skipper9

@skipper9 (51)

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Have you ever stucked in a traffic jam for 1 hour?

becdmd @becdmd (704) • Philippines 30 Dec 09

Holiday rush is in...This morning as I travel to my work, I was stucked in a traffic and instead of complaining I maintain my good mood for I don't want to ruin my day...And as I expected when I go home it's also traffic...I'm...

traffic jam

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skipper9 When I was at University me and my mates were on our way down to see a concert. We were in a traffic jam on the motorway. There had been a fatal accident so the road had been closed and there was by now no chance of us making the concert we were all gutted....

30 Dec 09

What's you favorite holiday-associated candy?

olisaur @olisaur (1922) • United States 27 Dec 09

By "holiday-associated" I mean things like conversation hearts for Valentine's Day, Candy Canes for Christmas, and Peeps for Easter. I've never really cared for candy canes, and I've always HATED conversation hearts- they taste...

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skipper9 Cadbury Mini Eggs. I always used to have a packet on those when I was a kid. I would get 2 or 3 big egss and then a pcket of these topped it off. It just reminds me of laying in bed at Easter scoffing my face. Its the only time I ever used to have chocolate...

27 Dec 09

What story makes you reflect?

magic9 @magic9 (980) • China 27 Dec 09

Last night, I happened to serach an episode of audio and I downloaded the old story "Poor dad and rich dad". I am sure many people have read of it years ago. I was so fascinated by the story that I struggled not to shut my eyes to...

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skipper9 I Love reading autobiographies. Reading where people have come from, the adversities they have overcome and what they are now. That inspires me. Also films make me reflect. Shawshank redemption is one that inspires.

27 Dec 09

do u really want to get married?

novelcai @novelcai (600) • Philippines 17 Dec 09

i have nothing against about marriage, just happen that sometimes well most of the times i don't believe in marriage. I'm still single, some of my friends got married already. but most of my friends i met has their own family...

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skipper9 This is a very good question. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years but we have not really discussed marriage. I do not want to get married. I am not ready to settle down in that way yet. There are so many things that I want to do with my life and I...

17 Dec 09

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Frustrated

Ongtina @ongtina (1232) • Singapore 14 Dec 09

I'm very angry now. Very angry with my husband. It's already 10 at night but my husband expects to see me busy. He just cannot let me relax sitting watching tv or chatting here on the laptop. It's late and yet he wanted me to cook...

anger

general

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skipper9 I really hope you get things sorted. Does he know how bad he makes you feel? Have your tried talking to hime about it? If he doesn't listen keep trying. It is not just men who are bad. A female friend of mine drove her partner to a breakdown. She was horrible...

14 Dec 09

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Are you good at bargaining?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 13 Dec 09

I am poor at bargaining. I repsect the people who can bargain well, because it is something which I can't do well. Most of the big shops have fixed prices and bargaining is possible only in street shops and other small shops. Most...

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skipper9 I think you have to be quite assertive to do this and I am not sure that im at that stage yet. Im working on it but bargaining sounds quite scary to me.

14 Dec 09

Do you think it's a good idea to tell your Partner how many lovers you had?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 10 Dec 09

I was listening to the radio this morning. The topic was talking about your past relationships with your current partner. They were asking do you ever think that it's a good idea to tell your new partner how many partners you have...

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skipper9 A friend of mine has told his partner everything. All the nights out, relationships and details. But it does depend on the relationship you have. I know if I told my girlfiend the real figure or went into detail she would freak out.

14 Dec 09

The difference between the children before and the children today.

sachii315 @sachii315 (488) • Japan 12 Dec 09

My childhood was a very memorable one. When I was a kid I used to play with other neighbor's kids on the public playground. We used to trade cards, marbles, bike racing, play tag and dodge. When it's raining, we used to catch...

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skipper9 I think children grow up way to quickly these days. There are so many influences out there that they have lost the esscence of their childhood.

13 Dec 09

Will you fall in love to someone who don't have a job?

larish @larish (2239) • Philippines 27 May 09

I have known people who stands still with their man who has no job from the start of the realationship. So what happens after they got married is that the guy remains to be dependent to her. She works while he stays at home doing...

no job

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skipper9 Depends on the circumstances but if its because the person is lazy then I say get rid.

28 May 09

Is mental abuse as bad as physical abuse in a relationship?

Tjmoney22 @Tjmoney22 (76) • United States 27 May 09

I think that mental abuse, is just as bad as physical abuse, because if a person hits you, in time your wounds will heal. Emotional abuse is much worse because when someone says hurtful things to you, that is something that sticks...

abusive relationships

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skipper9 You are so right. Anybody in an abusive relationship needs to get out. Does he or infact she really love you if they are saying or doing these things. Get out and get on with your life.

28 May 09

should a cheater be given a second chance

mama_bear @mama_bear (1118) • Canada 26 May 09

hello all i am curious as to everyone's take on this, should someone who has cheated, whether it is emotionally or physically be given a second chance. an emotional cheater is one who will not have a phsical but an emotional...

relationships

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skipper9 In my opinion no. From what I know of friends who cheat they cheat on a serial basis. Even after they have been caught they maybe good for awhile but once that big lads night out comes along they slip back into their old ways. You also have to look at the...

27 May 09

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