swamiaks

@swamiaks (22)

India • Age 37

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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add me as your friend

kimte20 @kimte20 (88) • Philippines 22 Apr 13

i am looking for a new friends here in mylot.. please add me.. the reasons are: -i feel emptiness and i think no one really cares for me (except my husband) -my family hates the man i love, and i'm so helpless about it -i'm...

friends

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swamiaks My dear, Though life is not a bed of roses,we must not lose heart even if all our family members are not with us.the world is very big and beautiful if we can make a good number of good friends.I am with you if you feel like that.

22 Apr 13

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Very worst happened to me

jcjonuel16 @jcjonuel16 (36) • Philippines 22 Apr 13

I just newly learned how to drive a motorbike. It's my first time and I was very excited everyday to drive.Since I have no licensed I just drove only in a village where there were no policeman to catch me.But unfortunately,...

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swamiaks As I have read your situation, you were very luck that you hit your bike to a car of a kind man.My advice here is that before driving bike you must have a licence and must have control while driving.However, this is a general case so be so afraid and hopeless....

22 Apr 13

Have You any Personal Experience of Coconut Oil??

Marja @buenavida (9984) • Sweden 21 Apr 13

I just learned something new - for me - that, if it is true, may help a lot of people with health problems. The special thing about the fat in Coconut seems to be that it is so easily digested. It does not need bile released...

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swamiaks As I know coconut oil is good for our hair. for massaging our body.Many people these days start using coconut oil without knowing its all sides.In general it is good to use it for general purpose.

21 Apr 13

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Is a discussion of the day a good idea?

docdofeshmirtz @docdofeshmirtz (58) • United States 21 Apr 13

Ok, so i had this idea of a discussion of the day (i made an acronym dod) So do you think it would be a good idea for this. I will try my best to make topics that almost all people are interested in. Do you think that it would be...

dod

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swamiaks I don't think so if you are careful of what you are doing here on mylot. Before submitting any post we must think of it twice whether our discussion is interesting or not.Do discuss here but don't spam because other members may not take you seriously.

21 Apr 13

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Things that hurt the most

lizziegee @lizziegee (297) • Philippines 21 Apr 13

Missing someone the way I miss my love right now. Debating with myself about the right thing to do, but usually is the hardest to do. Forcing myself to grow up because I have to be both mom and dad to my kids. Trying to make my...

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swamiaks My dear beloved, As I have experienced,there isn't anything that can hurt you if you know the right way of living.The hidden truth of life is that other person can neither make us happy nor sad unless we ourselves be.Truly speaking, we don't live our life...

21 Apr 13

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How can I be pretty?

fatimaobien @fatimaobien (156) • Philippines 21 Apr 13

When I was a kid I always pray that God will make me the prettiest kid in school. But after seeing all those pretty kids, I know I am far behind them. So I changed my prayer. I said, "Lord, make me the prettiest kid in class." But...

live life to the fullest

make a difference

pretty

teacher

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swamiaks My dear friend, I would like to tell you that the best way to make ourselves pretty is to start to love ourselves.there are only a few in the world who are able to love themselves.And the hard truth of life is that without loving oneself one can't love...

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Loving someone who don't know love

Ashokraj @Ashokraj (107) • India 21 Apr 13

Have you ever felt the pain of loving someone deeply who don't even know what is love? I am feeling. I show her the extremity of my love. But she didn't show me a single drop of love. She didn't even understand my love. I feel...

feeling

love

pain

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swamiaks My dear friend, At first, I would like tell you that all of we have been misunderstanding so called 'love'from many centuries.In my way 'love' is the overflow of our inner beings,cares,kindness,gratitude etc towards others which come naturally from our...

21 Apr 13

Blessed Sunday

Kmz059 @Kmz059 (652) • Philippines 21 Apr 13

When my son is sleeping I take a bath and prepared his stuffs, we will go to the church and have a dinner outside. He woke up 4:30 and I cleaned his body and changed his clothes, whenever he is already to go he is so excited to...

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swamiaks Sunday as a holiday must be spent with our family members since we are busy through out the working days. It brings good harmonious relation among us.spending time with our dear ones is the best way to utilize the golden moments of our time.

