i am the one guilty it takes the maximum of 6 mos before i forgive myself and it depends on the intensity of guilt.

14 Mar 07

do your family members take turn in washing dishes?

fianne @fianne (1057) • United States 13 Mar 07

when i was 7 years old, i remembered my mom teaching me and my younger sister how to wash dishes. then my elder brothers already know how to wash dishes. then one day, she said, ok, you take turns in washing dishes. well, it was...

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sassy_zhai No, my mom always do it and i hate it. my hands are allergic with the detergent and dishwashing soap.

14 Mar 07

Male Friend Requests

princeworthy @princeworthy (1909) • United States 12 Mar 07

If you have every requested me as a friend please read this post. I am worried that I may have offended some mylot members by not accepting your friend requests. If you are a male, I am not ALLOWED by my husband to accept you as a...

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sassy_zhai wow, this is new... but i understand you and your husband's predicament. i guess its just an agreement for the two of you. I have a bf but i am not yet married and if ever i am i don't want my husband to ask me to limit my friends to female only. but if ever i...

13 Mar 07

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How often do you change your cellphone?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 11 Mar 07

Yippie, I am getting a new phone and I am so excited!! I've placed an order online and the delivery is scheduled to be this Thurs. I am trading in my 5-yr old Nokia 7650 for a Nokia 6288. It's packed with quite a few features...

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sassy_zhai i use my first celphone for 4 years and my second phone is for three years now... i am still using it until now.

12 Mar 07

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My fiancee never talks and I talk too much to fill the silences!

sharone74 @sharone74 (4837) • United States 3 Mar 07

What do you do with a partner who never talks? I men he's not mute or anything but when he comes home from a long day of work he even admits that he is waspish and snappy and needs to be left alone for an hour or more to unwind....

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sassy_zhai just ignore him and do whatever you want to do with your life... believe me he'll come rushing to you when he felt that he is lossing you.

4 Mar 07