sofear

@sofear (42)

Age 41

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Do you have a love of your life?

reoko10 @reoko10 (578) • United States 19 Feb 10

I know that I do and I think that I will stay with this one for the rest of my life. I also know that if anything were to happen to him and he was not around any more I would not date again it wold just be me and my kids. What...

love

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sofear I actualy do have a love of my life but we are not together anymore.He did not feel the same way about me and he left me for someone else.I loved him enough to let him go and be happy with the one he chose to be with.I know I love him and always will and it...

19 Feb 10

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Have you ever met an online friend in person?

sunyskies @sunyskies (126) • United States 15 Feb 10

I have a group of online friends that I talk to almost every day. I enjoy their company every bit as much as friends that I see face to face. I have never had an opportunity to meet any of them in person, but I think it would be...

friends

online friends

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sofear Yes,I have met some of my online friends and to be honest,it's scary at first when you go to meet them because you don't know what they are like.Some of them I realy liked and we are now good friends but some were not as they seemed.The more you keep in...

15 Feb 10

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how do you know when someone like or love you?

damalimcpherson @damalimcpherson (251) • Jamaica 5 Feb 10

well for it is not hard to know that someone likes me. what about you? how do you know that some one likes or love you?

relationships

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sofear As for me,I will know a person likes me when they make an effort with me.Like coming to see me,calling me for no apparent reason,having a major interest in what is going on with me and all.

5 Feb 10

Where is GOD?

vine88 @vine88 (1031) • India 4 Feb 10

god god god god..... but where is god?

religion

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sofear If you believe n Him,then he is always with you.That is where He always is...

4 Feb 10

"If theres a single word to describe your partner( husband.wife) .........

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 4 Feb 10

If there is just one word to describe your partner? What will be the word that describe him/her, What word suit him best? We may see negative points from him/her, but of course we may see his/her positive points clearly as...

best

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sofear Unpredictable

4 Feb 10

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Hopeless Romantic

lampar @lampar (7584) • United States 30 Jan 10

This discussion is mainly about your personality, what will be your reaction if you find out someone that you love so much and who profess his/her love to you daily is making up with another person behind your back....

relationship

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sofear Mhhhm!What can I say?It happened to me once.I cried like a baby and at the time it felt like the end of the world but time healed my wounds and these days when I remember how I wailed on and on for days because of him,I laugh about it.What cannot kill you,...

30 Jan 10

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How often do you take a cup of tea?

borg246 @borg246 (539) • Malta 26 Jan 10

Hey mylotters! I just need to know, out of terms of curiosity and a study for my biology project, how much tea, on the average, that one consumes every day. As for me, I take about 1-3 cups of tea a day. My mother used to tell me...

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sofear I take alot of cups of tea.About 7-8 cups a day.I would like to cut down to 2 a day and just have water but it is sooo cold,all I need is a hot cuppa.

26 Jan 10

Have you ever lied to you partner about how many people you've slept with before

chubit @chubit (122) 22 Jan 10

Its an age old problem, how much do you want to disclose to your partner about previous people you've been with? Do you think its easier to be honest if you're a man or a women? If your partner were to say they'd been with...

honesty

relationships

sex

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sofear I simply just say that his question is irrelevant and that what matters is who am with at the moment i.e.him.I don't think it is important to know the number because what you don't know won't hurt you.

23 Jan 10

I ll never forgive you....

marianna45 @marianna45 (1399) • Romania 21 Jan 10

How many times in your life do you use this words? And how many times in your life you keep your word, in this ? I mean are peoples who hurt you so badly in your life and never forgive, and never forget what they done to you?...

life

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sofear As for me,I find it very easy to forgive but not forgetting.I would like to forget though because I find life much easier when I don't linger on things.Ater all we are all human and hence prone to conflict.I forgive so that am forgiven aswell because I do...

21 Jan 10

Do you experience clicking bones? I do, my knees, shoulders, it's non-stop!

Andrew @AndrewFreyne (6281) • United Kingdom 20 Jan 10

I don't know why I have this problem but whenever I bend down my knees click and it's not as though I have been doing any heavy lifting with them. I do like to exercise and I sometimes wonder whether I am overdoing it! I cycle a...

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sofear Yea,I do have that aswell and my sister keeps telling me off that am not taking vitamins.But my mum has the same problem so I think I got it from her.I drink milk and all that malarcky but it goes on.I know,it's embarassing for me aswell but WE can't help it.

