sparkie1981

@sparkie1981 (29)

United States • Age 43

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need facts for children custody what is best

tiguy01 @tiguy01 (1) • Canada 31 Jan 07

hi..... I guess you can say I am the new kid on the block!!!!! I was wondering if any body knew where I could find information or studies on what is best for children who's parents have separated....1 week 1 week or 1 week-end on...

children

information needed

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sparkie1981 i would imagine that the best place to find out custody information and rights of both parents would be your lcal child support agency. you can explain to them that you dont want to go through the courts, but u want to know the rights of both parents. me and...

21 Jul 07

Do you know a lot about CARS?

Abbypia @Abbyey (760) • Philippines 21 Jul 07

My car is automatic. For the pass weeks i observed that the RPM have a problem. In one time i have already parked my car in the mall and placed the gear to P - Park my feet OFF the gas pedal... yet the RPM goes from 1 to 2 1/2 up...

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sparkie1981 check your fluids... my friends kind of did the same thing... his tranmission fluid was low. i dont know if this will help, but try it i guess...

21 Jul 07

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Establishing A Credit History

maddysmommy @maddysmommy (16230) • United States 18 Jul 07

My husband and I are in the process of establishing a credit history. We now have two credit cards and one department store card at present. He wants to keep applying for more credit cards and or department cards to help establish...

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sparkie1981 i wouldnt keep applying for them. actually, the more cards you have, the worse ur credit history is. every time you apply for a new card, you take a hit on your score. it is best to apply for all of the cards that you want to apply for within 7 days. for some...

18 Jul 07

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Is this neglect or abuse?

applsofgld @applsofgld (2506) • United States 15 Jul 07

I have a relative who has 2 small boys, ages 3 & 4. They are both still on the bottle and neither are potty trained. I asked her again today when she was going to do this and she said they scream and cry when I try to get them to...

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sparkie1981 It just sounds like she doesnt really take interest in her children growing up. i dont think its abuse or neglect, but it seems like she needs to grow up. I have a 2 year old with an ex-girlfriend. i live an hour away from him, but i still take him 3 or 4 days...

15 Jul 07

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What do you think of Diet Pills???

KraZyDaIZy @KraZyDaIZy (42) • United States 15 Jul 07

I have tried everything to lose weight... I just cant seem to shed many pounds... i just keep gaining them! I have seen and heard of SOOOOOOOO many diet drugs, but do they work? And how do you know which is the best? Do you buy...

lose 30 pounds

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sparkie1981 I have done diet pills. actually, ripped fuel. it seemed to work very well with exercise. i was never big, but i wasnt where i wanted to be. so with a little hard work and the help of ripped fuel, i got down to where i wanted to be within about 2 months.

15 Jul 07

What should I do?

wooitsmolly @wooitsmolly (3613) • United States 14 Jul 07

I am bored, my boyfriend has left me for another woman, and I have nothing to do... I need some suggestions. I have no clean pants at the moment. Oh, and I have no friends so that's not an option. THANKS.

nudity

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sparkie1981 i think you should pick up a hobby. after of course, you do laundry. im sorry to hear about ur boyfriend, but dont let it get you down. if that is a picture of you, you will have no problem finding another man. go fishing, or shopping, or bowling. meet people....

15 Jul 07

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Break up after 5 years. I'm having a hard time.

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 15 Jul 07

Hi there! As you have noticed I've been away from mylot for about a week and a half. Me and my boyfriend broke up. After 5 years of being together, he broke up with me last July 8. We were suppose to celebrate our 5th year...

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sparkie1981 Im sorry to hear this. I dated a female for just about 5 years also. I got her to join the military, and she went to basic training and came back with another guy. needless to say, we broke up. They got married shortly after that and a week after the wedding,...

15 Jul 07

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When do you start Christmas shopping?

socorban @socorban (650) • United States 15 Jul 07

I talked to a guy today who said he was off to do some Christmas shopping, i was slightly bewildered as i looked at the calander on my phone and noticed its July 14th. But i shouldnt be surprised i guess, many people start...

calander

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sparkie1981 i myself am a late late christmas shopper. my mom by the other hand is done shooping in janurary. she hits all of the after christmas sales and shes good for the rest of the year.

15 Jul 07

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How long did you know your partner before moving together?

RobinJ @RobinJ (2501) • Canada 13 Jul 07

Hi everyone, I was thinking about my failed marriage, and I believe it was due to the fact that from the day I met my ex husband until the day I married his was exactly six months. And I knew very little about him. I knew by the...

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sparkie1981 I have always been a slow mover. I dated a girl for almost 5 years before she left me for another guy. ever since then, i have taken my time in a relationship. it wasnt until i met Angel that i was swept away. in no time i was in love. now its been a year and...

13 Jul 07

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Could you kill an animal for food.

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 7 Jun 07

My ex used to go hunting every year and kill a deer. We would have venison all the next year. I liked the taste of venison. But i told him I could never kill an animal for food. I would turn vegetarian first. If its already killed...

animals

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sparkie1981 i can and do kill animals and fish for food. its better to do that than to kill it and walk away from it isnt it? so, atleast the animal and fish isnt getting waisted. i couldnt just kill for fun though....what do u think this is, iraq?

12 Jul 07

Have you ever hunted?

Coolgeth @Coolgeth (1215) • India 8 Jun 07

I love hunting but i didn't get a chance for hunting..Since i live in a main city..I like to visit thick forests to hunt animals and birds..Do you had a chance for hunting? This will be more adventures..Dont they?

adventure

animals

hunting

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sparkie1981 i hunt all the time. squirrles, deer, birds ect. its great to get out into the woods. so peaceful and relaxing. i recomend it to anyone.

12 Jul 07