switsixteen

@switsixteen (28)

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Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you write a diary?

smilingurvashi @smilingurvashi (1151) • India 16 Mar 07

I do write a diary, but not daily. Whenever i'm upset and feeling hopeless i resort to writing my heart out and try to feel better. This is what I wrote today: "Lately, I've been steadily drowning into the deep waters of sorrow...

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switsixteen well i'm the sort of person who like's a writing but not that much just a bit.i write a diary everytime i'm with my friends i just want to look back on them someday like when we're older and i saw my diary i will remember the things that i've done and also my...

16 Mar 07

All my friends got married, i am still single

blue_fairee @blue_fairee (236) • Pakistan 15 Mar 07

All my college and university friends got married or those who are not married are ateast engaged. But i m still single. My age is 26 rite now. two of my best friends have one baby boy each as well. But i am not even engaged yet....

career

life

still single

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switsixteen so what if your all your friends are married or engaged don't rush yourelf just wait for the right time that marriage will eventually come to you.i mean i know what your feeling you feel like your being left out by your friends because they already have there...

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When is the right time to tell your kid he/she is adopted?

mylesnarvaez @mylesnarvaez (5451) • Philippines 14 Mar 07

Or will you opt to keep it a secret? For people who have been adopted and for parents who have adopted children, when do you think the kid should learn that he or she is adopted? Should you wait until you were asked? Should it...

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switsixteen i think that you should tell your kid that they're adopted when they are already grown up so they can understand those things.because if you tell a kid they won't understand a thing about that they'll just get confuse so just wait when they grew a bit older...

14 Mar 07

Do you SMILE when others smile?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 14 Mar 07

Nope, that wasn't a typo error. The word is correctly shown as SMILE, instead of YAWN. *stifles a yawn* I am not sure if this would herald a "Do you when others ?" series but for this discussion, I think the title...

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switsixteen i smile at the people who smile at me but depends on the people but if they look a bit strange i don't really smile at them.Eventhough i'm in such a bad mood and i saw a old lady and she seems nice and smiled at me i think that i should smile back respond to...

14 Mar 07

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Should We be looking after our elderly parents or vice versa???

mummymo @mummymo (23706) 14 Mar 07

This is gonna make me sound really bad I know but it is something that plays on my mind and I thought I'd find out what all you good people out there thought! My grandma who is almost 83 legally adopted me and raised me from the...

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switsixteen just tell your gran not to overdo things and just help her out a bit because eventhough she insisted doing all the things .she's old and she needs your help..

14 Mar 07

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Know All of Your "Friends"?

monica1981 @monica1981 (466) • United States 13 Mar 07

Do you personally know all of the people who are your "friends" on myspace? If not, why did you add them to your friends list? I'm friends in real life with the majority of my friends, but there are some I don't know personally....

friends

myspace

pop culture

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switsixteen well half of my friends in friendster i don't really know personally.i add them up because i want to get to know them and make friends with them

14 Mar 07

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How long will it take to heal a broken heart?

fairygreen @fairygreen (533) • Philippines 13 Mar 07

It was really funny, to ask this question rather.Going through this experience wasnt easy for me to move on.I mean doing all possible diversities just to mend two broken hearts.Maybe you guys are thinking that ive been through so...

broken hearts

healing

healing a broken heart

hurt

time

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switsixteen i mean for me.it actually depends how badly are you hurt but if you really are badly hurt it may take time to forget and to recover.i don't actually think that the broken heeart will remain forever but it takes time to heal.Just leave your past and just...

13 Mar 07

Lying boyfriend!!!

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 11 Mar 07

I considermy fellow Mylot members as a confidant! You guys seem to listen to everybody and somehow we can relate to each others situation. Anyway, I received a package from my bf from Guam but he works in the ship. It includes...

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switsixteen maybe there's a good reason why he lied to you.but i think that you should confront him about it and if he ask how you found just tell him the truth i think he'll understand if you told him that you opened his bank account..

11 Mar 07

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Who are you closer with? brother or sister?

myworld_and_you @myworld_and_you (1223) • Philippines 10 Mar 07

I'm the youngest among four siblings and I'm closer to my sister next to me. She's 5 years older than me and we really have a good bonding with each other. We are open when it comes to secrets and we even share things that we...

