sofear

@sofear (42)

Age 41

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Help!Am desperate for a job!

sofear @sofear (42) 17 Apr 10

Hey People, So I have searching for a job loke for ever.I had been looking forward to start working from home with a certain organisation as a customer service agent but I have to wait untill July.So,does anyone of you know of...

Dumped by friend

sofear @sofear (42) 2 Apr 10

So,am confused right now and I need someone to help me make sense of this.I just got a shock email from a friend of mine that I have been dating,nothing serious.He is having problems at work and has been stressed and unhappy about...

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Shattered goals/dreams anyone?

sofear @sofear (42) 12 Mar 10

We all have goals/dreams in life.Some we make as resolutions every year.But what happen when we do not fullfill our dreams?For those of us who believe in God,we know that God has his plans for us as much as we do for ourselves and...

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"What goes around,comes around".Is this applicable to everyone?

sofear @sofear (42) 10 Mar 10

Am just wondering,there are people out there,friends,aquintances,relatives or collegues that like to tell lies alot.Lying is their order of the day and they seem to get away with it all the time.These kind of people know when to...

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3 people

Finding love after beign rejected.

sofear @sofear (42) 19 Feb 10

How can one believe that they will find love after beign rejected several times.It kind of lowers your self esteem and you start thinking that maybe your not good enough for anyone.I would like to know from you guys that have gone...

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1 person

What excuses do you give not to have a relationship?

sofear @sofear (42) 15 Feb 10

Hi, am just wondering,what do you people say to the people you date but don't fancy a serious relationship with them?Do you know anyone that is in this situation or are you a victim of these excuses from someone you like but they...

people

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What do men mean exactly?

sofear @sofear (42) 5 Feb 10

Hey mylotters.I would like to hear from male mylotters especialy but females can feel free to answer too.When your man says to you that he is not ready to have a baby or have a serious relationship or even get married,does he mean...

relationships

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3 people

Should I be upset with him?

sofear @sofear (42) 30 Jan 10

So,I have been dating this guy for a while now.I like him and he says he likes me too.He is kind to me and has always been respectful to me.I realy do appreciate him.But recently I have been going through problems,he knows that am...

life

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2 people

Is knowing where a relationship is going important?

sofear @sofear (42) 23 Jan 10

Am curious to find out if we[especialy women]should sk the men we date this question.What if you want to settle down,get married and have kids?Should you ask your partner this question to find out if your relationship has got a...

love

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What are the living conditions in homeless shelters?

sofear @sofear (42) 19 Jan 10

Am almost a homeless person now and my last resort and hope is a homeless shelter.However am wondering how it goes over there.Are the homeless provided with food,sleeping area,somewhere to have a wash and do laundry?And is it...

life

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1 person

what do you do when you loose everything?

sofear @sofear (42) 18 Jan 10

I wonder ow people cope when they loose their jobs and there homes.When they can't afford to buy their necessities and end up depending on others.I am in this situation right now,I have lost all hope that things will get...

life

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Must friendship have benefits?

sofear @sofear (42) 15 Jan 10

I am very good at making friends and I am always honest with my friends.I met a new one recently and he wanted me to sleep with him,as a friend with benefit thing that most people do.When I explained to him that am not innterested...

friendship

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2 people