21 Apr 13

Career? or family? Which should I choose first?

fatimaobien @fatimaobien (156) • Philippines 21 Apr 13

My friend is in a dilemna. She is being offered a job which would pay her a monthly salary 5x equivalent to her present salary. It is quite an interesting job and in line with her profession. This is what she defined as "being...

career

family

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swamiaks Dear friend, In such situation it is better to talk to your family members clearly on this topic because both sides are of great importance.She is going to lose both opportunity after some years. I think she must think of her family if other members of her...

21 Apr 13

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Humility: The Best Requirement in Life

jenny81 @jenny81 (36) • United States 20 Apr 13

Humility is one of the greatest requirement in life to be able to enjoy it. Staying humble .. Just let our pride demolish in our mind. Through it we can be able to accept any loses in our life. We can accept that sometimes we are...

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swamiaks No doubt, humility is one of the most essential need of our life if we want it to be full of happiness and comfort. whatever the situation be we must not lose our hope and responsibility. human life is only valuable if we live for others.

20 Apr 13

Essence of Being Loved

jenny81 @jenny81 (36) • United States 20 Apr 13

Isnt it that we are jolly when someone loves us. Our mind is blooming and our body is refreshed. Love of other persons can lift us up from boredom. A month ago , we had seminar with my co-workers. Its a whole week seminar....

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swamiaks yes, that's love that filled you with energy and inspiration.love can change anybody. it is the care and love of others that make us forget our present pains. That's why it is said that love is the essence of life and all relation.

20 Apr 13

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it is not good for the heart....

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 20 Apr 13

a pleasant day fellow mylotters, for the past weeks and months, i have encountered a not so good situation in my life. and because of this, a friend of mine have advised me not to dwell much on the sad situation that have...

health

irritated

not good for the heart

upset

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swamiaks hello friend, most of the people I have found really don't live their life in present time. They either live in past or future.And the very truth o life is that whoever try to live in past or future will surely miss the present freshness of life. So it is my...

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Not sure that MyLot is for me

Stacey @xstitcher (32459) • Petaluma, California 19 Apr 13

I just joined this site an hour or so ago. I have clicked on my different interests (and just recently discovered what that was for). I still am not feeling very comfortable with what I have seen on this site. What I mean...

mylot

not sure

uncomfortable

what is this site about

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swamiaks As I know my dear friend, this site is for discussion, asking questions and commenting.As you say yourself as a writer, it is better to join freelancer site. I think this site is not for writers.Why don't you search here in the search option?

20 Apr 13

Think Before You Marry :)

lizziegee @lizziegee (297) • Philippines 19 Apr 13

My parents married really young. My mom was 16 and my dad was 18 when they tied the knot. She wasn't pregnant, but they eloped for three days so my maternal grandparents demanded that they had to get married as soon as possible. I...

love

marriage

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swamiaks As I have seen and studied, marriage is just a way of getting and staying with one whom you care and who care you. If there is no love between the two who are going to get married, it will be just a relation without feelings.Such relation never brings a...

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If You Could Be Invisible . . .

quieley @quieley (316) • Philippines 27 Mar 13

Have you ever wish to be invisible even just for a day? If you could be, what would you do? Or where would you go and why?

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swamiaks Since my childhood, I have been dreaming of being invisible. If I could be so I would like to visit all my dear ones and would like to surprise them. Similarly I would love to gather many secret matters of my enemies so that I may stop them from doing bad...

18 Apr 13

I Realized Something about Heaven Today ...

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 2 Mar 13

Heaven is a ... well, not "a lie"; but no one has ever actually 'been there' (not the place that is popularly described as such). Oh, we all are there, but 'the way it's described' is just the writers' best...

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swamiaks I have found many people talking about heaven, yet i haven't found any person who has ever been there physically.Frankly speaking there is no such place like heaven or hell that people think of. Actually heaven or hell is just the state of our mind.

18 Apr 13

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Life Before Wedding

dpm @dpmathur (55) • India 17 Apr 13

Everyone has a belief system, a perception of reality that is influenced by past experience, a point of view that has developed over time. no two people react alike to the same situation.

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swamiaks All this is true because each person is like an island.All of us have our own receiving and viewing power.And people start analyzing others without understanding them. the reality is that we don't know ourselves fat first.

17 Apr 13