Suebee

@Suebee (2013)

Canada • Age 64

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Oh that poor lady!!!!

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 28 Apr 13

I really think the owners are pushing it with some people they accept here or else they need to train the care givers to have more patience.This poor woman who has some sort of motor control nerve problems that make it almost...

she mayh need morehelp than gold crest can give he

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Suebee Even if the woman has needs that cannot be accommodated by the facility, there is no justifiable reason for the caregivers to be making inappropriate remarks. Whether or not the person's intellect has been affected, whether she understands the comments or not...

29 Apr 13

Do you prefer to be single or married?

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

which one do you prefer? to be single and have life of your choice? or to share your life with your partner? if you prefer to be married then what is your success and experience of married life?

married

single

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Suebee Myself, I am married and am very happy. It is all a matter of personal choice. Some people would rather live alone while others prefer to have a partner. One can still have "life of your choice" whether they are single or in a relationship.

19 Mar 13

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ever seen your dead relatives in your dream?

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

it is more than third time, from the time my father passed away, I see him in my dream and we talk together but when I get up I forget what we were talking about? and what he was saying to me?? I really wish him to see in my...

dead

dream

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Suebee Yes, I have seen relatives who have passed in my dreams...if that is what they were...dreams. I saw my father as well, a few times after he passed. In one dream I recall he was standing at the foot of my bed. It was one of those dreams that are so real you're...

19 Mar 13

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experience of becoming widow

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

some people says that having a bad husband is better than living without man. they used to think that lady always need a man othewise society will not give that much respect to an alone lady... How do you think and agree with it?...

widow

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Suebee It is a personal choice whether to have someone in your life or not, although you have no control over when that person dies. Some people seek companionship, a partner, love, or a relationship with others. Some people choose to live by themselves. It is all...

19 Mar 13

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Does law of attraction actually changed your life??

ruchadhawal31 @ruchadhawal31 (228) • India 15 Feb 13

According to me it has somewhat changed my life. We cant fully depend on law of attraction. We also have to make some efforts to become successfull in life. This book is somewhat helpful.

law of attraction

success

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Suebee Yes the law of attraction exists. And you, you can fully depend on the law of attraction, just as you can depend on the law of gravity. Laws of nature don't only work sometimes. Gravity does not work some days and not others. You have read the book The...

19 Mar 13

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Have you realized that you need to put yourself first?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 25 Feb 13

Have you ever reached a point in your life where you realized that you need to start putting yourself, and your children first? Whether you were just dating someone or if you were married? I have for the longest time hoped that my...

first

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Suebee I think that in general, not just in relationships but in everyday life, one needs to learn how to put themselves first. It may sound selfish at first, but really, it is the only way to live your life. If you think about it, it only makes sense. Why live for...

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"Material things aren't important at all"

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 4 Feb 13

While I was waiting for my appointment I talked to a woman who was waiting as well. We discussioned material things and she said: "If someone damages one of my belongings I don’t get angry. Compared to a situation where you lose a...

material things

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Suebee I agree with what the woman said, but only to a point. Of course the loss of a loved one is much more devastating than the loss of a material item, but that does not mean that material items have no value. It depends on what kinds of items you are talking...

4 Feb 13

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Your inner wear

Always smiling @allknowing (136407) • India 13 Jan 13

No one looks at our inner wear and so do we get tempted to make allowances such as not bothering to see that the two pieces match, that they fit us well, there are no pins to hold them in place, they are not torn and last but not...

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Suebee I think just about everyone is tempted to make allowances regarding their underwear. I rarely wear a matching set, although sometimes if I wear a black bra I'll wear a pair of black panties, same for white etc although they were not purchased as a matching...

14 Jan 13

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But I Don't KNOW The Words To 'Roll Out The Barrel.'

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 13 Jan 13

This discussion came about after watching a Lottery segment on television about where some of the money goes..and there was a lady on who uses music to help trigger positive responses from dementia sufferers who feel lonely and...

elderly deserve better songs

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Suebee Well, I work in a nursing home and have never heard them sing "Roll out the Barrel". Not even once! Usually the residents will suggest a song that they want to sing and anybody who knows the words or can remember them joins in.

14 Jan 13

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What would you do if your child was charged with murder

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 12 Jan 13

I watch The First 48 often, and this came up. 4 juveniles were charged with muder, one mother kept saying my child wouldn't do that. Sadly, they were all charged and sentence for life. They should after the crime of taking a...

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Suebee Hate the sin, love the sinner. I would definitely support my kids if they committed murder no matter what the circumstances. That doesn't mean, however, that I would expect them to go unpunished. No one is above the law and yes, I totally agree that if you do...

