sheban

@sheban (28)

Philippines • Age 37

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Do you participate in volunteer programs ?

greenline @greenline (14838) • Canada 15 Oct 10

When there is a need, and if I can spare the time, I participate in the volunteer programs of the community to help and contribute as best I can to the community. There are a number of programs throughout the year. Do you...

volunteering

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sheban Yes, I've been involved in various volunteer works. Most of those are medical missions and outreach programs for our less fortunate youth. It really feels good and helping others makes me realize how blessed I am with what I have.

10 Nov 10

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Do you like reading?

coollady9 @coollady9 (143) • Indonesia 5 Nov 10

Well, I do. I like reading especially comics and some magazines. When I read comic I feel fine, but when I read novel, newspaper I have a problem with my eyes, I feel tired and dizzy. Hmm I don't know why. Perhaps, there's no...

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sheban I really love reading. Aside from enjoying it, I also learn a lot of things. My favorites are those inspirational books and craft books. Those help me grow and contribute in my growth as a person. I could say that it really pays to read.

9 Nov 10

Can Success be equated with Money?

amit066 @amit066 (41) • India 30 Oct 10

Friends,We know,money is important in life.Is it personal perspective or is it universal? how far a success can be related to money? Is money is the only measure of Success? Well,what is your opinion? Is there any room for...

money

success

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sheban Success is not all about money. Good relationships, having a good character are just some of the things that we could consider a success in life. We tend to be attracted to money since humans feel discontent at some point in their lives even if they have the...

9 Nov 10

I marry the man I did not really love...but love the way he loves me....

mumaysagrado @mumaysagrado (38) • Philippines 27 Oct 10

Well, this is difficult for someone like me because I have a case that I marry the man I did not really love, because I have love someone else, but one night everything was change in an instant, when my husband slept with me and I...

love the way you love me

married

unhappy married life

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sheban I've haven't experienced being in that situation. However, what I could say is that you should be grateful for your husband is loving you dearly. You are his true love and not everybody is lucky enough to be treated that way. Besides, you aren't that certain...

9 Nov 10

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can you work without being friends with your workmates?

cyrri_ako @cyrri_ako (461) • Philippines 5 Nov 10

i am now transitioned into a new role...and i would be working with new set of people. my first goal is to be friends with these people who i will be working with. in my 8 years of working, i believe that the relationship we have...

relationship

work

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sheban For me, I think you can still work even if your not friends with your workmates. However, it would be very hard on your part and i don't think you can stay long in your job. A harmonious and successful working relationship requires a good teamwork which...

9 Nov 10

how will you judge a married woman inlove with another man?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 7 Nov 10

my best friend was happily married, until one day she accidentally fall in love with another guy. she tried to ignore but still she cant fight her feelings anymore. can anyone help me to advice my best friend.do you believe she's...

destiny

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sheban The fact that she is married should be the basis of her actions. It's nature for us humans to be attracted to other people. What your friend is feeling is a strong attraction to that guy. She should not nurture that feeling knowing that she has already a...

7 Nov 10

Life is full of ups and downs....

lingli_78 @lingli_78 (12822) • Australia 7 Nov 10

I am currently experiencing the downturn in my life as I had just recently laid off from my work... I feel very upset and worried as well at the beginning as I don't know how I am going to live without earning money... But as time...

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sheban hello lingli. You're not alone with that. I mean everbody do experience crisis in their lives. Personally, I'm also in a crucial stage of my life. I'm already a professional but I'm not yet employed since the day I got my license, which is already a year ago....

7 Nov 10

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Do you have a best friend?

19Bey83 @19Bey83 (194) • United States 3 Nov 10

Do you have a best friend? How many? A lot of people, mostly girls, walk around so happy to have 3 or 4 and sometimes 5 best friends. I don't think that qualifies for a best friend. Back in high school I was part of a clique,...

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sheban Hi bey, i really don't have someone that i call best friend. But definitely, i have a lot of close friends. Since high school, i told myself that I won't consider someone as a best friend since I'm aware that people come into our lives and at some point in...

6 Nov 10

singing in the bath

gnomeland @gnomeland (421) 29 Aug 10

this morning i did my usual routine of singing in the shower. are you a bathroom crooner and if so do you prefer to sing in the bath or shower?

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sheban I love singing while having my shower. Although I don't have an enticing voice, but I feel that i sound better when i'm singing in the shower.

6 Nov 10