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switsixteen well for me i'm the youngest and i have 2 brothers and i don't hava any sisters so for me i can say that i'm much closer than my brother because i don't have a sister...well sometimes i feel like wanting to have a sister because having 2 brothers they always...

11 Mar 07

do you believe in destiny?

raicheal @raicheal (64) • Philippines 11 Mar 07

there's no guarantee if the one you have now is the one you'll be with for the rest of your life. there's even no guarantee if the one you just met is the one who will love you forever. because there's no such thing as the ideal...

love

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switsixteen i believe in destiny i think that someday we're going to meet the person right for us..but yea it's sure that we don't know if this person with us now will stay for a lifetime..i mean offcourse nobody knows.but if you have hope then you'll be fine..but also it...

11 Mar 07

Should you take the husbands' last name when you get married???

Starline @Starline (681) • United States 9 Mar 07

When I got married to my husband I wanted to be connected with him so I added his last name to my last name so now I have two. I felt bad to my parents if I would give up the name that connects me with them, and so I ended up...

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switsixteen i think that it depends on you if you want to take your husbands last name but usually women takes their husbands last name...

10 Mar 07

Responding to Discussions?

Macthedj @Macthedj (630) 9 Mar 07

Do you try to respond to as many discussions as possible to ensure maximum earnings or do you only respond to topics that you know you can give a meaningful answer to? I myself like to answer to the ones that interest me or catch...

responding

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switsixteen i respond only to the discussions that i can give meaningful answer also sharing my opinion.i don't think that it's just because of money because 2 me money isn't that important i just want to show my point of the discussions..

10 Mar 07

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Which is the best way to confess your feelings??

catch_me @catch_me (930) • India 9 Mar 07

I've been wondering... Which is the best method to confess your feelings while at the same time, being sincere and true about it? Currently, I could think of ways such as: face to face, telephone call, sms, emails,...

girlfriend

love

relationship

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switsixteen i think face to face is the best method eventhough you said that it's kind of akward if you get rejected well just think that atleast you tried and also it also shows your sincerity and your true feelings bcause if you confess using your sms i think that...

10 Mar 07

I guess this is growing up... =)

joey_matthews @joey_matthews (8354) 8 Mar 07

Childhood goes pretty fast or at least mine did. I remember wishing the time away, Now I pretty much wish it back. The care free days, I love my current life and how it's spanning but I can't help be reflect on memories as a kid...

acting older

care free

concerned about todays children

fun

growing up

wishing back childhood

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switsixteen yea it's true childhood really goes pretty fast and you cant stop it.but now i'm still a young adult all i can say is i treasure these memories i have now and enjoy my life as it is..if your still a child don't act like teen act as your age just enjoy ur age...

9 Mar 07

who is to blame for this murder?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 8 Mar 07

okay any discussion where there isn't really a right or wrong answer. Everyone will have a different one. I am going to tell you a story, you are to rate the people in the story according to most to blame to least to blame and...

people

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switsixteen i think the person to blame is the husband because if he gave attention to is wife and spend time with her.then her wife shouldn't have any affair to another man then non of this ever happen.if mary didn't find a boyfriend then he never left home on the middle...

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where are your childhood friends....?

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 9 Mar 07

school days were really wonderful days and never forget them. in my school there were students from different parts of my country who stayed in the school till we finished our schooling and got to college. although many of those...

childhood friends

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switsixteen my childhood friends are almost on the same town as eachother i feel really really sad coz be all grew up together and now i'm the only one who left and like all of them are still together.i still missed the old times when you make fun of one another play...

9 Mar 07

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Opinions on Abortion?

vicky_lane4987 @vicky_lane4987 (980) 7 Mar 07

Hi, I've been wondering alot recently about people having different opinions about abortions. Personally I'm against them and I would never have one. I am of the opinion that if you are sexually active then you should also be...

relationships

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switsixteen ei..i think having an abortion is unfair for the baby because it's your own doing getting pregnant.eventhough your parents force you to have an abortion you should have your own decision and take the resbonsibilty to what you've done.it will be really bad to...

8 Mar 07