12 Jan 13

Spending time on the beach

Always smiling @allknowing (136407) • India 9 Jan 13

I was just wondering whether we all do the same thing no matter which part of the world we live in. As kids, we would go to the beach with our elders and get busy building hillocks in the sand, break them and build again, pick...

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Suebee I went to the beach occasionally as a child and still only go occasionally now. In Canada we have limited beach weather and it is sometimes to get out there at all during the summer months. I love it though. I also love to take a vacation in the sunny south...

9 Jan 13

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Long time since the last login

zabuqamar @zabuqamar (138) • Australia 9 Jan 13

Hey everybody, So i started mylotting on the first of January and I kept being active on my lot for about a week and now i'v got 94 cents. Is it possible for me to reach the cashout this month if I stayed active for the end of...

cashout

cents

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Suebee It all depends on you and how much time and effort you want to put in to it. I was not active on here for months and months so have just .95 in my earnings, however, I don't care if I make the cash out or not as I'm just stopping by to see what's goin on. Good...

9 Jan 13

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Are You A Sensitive/ Emotional Person?

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 7 May 07

All my life, I have been told that I am either too sensitive or too emotional. Okay, I am willing to admit that I can be a little sappy at times, but all in all, it has not been too bad. I use to cry a lot more, when I have a...

cry baby

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Suebee I have never considered myself an emotional person but the one thing in my life that stirs up emotions is my sons.

9 Jan 13

Going To Finish Up Knitting Projects

PinkCashmereYarn @bluerubymoon53 (3286) • United States 27 Dec 12

I have 2 knitting projects going and I need to finish them up. I started a short-sleeved cardigan a few summers ago. It is a nice shade of purple and have it nearly finished. All I have to do is finish up the second sleeve and...

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Suebee I started an afghan about a year ago that I have to finish. Somehow I just can't get back into it though. Once I dig it out and get started it will be ok but the problem is getting started on it again!

8 Jan 13

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...is a country's credit rating really that serious?

jeanneyvonne @jeanneyvonne (5501) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

I'm gettign interested in my country's economy and I'm plunging in to make a stake in economics even though I only understand the basic concepts. however, I'm really curious about this credit rating. I understand that it like a...

opinion

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Suebee I don't know all that much about world finances but one thing I DO know. I live in Canada and when the U.S. had it's credit rating dropped I lost over $30,000 Canadian!!

8 Jan 13

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what is your opinion of people who sleep in church?

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 7 Jan 13

i find it funny that some people actually feel no shame and sleep peacefully in church, except for the small children or very old or someone who is unwell why do you sleep in church,its better you walk out and go sleep in your...

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Suebee The one, most meaningful word that I picked up on in your discussion is the word PEACEFULLY. I think that speaks volumes! Many people go to church to find peace, or to be more specific INNER peace. Maybe they have found what they have been searching for. They...

7 Jan 13

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I got a REAL writing job--woohoo!

Suzieqmom @Suzieqmom (2755) • United States 6 Jan 13

I have been writing on mylot, triond, helium and other sites for over a year now, and am working on a travel book (as yet unpublished). Although I really enjoy online writing, it doesn't really pay all that much...but online...

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Suebee Wow! Congratulations! That is fantastic. I have always believed that if you want something, you can get it. You are testimony to that fact. Too many people give up too soon or after a few months. You stuck it out for over a year and are now on your way!...

7 Jan 13

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Come to my party, fully prepared.

Always smiling @allknowing (136407) • India 5 Jan 13

I am a party organiser. I have organised several parties for family, for my office, for orphans, for friends and so on. I put my heart and soul into the planning but do you know if the participants are lame my parties become a...

good comments

good responses

mylot

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Suebee I totally agree with you allknowing. A party is only as good as the people attending and a discussion is only as good as the responses. You can have a great discussion topic but if no one wants to give quality responses or just one line responses it can...

7 Jan 13

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Do you want to be known as a “nice person”?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 5 Jan 13

Being firm in a particular stance or saying “yes” or “no” instead of beating round the bush makes some people look very tough. On the other hand the desire for pleasantness also makes a person get into trouble. Are you a person...

beat round the bush

being nice

getting a good name

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Suebee I don't care whether people think I am nice or not. What other people think of me is none of my business. If I am happy with myself, then that is all that matters. I see no reason for me to be miserable to others and if that makes them think I am a nice...

7 Jan 13

Employee Rights

STOUTjodee @STOUTjodee (3573) • United States 4 Jan 13

Eight nurses in an Indiana hospital were fired after refusing to take the mandatory flu shots. One nurse who had worked there for almost 22 years and was 61 years old had never had a flu shot. Since she opted out not to take the...

flu shots

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Suebee I work in health care in Canada and although it is not mandatory at my facility for us to get the flu shot it is VERY STRONGLY RECOMMENDED. They also say that if we opt not to take the shot and there is a flu outbreak in the facility we will not be able to...

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