shrike

@shrike (123)

Philippines • Age 37

Joined myLot 14 years ago

always prepare

Responses (69)

shrike's Responses

What is God

viny30 @viny30 (27) • India 18 Aug 12

Can anyone tell me what is God. What is the true meaning of God. I know God is much more than temples, fasts and other rituals. But still I need to know the true relation between an individual and its Creator.

god

truth

2 responses

shrike God.. if you read about the bible, you know about God. He is the one who created you. there are many conggregations that has different explanation about God. so if you will ask many of them they will give you different answers. you might be more harder enough...

18 Aug 12

•

1 comment

confusion

gerlieann @gerlieann (73) • Philippines 18 Aug 12

now i am in the middle of making a decision. confusion really strikes me. i don't know what should i do.

3 responses •

1 person

shrike hi! all things are all about making decisions, we have to choose between good and bad and what will make us happy. many things should be considered. the advantages and disadvantages.

18 Aug 12

when is the right time and with whom?

daniel_chang @daniel_chang (75) • Philippines 28 Apr 12

I had painful experience about love and suitors are still coming. actually i am single and i think that i don't want to have any intimate relationship right now. There is this engineer from old school courting me, one police...

5 responses

shrike hi! for me, we do not know when and where is the right time about everything, you just don't know, it is already there. you yourself will only decide if what it is. i think, we can feel one's person's feeling, i mean, we can feel whether their intentions are...

29 Apr 12

......I Thought It Was The End,.......

kyle2krystel @kyle2krystel (2489) • Japan 5 Mar 12

Holla there mylotters! It's been two weeks that I was gone and after sharing my problem/trouble with my husband, a huge fight night and a devastating days. I thought everything will be end after my husband didnt went home that...

reconcile

romantic vacation

22 responses •

6 people

shrike hello! wow, nice to from you.. congratulation.. keep it up..

5 Mar 12

•

1 comment

I guess i'm still not yet ready

Mikaela_taz25 @Mikaela_taz25 (1842) • Philippines 3 Mar 12

I was broken hearted last year, and at that time i really wished that someone could mend my broken heart, i was really depressed and in pain so much at that time, and during that time the only thing could heal the pain was to be...

feelings

relationship

23 responses •

4 people

shrike hi! as the other mention, maybe most of us experienced that kind. it is really painful to gone through like that of yours. especially when we expect that he is the one for us. it is really hard to move on and thanks that you are doing well now. we really need...

3 Mar 12

•

2 comments

Do you usually jump to conclusions or assume things?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 3 Mar 12

I try my best not to do this. It seems that when we do these types of these it only causes more problems. It brings rifts in between relationship. So I try to give a person the chance to explain things. I also try to avoid gossip...

conclusions

4 responses

shrike hi! i often jump in conclusion before that cause me lot of problems, it brings pain also that's why i try my best to avoid doing it. for me, there's no other way to solve it but by talking it to the person involve. you are right. always give that person...

3 Mar 12

•

1 comment

when will i have the freedom that i deserved?

rashme317 @rashme317 (250) • Philippines 3 Mar 12

this is the question that keeps bugging me. I don't know if why but i feel like my parents always have the last words on everything i do. I hope that maybe one of this days i will have the freedom that i deserved

freedom

4 responses

shrike hi! what kind of freedom you are referring to.. as you have said,, maybe you should broden or explain more so that mylotters can understand what your trying to tell. as you have said, parents wants only the best for their children. sometimes there are things...

3 Mar 12

when will i have the freedom that i deserved?

rashme317 @rashme317 (250) • Philippines 3 Mar 12

4 responses

shrike hi! what kind of freedom you are referring to.. as you have said,, parents wants only the best for their children. maybe you just get them wrong, or maybe you should explain them well your plan until they understand. my dad did the same thing do but when i...

3 Mar 12

is it the emptiness in me?

nonsenseHS @nonsenseHS (54) • Singapore 1 Mar 12

why do i sometimes feel that my life is going nowhere and i'm doing the same old and boring thing over and over again ( school, work, play, sleep, computer ). its like there is an emptiness inside me and needs to be filled...

9 responses •

1 person

shrike hi! you will feel really boring because you do same thing everyday. but when u appreciate what you are doing, you will find it nice. why not go out sometimes or visit some beautiful spots in your place. enjoy your age but know your limitations. for me, i don't...

