sweetleilani79

@sweetleilani79 (104)

Philippines • Age 45

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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How do you feel to speak to your ex?

jade1986 @jade1986 (563) • India 21 Jun 07

Can you and your ex ever be friends...? Or would you keep the brunts and grudges forever, especially if he/she had ditched you? If such has not happened in your life, then just imagine, some one had ditched you and after 1 year of...

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sweetleilani79 well, it really depends on how you still feel about your ex. some of my ex boyfriends...i can still talk to without feeling uncomfortable. but i have ex boyfriends that i don't speak to anymore, or i avoid to speak to. not because i still harbor feelings for...

21 Jun 07

What attracted you to your spouse?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 20 Jun 07

Think back to when you first met your partner or spouse. What was the first thing you noticed about them? What attracted you most? Was it their sense of humor? Looks? Potential? Hair?

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sweetleilani79 I won't deny it that i first got attracted to him because of his physical appearance...he was and will always be so handsome and he completely swept me off my feet. But after that, i fell inlove with him because we got along so well...for me, it's just a plus...

20 Jun 07

would you do this for your significant other?

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 20 Jun 07

I was watching this movie about a man who's wife was dying and needed a lung transplant...so, he went to volunteer at a blood bank and he searched for those with the same blood type as his wife. He met this lady, and slept with...

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sweetleilani79 i can't do this. it's too morbid for me actually. it's even weird.

20 Jun 07

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Finding Love Online

rakinitin @rakinitin (685) • Canada 19 Jun 07

At my age I never would have considered finding someone so perfectly suited for me on the Internet BUT I did just that, at my daughter's suggestion. Has anyone found their soul mate online like we did? I joined an online dating...

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sweetleilani79 I tried it out before... but i was not lucky. I am so happy for you....very nice story. I got inspired. Hopefully, il find my own true love too..online or not.

19 Jun 07

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broke up

donsky14 @donsky14 (5947) • Philippines 19 Jun 07

my friend's gf broke up with him yesterday because she had no feelings for him anymore and she was starting to fall for her ex bf. They've been together for 3 yrs. My friend said that he gave her the freedom to be friends with...

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sweetleilani79 there's no problem if you will allow your lover to be friends with her ex...but there is a limitation. in this case, i think your friend should just let go of her gf because i think it was so rude of her to do that more so that she was given the freedom to be...

19 Jun 07

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When would you like to be Married?

babygurl850406 @babygurl850406 (1322) • United States 18 Jun 07

Is there a certain age in which you would like to be married by? If you are or have been married how old were you? Do you kind of look at people funny if they are of a certain age and never been married? I am 22 I came an inch...

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sweetleilani79 i don't really plan when i am going to get married. i think it will just happen when the right man comes into my life, it will only be then that i will know that it is the right time for me to get married.

18 Jun 07

Could you last a week without your computer?

snoopy04 @snoopy04 (718) • United States 16 Jun 07

I never knew how much I depended on my computer until it crashed and burned for two weeks. What did everyone do before there were computers, society still functioned but when I was without my computer it felt like my whole world...

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sweetleilani79 I don't think so. It has been a habit of mine to check mails and check my accounts online when I wake up and before i sleep at night. I always have my laptop with me anywhere as much as possible!

17 Jun 07

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Beggar or Waitress: Who deserves the money?

mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 16 Jun 07

I was having hotpot outdoors and this beggar makes his rounds. He actually gets about $1 before he gets to our table. I refused. One friend paid. We debated. a waitress makes $200 a month plus food and shelter in a...

beggar

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sweetleilani79 I agree with you. The waitress deserves the money more because she works for it. In reality it's hard to earn money nowadays.

17 Jun 07

Happy Father's Day!

raijin @raijin (10345) • Philippines 16 Jun 07

To all Dad's, Papa's, Father's or whatever you call them.. Happy Father's day, to all of you loving husbands and fathers!;) Today, my father and I had a short but touchy conversation. I thanked him for being a good and...

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sweetleilani79 I have always been a daddy's girl. He always gave me everything that I need and even wanted. And even though I have disappointed him several times or even more in the past...He never gave up on me. I love my daddy so much and I'm very thankful I have him as my...

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What feature do people notice about you...

laydlexius @laydlexius (133) • United States 16 Jun 07

What is the one thing people compliment you on when you are out and about or just meeting someone for the first time? I usually have guys tell me that I have a cute smile and Everyone notices my eyes. Pretty neat huh? Some people...