20 Jan 10

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What dreams have you given up on?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 19 Jan 10

So now that you’re a little bit older, and a little bit wiser, it would be interesting to know what dreams, goals or ambitions that you have given up on. When I was a little boy, I dreamt of being a doctor. That was before I...

dreams

fame

fortune

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sofear I always had the dream of marrying a footballer.I used to think it will be such an amazing thing to be a footballers wife,it didn't matter which team he would be playing for.But now that am a big girl,I am not realy keen on marriage in the first place.

19 Jan 10

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Should I try to work it out?

Mia136 @Mia136 (28) • United States 19 Jan 10

Okay.... I've been friends with this gurl for a lil over four years now and she's tha best friend I've ever had. We've had our ups and downs but mostly its been up. I love this gurl to death she's like my sister but she gets me in...

friends

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sofear Just talk to her nicely and let her know how her behaviour affects you.Maybe she is not aware it does cause u harm and might think you guyz are having fun.If she is a good mate she will change for the better,if not,then just try and keep off her peer...

19 Jan 10

Do you believe in a "soul mate?"

chelsgrrl69 @chelsgrrl69 (382) • United States 17 Jan 10

Soul mate is defined as: someone for whom you have deep affinity. Is this the same as your definition or do you see it differently? Do you have a soul mate? Or did you HAVE him/her and they left. Can you have more than one soul...

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sofear Yeah,I used to believe in soul mates but not anymore.I thought I met hi but he left me for someone else.We were so good together and even now when we talk there is that sparkle still there but he believes we were not meant to be so am thinking that maybe I was...

18 Jan 10

Is love worth a tear?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 18 Jan 10

Love aches. Nothing but a heart aches. Yeah love hurts, love wounds. All the songs in the world can kill you if your hurt because of so cold (called) love. .. Now that Its all over now I'm asking myself is it worth a...

love

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sofear Yes it hurts sometimes.Especialy when it comes to an end.But it ill get better with time.Just let the tears flow for now.If you truely loved the person then its worth every tear drop.x

18 Jan 10

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Do you experience sudden loneliness?

kafueenu @kafueenu (1073) • Philippines 17 Jan 10

I often experhience that I just feel sad all of a sudden, with no reasons at all. I feel like crying and all that, I don't know if its a medical condition, or I am just a weird person. But when the loneliness attacks me, I just...

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sofear Everybody experiences loneliness in life.We cannot be like an island,alone n sometimes deserted.We all need someone to chat to,have a laugh with and all.Sometimes people need time alone,just to chill and that is normal too.I experience that kind of feeling...

17 Jan 10

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Have you ever had a car accident?

magic9 @magic9 (980) • China 17 Jan 10

This topic may not pleasing but I still want to ask that if you have ever had a car accident. I had a car crash this afternoon. I was sitting beside my boss and we were listening to smooth music. Suddenly she began to tap the...

car crash

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sofear Oh yes,I have had one and it still gives me nightmares.The driver on the coach I was travelling in had taken a different route,which only lorry drivers take mostly.This was at night.The road was so dark,am not sure he could see properly.He was in high speed...

17 Jan 10

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What do you do?

lizardgod @lizardgod (443) • United States 15 Jan 10

So as I am not currently employed I have had some additional free time. Now I do a lot of work online trying to get the money I make per month high enough to replace the need for a full time job but that still doesn't take up all...

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sofear Hey,am currently unemployed and what I do is write poems and go to the local library to read books coz I like reading.Just find something you you love n do just that.x

15 Jan 10

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Why people make friends if they dnt know the real meaning of friendship?

reetikanarula @reetikanarula (35) • India 10 Jan 10

I feel like in todays life only few people left who knows the actual meaning of friendship. Agree or Disagree?

friendship

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sofear I agree with you.Some people just use you for what you have and when you loose it,then they no longer want to be friends with you.Others let you down n hurt you.when you have been nothing but sweet n friendly to them.

15 Jan 10

Who should pay on the first date?

luckymichelle @luckymichelle (170) • Singapore 13 Jan 10

Its that oh-so-importtant first date which can inject millions of endorphins into one's soul just by the mere thought of it. Guys and gals alike are always dreaming of making that magical date most memorable so as to mark the...

first date

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sofear It doesn't realy matter who pays on the first date.Although most people would want the man to do so even if the girl might have been the one who asked him out.As for me,if I asked you out on the first date then I pay for it,and if a man did ask me out then I...

14 Jan 10