sylvrrain

@sylvrrain (659)

United States • Age 60

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Strays

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 7 Aug 08

As I was out back this afternoon weeding, watering, and turning my compost over I was also weedwhacking the field behind the garage. As I got to this area I found this. See photo attatched. It is 2 stary tomato ploants. Seems some...

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sylvrrain I run into strays all the time. I love it. It just shows how nature behaves. I have planted annuals and they did so bad, whether it was the light, water or soil, I don't know. A year later, I had all these babies come up around the corner of the house and they...

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what dreams mean?

celiabb @celiabb (3) • China 7 Aug 08

last week i had bad dreams. in those dreams i found my boyfriend were staying with a beautiful girl and they were laughing at me. we are in two different cities. he went to the city two months ago.people say dreams are opposite. i...

beautiful girl

dream

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sylvrrain I am not a "dream specialist" or anything, but I think you are insecure about your relationship. You need to talk to your boyfriend and plan visits. You need to be more confident, so you need to talk about your fears with your boyfriend. What ever you do, do...

7 Aug 08

Beautiful Vs most beautiful..

brisk123 @brisk123 (2823) • India 7 Aug 08

If your boyfriend/husband only acknowledge you as beautiful,but not the most beautiful person - Would that be enough for you?

admire

beauty

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sylvrrain My husband of 26 years still thinks I am beautiful. He loves me, I love him. After 26 years, wrinkles, a few gray hairs, sagging and he still thinks that, just makes me love him more. I have known all my life I am attractive, but even I know I am not the...

7 Aug 08

I Wouldn't Know How to Live

thayes1106 @thayes1106 (156) • United States 7 Aug 08

I wouldn't know how to live if I didn't have anxiety attacks on the regular. I have one if things aren't picked up in the house. I have one if I don't have enough money. I have one if I feel like I am doing all of the work. I have...

panic attacks

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sylvrrain I used to have attacks like that, but then I just said F*** IT. Why am I so darn worried or upset about something so trivial. I am ruining my joy in life because everything is not going my way. Am I so selfish that I am probably making everyone else's life...

7 Aug 08

tough love

pinkycire @pinkycire (24) 7 Aug 08

Spare the rod and spoil the child is all too true. No only at home but in the school, discipline must be clearly, consistently, and conscientiously enforced. A spanking is often the only way to get a child's undivided attentions;...

love

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sylvrrain There are other ways to teach a child how to behave with out physical abuse, emotional humiliation or verbal assault. It's true, some children have to push people to the limit just to see how far they can get. It is up to the adult to let the children know...

7 Aug 08

plz help me with a language problem

renee0909 @renee0909 (152) • China 7 Aug 08

I'm learning English. Today, I came across such a problem, please lend me a hand. Thank you. The sentence goes like this: --"___ do you prefer, tea or coffee?" --"I like coffee __ than tea." How would you fill the...

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sylvrrain "Which do you prefer, tea or coffee.""I like coffee more than tea." Good luck learning english.

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HELP.... how to properly freeze blueberries!

jairgirl @jairgirl (2877) • United States 7 Aug 08

dear mylotters, i am wondering if anyone out here knows how to properly freeze blueberries, i know i can look it up on the net but i would like to get an answer from those who have tried and tested it in their kitchen. we might...

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sylvrrain What we always did was wash the blueberried in cold water, put in freezer bags and take out as much air as possible. A "seal-a-meal" is nice to have, but I saved my $100 and used a straw. Close the ziploc bag as close to the straw without pinching it, suck the...

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Are we giving enough attention to good PARENTING these days...?

p_vadla @p_vadla (1685) • India 7 Aug 08

in the name of success,money, career, are we leaving behind good parenting behind ? Why should both the spouses have to work leaving little or almost notime for basic parenting..what are your views ?

basic

good

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sylvrrain I have always felt like the best caregiver for children are their parents. Unfortunately, with the economy the way it is, both parents usually need to work. People are not willing to make sacrifices anymore. My children are grown now, but I quit a really good...