1 Mar 12

true friend is a god's gift

sunil2891 @sunil2891 (84) • India 24 Feb 12

it is one of the mostchershed reationship that we make in our whole lifetime.afriend is one who knows all our faults and failures,weakness and imperfectionslimitations and lapses-and yet loves us.he is one with whom we can share...

friendship

love

relationship

7 responses •

1 person

shrike what an interesting views you have. in addition to that, a real friend tells us that we are wrong when she knows we are. she does not always go with the flow, instead she lets us see our mistakes. that's the kind of friend i have that's why, no matter what,...

24 Feb 12

Relationship With Other People

blink69nix0 @blink69nix0 (847) • Philippines 24 Feb 12

We meet a lot of people in our lives. Some of them are pleasant to be with. Some of them are enjoyable to be with. Others are inspiring and give you values.Others are offensive and hypocrite. Some we choose to keep as our close...

10 responses •

3 people

shrike hi! sure we do meet many different kind of people where ever we may go. the thing is they all leave a lesson to us. i do hope that of all the people i meet, they are all like you who keep their values in their hearts, who choose the right words to say. if all...

24 Feb 12

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Have you ever had a surprise birthday party?

almightybong @almightybong (186) • Philippines 24 Feb 12

I have a group of friends back in our province and it has been a tradition to throw a surprise birthday party whenever it is one's birthday. The challenging part is that since it has been a tradition, it is expected that there...

surprise birthday party

surprises

12 responses •

4 people

shrike hi! i cannot forgot the surprise birthday i had during my 18th. i was at work when my male friend came with my sister. they brought a cake. though we are just few that moment, i am so happy because that was my very first time to celebrate my birthday. it so...

24 Feb 12

•

2 people

What is happiness?

halfbloodace @halfbloodace (587) • Philippines 24 Feb 12

Ladies and gentlemen, i have asked this question many times and still pondering up until now. Can you share your thoughts on what happiness is? Thank you and i will be awaiting for your comments and posts.

happpppy

3 responses

shrike hi! happiness is a kind of feeling (just joking).. i read that kind of questions so many time here in mylot. and it is so good to know every body's opinion and views about it. as i always say, for me, happiness can be achieved or acquired in anything. happy...

24 Feb 12

•

1 comment

Men or women friends?

ladylonewolf2008 @ladylonewolf2008 (298) • United States 23 Feb 12

do you have both gender friends? do you like the male friend better than the female friends you have? I have both but I find male friends easier to talk to and I'm guessing it's because I always compare myself to my female friends...

15 responses

shrike hi! for me, i find boys to be more good for friends because they are more trusted and they are not that type that when you have some misunderstanding they will not tell anyone of your secrets. at least they help me also to understand some about them. honestly,...

24 Feb 12

Say no for "Second hand"

victorkrish @victorkrish (1614) • Malaysia 23 Feb 12

Sometime ,I love to buy a second hand thing but depends. Do you think second hand things is don't have a quality? Is that necessary every time to buy a new things? What you think?

second hand

29 responses •

6 people

shrike for me, it depends on what kind of stuff or product is that. when i sensed that it has a good quality and a good prize then i buy it. sometimes i prefer to buy a second hand clothes except of course those personals because it is far more than good than the new...

24 Feb 12

I feel no patience for the care of children of her

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 31 Jan 12

Her son with heart disease. But boy she cared very sketchy. Each morning, she thanks the buyer in the market and porridge for him to eat all day. She regularly use cold water to wash for him. She almost did not add anything...

3 responses •

1 person

shrike i understand the mother, maybe she is just to protective to her son, but she must loosen up a little. the child might think that he is abnormal. she must give him nutritious and healthy food, how will the child health improve if everyday she gave him the same...

1 Feb 12

•

1 comment

•

1 person

thinking I can change him or her

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 1 Feb 12

It's dangerous staying in a relationship thinking that you can change the other person. It is hard to change ourselves let alone trying to change another person. And that only leads to frustration. When a person is in this...

change

14 responses •

1 person

shrike hi! if you are going into a relationship because you want to change the person i guess for me it won't work. why get into when there is something you don't like in that person. well maybe.. if he does love you really, then he will do his very best to change. a...

1 Feb 12

•

1 comment

Do you and your spouse/partner have similar backgrounds?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 1 Feb 12

It is often said that it is better for a couple to have a similar background as that does help draw them closer. Do you and your partner have similar backgrounds. My husband and I are very much different. We do have things in...

background

11 responses

shrike hai! opposite poles attract each other,, maybe that will describe me and my husbands relationship. we do not have the same background but we experienced the hardships of life during childhood. what i learn about is, no matter how different we are to each...

1 Feb 12

•

1 comment