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sweetleilani79 They always tell me it's my smile. It's because when I smile it comes from my heart...it's full of sincerity. You can easily say if I'm not feeling well or i'm not in the mood coz I can't really give out my smile.

17 Jun 07

Is it worthy to make friends who had gossiped you before???

mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 17 Jun 07

i had made a lot of friends They are quite nice but one of them is selfish by cheating me that he had gossiped behind me!!! I was told that he had said something bad about me with other people ,he told me he would end our...

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sweetleilani79 No it's not worth it. A true friend will not betray you nor talk about you behind your back. If you did something wrong...your friend should directly ask you or tell you about it rather than talk to other people about it. Gossiping about friends is a sign of...

17 Jun 07

gift

eva_diva @eva_diva (287) • Philippines 17 Jun 07

What is the best gift i can give my boyfriend during our anniversary? Im running out of options since we have been together for such a long time and i just ran out of creative instincts. Your suggestions will be greatly...

boyfriend gifts

gift suggestions

medical books

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sweetleilani79 Make a scrapbook of your life together since you started the relationship. It's a gift worth for keeps just like your relationship! Congratulations!

17 Jun 07

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online relationship: when ready, speed up or take time?

shadow9 @shadow9 (238) • Romania 17 Jun 07

ok so when your ready to start a relationship whit someone you talked for a while on the internet and you know the other person likes you and you like him/her do you speed things up or do you take more time to talk normaly before...

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sweetleilani79 My piece of advice...think twice about having an online relationship. I only had one online relationship and I told myself never again. I spent so much time online and was even in a hurry to get online even if I was already tired from my job...he even spent a...

17 Jun 07

What´s the main thing in a relationship?

anetteh @anetteh (3590) • Sweden 17 Jun 07

What do you think are the main thing in a relationship? For me it´s the real friendship you get with your partner. To knowe your partner inside and outside. To knowe howe and what they think, like and sort of things?

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sweetleilani79 Aside from love, i need another main thing in a relationship is understanding. You need to understand each other as you go through the challenges in a relationship. If you there's no understanding, even if you love each other, you couldn't stand the challenges...

17 Jun 07

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A handsome poor guy or an ugly rich guy? Girls who do you prefer to marry?

Khristie @Khristie (23) • Philippines 17 Jun 07

If you have these kind of two guys in front of you? Who do you prefer to marry? Regardless of love. What if you have to choose only one from them. Would you settle for a handsome but no money or an ugly guy who can give you a...

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sweetleilani79 I'd rather be with an ugly rich guy. Let's just be practical, with life right now, we need to be financially stable to make through the hardships in life. And if we are going to have children, I want them to have everything they need in life.

17 Jun 07

It is really hard to break-up someone who loves you.

Khristie @Khristie (23) • Philippines 17 Jun 07

I experienced this a year ago when I broke up with my almost 3-yr boyfriend. On the first year of our relationship, I had this feeling of unwanting him anymore because I felt that he is loving me too much that it seems its hard...

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sweetleilani79 Sometimes yes...because I believe that it is better to love someone who loves you more, rather than love someone whom you love but doesn't same the same feeling with you.

17 Jun 07

13 signs you're falling in love;

cherriemae @cherriemae (3370) • Philippines 16 Jun 07

13. you can't stay mad at him/her for more than a minute or two..you actually have to try hard to stay mad. 12. you'll read his/her letters over and over again... 11. you walk really really slow while you're with him.. 10....

being so inlove

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sweetleilani79 I know that I have fallen in love when I start dreaming about getting married to him.....like I always want to be with him and I don't want to let go.....huh, it's a great feeling to be inlove.

16 Jun 07

Is Fathers' day a joyous occasion for you?

LadyMooreSabb @LadyMooreSabb (335) • United States 16 Jun 07

My dad is passed on and I can't help but think of the days dedicated to dads that have past. Each year gets a little less painful as I begin to replace the thought of his loss with the memories of the celebration of that special...

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sweetleilani79 Yes, I love celebrating father's day. My father is very close to my heart and not only we celebrate it on father's day itself, but i treat everyday as father's day. We should all celebrather our fathers whether they are still alive or had passed away. I am...

16 Jun 07

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