7 Aug 08

working for my self

dad2spots @dad2spots (165) • United States 2 Aug 08

i have all was wanted to work for my self. so to day i put an ad on a fow web site's and tomarrow i am going to print off some flyers and hand them out. i for the most part am a jack of all trades. i just hope thet i will get...

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sylvrrain Not knowing what skills you have, no one could advise you. I suggest thinking about what you can do really well, and what you really enjoy doing, and go for it. In some cases, you may need more education. That will open doors that would have been closed to...

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Balance

mobilecubie @mobilecubie (820) • Philippines 1 Aug 08

Have you ever thought that bad things are good things? In any religion or belief doing something bad is something that must not be done, however have you stopped and thought of appreciating that without evil we cannot distinguish...

balance

good and evil

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sylvrrain I have always thought that things happen for a reason, good or bad. Don't know if it is really so or not, but it makes my life better. Without the bad, we wouldn't know the good. I also like to think that when you do something good, something good comes from...

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so does anyone know a good site to make a little extra cash online??

i_luv_music @i_luv_music (200) • United States 1 Aug 08

so i need a way to make money online for free. if you know any good websites please reply to this!!!

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sylvrrain Associated Content, they have paid to my paypal account. They pay you for articles, storys, etc. Check it out.

2 Aug 08

Do you think food prices will ever come down? What

eaforeman6 @eaforeman6 (8979) • United States 1 Aug 08

would bring them down? What would you do if you were president to find solutions for food costs? What programs would you implement to bring about these changes?

food

prices

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sylvrrain fuel prices coming back down should help some, lowering the cost of transporting the food. I think one of the first things I would do is promote local businesses to buy local produce. I would give tax breaks and incentives to the farmers and to the packaging...

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What is the origin of evil?

susieq223 @susieq223 (3742) • United States 17 May 08

In the Christian faith the Bible teaches us that God created all things and He called them good. So I wonder where did evil come from? Do you think God created evil also? If not, how did it get into the world? I know the story of...

origin of evil

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sylvrrain In my opinion, man has decided what is good or evil. It depends on the society or period that you live/lived in. What was sinful and evil in the 18th century is perfectly acceptable in todays world. One thing I do know, and you have to agree...

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How Do I Deal?

missgabbi @missgabbi (52) • United States 17 May 08

I'm not really sure if this is the right catagory for this discussion, but I'm gonna put it here anyway. My grandmother (on my dad's side) died last night and I'm not sure how to feel about it. I know, the obvious answer is: "SAD"...

death

emotion

estranged family

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sylvrrain You have to let your heart decide. Funerals are for the living, remember that. It is a way for families and friends to get together to show respect and love for the person who died. It is also a way to show support and sympathy for the people that loved the...

17 May 08

Best Guitar Player

goldeneagle @goldeneagle (6745) • United States 17 May 08

I have been sitting here listing to Stevie Ray Vaughan's Greatest Hits CD. This guy could rock. Listening to this music got me started thinking about guitar players, and I was trying to narrow down who the best one was. This is an...

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sylvrrain Some of my favorites... Peter Frampton (have you heard his newest CD) DJango (do a search on him to see if you can listen to how he plays) Slash (used to be with Guns-N-Roses) Eric Clapton

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How Do You Deal With Stress?

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36447) • United States 17 May 08

Lately it seems like the pressures of life are just really overbearing sometimes, and to where I want to scream. I have been personally dealing with a company called Household Finance, and personally, they are the WORST company to...

credit rating

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sylvrrain I am sorry you are having so much trouble with this company. I also got loans from them when my husband and I were starting out and we had no problems like that. Even later on, when I was injured and out of work, they put us on a hardship plan and lowered my...

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How do you define enjoy life?

lieanat @lieanat (1137) • Malaysia 17 May 08

Well, I'm just curious how others define enjoy life. I believe there is many way to enjoy life. So, anyone want to share? For me, enjoy life is having a wonderful holidays after busy and stressful workload and work...

define enjoy life

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sylvrrain Enjoying life for me is knowing that I am surrounded by family and good friends. Laughing a lot. Sure it is nice to take a trip or go away for a weekend, but with todays economy and that "stressful workload", we can't always get away. I can enjoy my life, the...

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