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birthlady @birthlady (5609) • United States 21 Jan 07

My goodness, I posted a discussion about the benefits of home birth, and with the responses I've received, you'd think I'm from Neptune. I have had responses saying home birth is unsafe. Home birth is dangerous. Home birth is...

advantages of home birth

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stephifr As for me, I went with hospital birth, just because I'm a wus and couldn't put up with the pain. LOL But if people decide they want to do home birth's that's totally up to them. I don't see anything wrong with them. And the training that the midwives go...

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haleymarie @haleymarie (7) • United States 13 Jan 07

Days of our lives have been on forever,right?How come the kids get older and the parents don't,except for Alice.She ages gracefully.I guess they all had a face lift.

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stephifr What I love is the fact that the older generations, like John and Marlena can still have kids themselves. I mean come on people, they should be past menopause by now! Especially if they're kids are up out of college and have babies for themselves.

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KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36447) • United States 8 Sep 18

Was just checking out sites I can create items to sell, and came across Inktale. It looks like a pretty good site, and you can set your own prices if you do not want to use their prices they set there. The profit margins look...

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stephifr Was just checking out sites I can create items to sell, and came across Inktale. It looks like a pretty good site, and you can set your own prices if you do not want to use their prices they set there. The profit margins look pretty good as well. This is...

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KrisNY @KrisNY (7590) • United States 12 Jan 07

What is going on with this-- Mimi's mom and 2 brothers have something to do with it... Is it her dad? I'm confused-- Anyone have any idead?

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stephifr I bet you anything it's going to be Mimi's dad. They say he left them and they haven't heard from him since. Something probablly happened and they left him down there to die. I don't like Bonnie anyway. I hate that they brough Mimi's younger brother back...

13 Jan 07

rice5899 @rice5899 (193) • United States 21 Dec 06

Who else agrees with me that the new Shawn is just horrible. There is just no chemistry with this guy and the girl that plays Belle, actually no chemistry with any of the characters. Jason Cook did an awesome job as Shawn D and...

days of our lives

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stephifr I think we all hate change, especially when they switch actors on us. I did hear they were suppose to bring back the old Philip. That's what I understand now. I liked him better then the last one. I think this shawn and Belle fit each other though. Now if...

28 Dec 06

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 27 Dec 06

Ok, this is embarrassing, but our neighbours are fairly prone to haveing a little "bedtime" fun together. They're quite noisy about it though. For example, the window in our bedroom was slightly open last night and we could hear...

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stephifr I would say something to them, if even in a letter. I would write it so that you don't acuse them of doing something wrong and they don't take the defense. Who's to say they know they are that loud. I wouldn't mention that people are laughing at them...

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aimee750 @aimee750 (1116) • United States 11 Dec 06

I was just curious about the ranges that have been set for child support payments. I get $340 a month for one child.

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stephifr We have 2 boys from my husband's first marriage that we get $75 a week for, but the price he set. I'm sure if he would have let the courts set the amount it would have been different. As for me, i'm suppose to be getting $80 a week for my daughter. But I...

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john1984 @john1984 (309) • India 18 Dec 06

This question is asked by one of my close friend . I am eighteen years old and am in a situation i would never have imagined myself to be. I am 19 wks pregnant, I can't wait to hold my daughter, my babygirl. I am trying to do...

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stephifr I'm sorry you're in that situation. I wouldn't try to do anything. Take it from experience you CAN'T force anyone to do something they don't want to do. I was terrified when my husband left me with my 2 week old baby. You don't think you can make it until...

24 Dec 06

kahkashan @kahkashan (81) • India 24 Dec 06

What according to you is the best thing about christmas the food,decorating the christmas tree,etc. etc.???

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stephifr Besides the fact that it's the day that the Lord was born. The best thing about Christmas is watching the kids enjoy their gifts and sharing with other people, and the time we get off to spend with our families.

24 Dec 06

Kareng @kareng (61756) • United States 24 Dec 06

Ok, it's Christmas Eve. What are your favorite Christmas memories? Do you have a special Chritmas that you always think of each year? What made this year so special? Was it a gift? Or something else? I always think back to...

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special christmas from past

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stephifr My favorite Christmas memory would have to be when I was little and we got an Atari for Christmas. I think that was the year I found out that daddy was Santa. But I didn't care, I had an Atari!

