surajp

@surajp (29)

Indonesia • Age 41

Joined myLot 13 years ago

make cents by making sense

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Love: ours and God's

else22 @else22 (4317) • India 7 Sep 12

I recently came across a saying,'God loves birds,so He invented trees for them.We love birds,so we invented cages for them.' What do you think is the difference between our love and God's love?

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surajp We dont put birds on cages because we love them. We do it because we are attached to them. They are enslaved. There is a huge difference between love and attachment. Love is supposed to set you free. There should not be any obligation no expectations. Nothing....

8 Sep 12

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what should i do? Break - up or Cool off?

delfajumamil @delfajumamil (62) • Philippines 5 Sep 12

Last Aug.29, 2012 my boyfriend and i celebrating our 33rd monthsary.. i am so happy that day eventhough were LDR ( Long Distance Relationship) i appreciated all of those..in our relationship we had no problem since in the...

saddest moment

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surajp You can forgive your apouse or your partner for anything. But when it comes to cheatinf on you with another there should be NO compromise. Break up and end it. If he/she can cheat on you once he/she can do it again. My wife and i are very clear with each other...

6 Sep 12

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What drives people to the brink?

Toni @toniganzon (72549) • Philippines 4 Sep 12

A devoted housewife, left by her husband, abandoned by her children and all she has left are her friends. She did everything to protect them and they're she had. Then things started to change between them and she lost them one by...

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surajp I think suicide is a coward's way of facing life. So scared of life that they would run away from it. Despair, depression tension these are all a part of life accept it. No one in thia world is without problems, everyone has skeetons in their closets, everyone...

5 Sep 12

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little sister, big new job..

chicksdigscars @chicksdigscars (5483) 28 Aug 12

My sister started her new job today, and I have been insane with worry all day. There is 3 years of difference between my sister and I, and I have always been insanely overprotective, but today has been worse than usual. She...

big sister

little sister

sister

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surajp I have 2 sisters one younger and one older. As a brother i was very over protectice of my younger sister, sometimes.to a fault. But i feel being over protective as cute as it may seem is not such a good idea. Though she is younger she should be able to spread...

5 Sep 12

What types of literature do you like to read?

ranger07 @ranger07 (555) 16 Jul 12

I am not much of a reader at all. I just do not have a niche for it. Never did. I like to read some short stories but not many. Do you like to read? Yes or no? If so, please explain what you like to read about and if not,...

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surajp I like to read fiction literature that dwells on philosophy and psychology, books that makes you think even until after you have done with it . Some books that i have i have read the left a profoun d meaning would be war and peace by tolstoy, the brothers...

4 Sep 12

Unwanted pregnancy

sunshinefame @sunshinefame (287) • Philippines 3 Sep 12

For the parents: if your minor daughter got pregnant will you force her to marry the man responsible. There's so many kinds of relationship involve platonic love, mistaken relationship due to teenagers instant feelings they called...

love

relationship

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surajp Sometimes we are so engrossed with "family reputation! That we loose touch with the reality of the moment. I say stick to reality and deal with reality and the reputation will sort itself out for thr is nothing for courageous than facing reality and dealing...

4 Sep 12

Is life really fair?

chentunacao @chentunacao (309) • Philippines 3 Sep 12

Those who enjoyed life might say that. But how about those who suffered from birth to death? Some enjoyed much and suffer a little. Some suffered much and enjoyed a little. Some suffer hardships while others live so...

fair

life

unfair

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surajp Yes life is fair. For whatever crap anyone goes through or what ever reward anyone has been bestowed i can say life is fair. We as grown ups should take responsibility for whatever comes to us good or bad. We should always share the blame on whatever we...

4 Sep 12

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Betrayal of trust and love has caused hurt in the family.

samson1 @samson1 (738) • Jamaica 3 Sep 12

Over time, it has come to my knowledge that one of my friend's mother has-because of her previous actions at birth- made it difficult for some of my friends siblings to live and enjoy the benefits of family. Mylotters, can you...

betrayal of trust and love

loss of benefits

previous actions at birth

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surajp After every action that a person perform that we might preceive to be a 'betrayal' of sorts, the first thing we always do is ask 'why?' I think we need to dig into this 'why?' A bit deeper before labeling the person a backstabber. Especially if this person is...

3 Sep 12

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