sutan74

@sutan74 (1112)

Philippines • Age 50

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Are you a successful Ebay seller?

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 8 Jul 08

Can you please share how you started, tips on how to get bids, most "wanted" items.. I am contemplating selling some stuff in Ebay but don't know where to start. Maybe some people can post their experiences here....

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4 people

Who do you think post more in Mylot... Men or Women??

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

I think most women have the patience to post and stay here in MyLot. Although I have seen some men who are also here with quality posts too. But oftentimes most of my referrals who are women are the ones who are...

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2 people

Go to bed angry.....

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

Never go to bed angry. If you don't deal through every conflict right away, it'll lead to resentment and ultimately blowups. Do you agree with this?? This is very interesting...For me, I don’t like going to sleep angry at anyone-...

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Is chivalry dead?

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

But….today’s society has made me skeptical of “nice” gestures by strangers..I guess that is because there are not too many strangers these days that do nice things for people which is sad. Ladies, does it really bother you when a...

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2 people

Anger or Persuasion......Which Do You Use?

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

My question to you is this.....Does anger get your point across better than calmly discussing something? Do you use passion or persuasion? Love or hate? For me, it's a pretty easy answer. Anger accomplishes nothing. When...

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How well do you know yourself?

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

I have been through a lot in my life and I would like to think I know myself pretty well. How other's perceive me and my friends has helped me to discover what kind of a person am I too. I know my strong and weak...

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Debt? Who's resposibility is it?

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

Are we responsible for the debt of a love one like our parents, husband, wife? When one of our family pass away do we inherit or get to pay their debts....

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Ambition, Hope, Dreams, Goals

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 24 Jun 08

This is what drives us to reach and achieve our goals in life. What is Life without ambition? A person without any goals in life feels lost in a sea full of sharks . To succeed in this generation we have to...

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Is it right to suspect someone you love a lot?

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 30 Jun 07

Lately I'm having this very strong feeling that mu hubby is doing something behind my back.... like another woman is involve..Am I being paranoid or what?? He's been so busy lately at work that I'm being suspicious of what he's...

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7 people

Empathy

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 30 Jun 07

Do you believe this is a good quality to have in our character?? Would people take advantage of us if we are empathetic to others..... I often find myself being sensitive to others and their feelings. Because I think that this...

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4 people

Humiliation........ accept it or stop it

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 20 Jun 07

People can only humiliate you if you give them permission to do so. I think none of us either man or woman should humiliate another person. Anyone who acts in this abusive way has problems with their own self esteem.

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4 people

Love versus Pity

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 20 Jun 07

Have you ever love someone because you pity them??? Can pity be the same as love....

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4 people

Regarding Moneybookers

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 10 Jun 07

Would like to ask anyone here from the Philippines if you have registered with moneybookers.... coz I was reading their FAQS page and I don't see the Philippines in their list.... has anyone been paid here using Moneybookers????...

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Emotional overeating

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 31 May 07

Have you ever experience this when you are depressed, stressed out or just lonely??? How can we avoid "binging" when we're depressed??

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4 people

Motivated to post

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 31 May 07

How do you stay motivated to post here in myLot??? Please share some tips here to encourage more people to post discussions and replies.

positive thoughts

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What is the biggest mistake you've made in your marriage?

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 20 May 07

I start to contemplate on the answer to this question. Here is what I have come up with: 1. Being a Nagger 2. Being insensitive and vocal (less talk,less mistake) 3. Being forgiving

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Is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 20 May 07

Yes, because each of us needs someone who will love and appreciate us. You grow and learn and learn to love again. And this experiences give zest and color to our life.

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5 people

Abusive partners???

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 20 May 07

Why are there women who take back their abusive partners?? Is it that they're afraid to be alone, or they think they can change that person, or they want to prove something or just that they love that person till death to they...

abusive partners

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Happy Mother's Day to all

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 12 May 07

I would like to greet all Moms and Grandmoms here on myLot a Happy Mother's Day to all.

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3 people

Fast Food and the Obesity Epidemic

sutan74 @sutan74 (1112) • Philippines 7 May 07

Fast-food restaurants have become very creative in their pricing strategies, menu selections, locations, and marketing schemes. Even I am drawn to their commercials on T.V with those mouth-watering, delicious, tantalizing and...

pricing strategies

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