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Lxandra79 @Lxandra79 (1535) • United States 2 Dec 06

feedback and what i can do. I got pregnant i didnt plan on it but when I did my baby daddy wanted me to get an abortion of course i didnt want that so i said no, So he left me and my son, he didnt want nothing to do with me. I put...

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stephifr You're in about the same situation I'm in, only I was married to the man and he is in and out of prison. Today was a good example of the let down and dissapointment. She had a basketball game and was planning all week for him to come and see her. Well last...

16 Dec 06

soldenski @soldenski (2503) • United States 4 Dec 06

Would you rather be a child of a dead beat dad or would you rather your "father" sign away his parental rights? I think I would rather have a dead beat dad, then to think that I was so terrible that my father wanted nothing to do...

dead beat dad

parental rights

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stephifr That's hard to say. I think I would rather have him sign his rights away. I was actually that child once. My biological sperm donor signed over his rights and I was allowed to be adopted by my dad when I was 3. I didn't feel that rejection of knowing he...

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chunkers @chunkers (1050) • United States 14 Dec 06

I am SO TIRED of hearing the phrase "Dead-beat Dads"! Just because a father cannot afford to work a 60 hour week, pay his own bills, and still support the MOTHER of his children, does not make him a DEAD BEAT! There are some...

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stephifr Ok, I just had to add, today my daughter had a basketball game that her "father" was suppose to come to. She was so excited and then last night he calls and says he's not coming because they asked him to work. I don't know if I want to believe him or not...

16 Dec 06

madonna143 @madonna143 (1737) • Philippines 13 Dec 06

Does the rain make you sad? What do you feel when you hear the rain dropping?

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stephifr I like the rain. I love to sit and listen to it and just take time out of this busy day. I also like to sleep on rainy days...lol.

16 Dec 06

madonna143 @madonna143 (1737) • Philippines 16 Dec 06

Didi you ever try to meet someone, or actually met someone through the internet? Is it a better way to meet people?

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stephifr I have met someone over the net. I've met a couple of people actually though Yahoo Personals when it was free. I ended up with one of them actually. We got married in 2002 and he's the best!

16 Dec 06

RedDevil1804 @RedDevil1804 (121) • Romania 16 Dec 06

I think Prison break is better than Lost. What do you think?Prison Break is an American television series that premiered on the Fox Network on August 29, 2005. The story revolves around a man who was sentenced to death for a crime...

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stephifr That is a tough one. I would have to go with Lost though. Prison break is good, but it's not as suspensful as Lost.

16 Dec 06

chunkers @chunkers (1050) • United States 14 Dec 06

I am SO TIRED of hearing the phrase "Dead-beat Dads"! Just because a father cannot afford to work a 60 hour week, pay his own bills, and still support the MOTHER of his children, does not make him a DEAD BEAT! There are some...

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stephifr There are dead-beat dad's as well as mom's. But yes, if you don't want to take responsiblities for your children and help raise them then you are a dead-beat. My ex husband who decided to leave me has not paid any support for the last 8 years. Of course...

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stephifr @stephifr (72) • United States 30 Nov 06

My baby just turned 3. He's so smart and he knows he's suppose to go peepee in the potty, but doesn't want to. He will even come to me and throw a diaper at me and tell me he's stinky. We have big boy pants, but he doesn't want...

potty training

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stephifr LOL, yummy! That is a good come back. I'm not going to buy anymore diapers after we get rid of these. If they aren't around he can't use them.

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stephifr @stephifr (72) • United States 30 Nov 06

My baby just turned 3. He's so smart and he knows he's suppose to go peepee in the potty, but doesn't want to. He will even come to me and throw a diaper at me and tell me he's stinky. We have big boy pants, but he doesn't want...

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stephifr LOL, thanks! I've tried school, but that didn't work. He's so into Cars right now. So we did go and buy a BIG McQuade car. I told him he could have it if he goes poo on the potty. He still won't do it. I've got the car in the package sitting on the pot....

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stephifr @stephifr (72) • United States 30 Nov 06

My baby just turned 3. He's so smart and he knows he's suppose to go peepee in the potty, but doesn't want to. He will even come to me and throw a diaper at me and tell me he's stinky. We have big boy pants, but he doesn't want...

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stephifr Oh that's funny. Thanks for the comments.

15 Dec 06

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