takie023

@takie023 (14)

Age 44

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Are we disappointing our parents?

jearl02 @jearl02 (211) • Philippines 12 Mar 13

Our parents married early. My mother was 17 and my father was 21 when they got married. We're not rich but our parents tried their very best so we can study. I married at 22, my younger brother, now 23, is living with his...

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takie023 The pain of wanting to see their children have proper family life but couldn't will be there, but don't mix this up with whether they will be unhappy. One thing is definite, all parents want to see their children live well and happy. Are you and your siblings...

13 Mar 13

The problem with guys

khithi17 @khithi17 (762) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I don't understand why most guys, I'm not saying that all men are like this, but most men does this. When they don't love a girl anymore, they just date other girls and don't even let the first girl know that I am not in love with...

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takie023 I don't think it is a case of the guy does not love the girl anymore or no longer find her attractive, I think it is more like the case of TWO-TIMING. I know guys that do that personally, they are just having fun having more than 1 girlfriends at the same...

13 Mar 13

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My dad is having surgery Thursday and I a worried

TriciaW @TriciaW (2441) • United States 13 Mar 13

My dad is 81 but you would never know it until these past few months. He was always on the go playing golf and traveling but now he has had to slow down due to his really bad back pain. The last time he had back surgery we thought...

family

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takie023 Aging is one of the few things we all have to deal with as human beings. I hope the surgery will go well and everything is fine for your dad. Remember, worry will not add any good thing into the situation. Find peace within yourself by praying and be very...

13 Mar 13

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so how important your pets are for you...???

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 12 Mar 13

hi to all well, right now I have no pets, But usually we have different kinds of pets, they are Small Chicks, Goats, Parrots, Pigeons, fish, etc. we don't makes Dogs & Cats our pets usually but sometimes gives milk to the...

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takie023 I use to have pets, but not right now, and I don't intend to have any in any time soon. They will be very important to me if I have them, and their well-being is going to be my responsibility. I guess, that's one of the reasons why I don't have any at the...

13 Mar 13

Do you ask for help when you need it?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 12 Mar 13

A lot of people think that asking for help is a sign of weakness. I don't think this but I feel that I don't like to burden others because we all our very busy. But I'm learning that it is important to ask for help when we need...

help

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takie023 I don't look at asking for help as a sign of weakness, but I don't tend to ask for help if I could manage (sometimes, I really did bear the consequence of not asking for help), because I don't want to bother others, or make them feel burdened to help me. So...

13 Mar 13

are your kids the same?

cherigucchi @cherigucchi (14876) • Philippines 8 Mar 13

Having more than one child in the family does not necessarily mean that they will be alike in many ways. You carried them all in that one big tummy, they grow up together, enrolled in the same school, live in the same house or...

children

family relationship

individual difference

parenting

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takie023 Mine, they are completely different. My daughter (second child) is a lot more active and independent.

12 Mar 13

How do you understand 'tough love' when it comes to raising up your children?

takie023 @takie023 (14) 12 Mar 13

How do you understand tough love in raising up your children, do you agree with the idea or not, and why so?

parenting

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What act(s) of kindness have you done?

takie023 @takie023 (14) 11 Mar 13

What act(s) of kindness you've done and how did it make you feel? Do you think we all should do more of it, and how do we all help to spread the words out about this?

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takie023 Hi, thanks for the reply. I do believe you have gained more than just the light-warm feeling you get. In a long run, life is only worthwhile if we do things for others without thinking of whether we should or not. After all, love is all we need. Take care.

12 Mar 13

What act(s) of kindness have you done?

takie023 @takie023 (14) 11 Mar 13

What act(s) of kindness you've done and how did it make you feel? Do you think we all should do more of it, and how do we all help to spread the words out about this?

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takie023 Hi, I do appreciate every act of kindness I've come across. This is one of the few things in life that make this world goes round in a much beautiful way. Thank you for sharing, and please keep up the good work.

12 Mar 13

What act(s) of kindness have you done?

takie023 @takie023 (14) 11 Mar 13

What act(s) of kindness you've done and how did it make you feel? Do you think we all should do more of it, and how do we all help to spread the words out about this?

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What have YOU done to make YOUR life better today?

asyria51 @asyria51 (2861) • United States 10 Mar 13

I am tired of hearing the question in its reverse. "What are YOU going to do to make MY life better?" The better question is what are you doing to make your life better. It is the small things that add up to make a...

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takie023 I cut off the people that are not of any use and prove to be bad influence in my life. I've changed my mindset over difficult times in life, and now I am ready for the world. I've decided to put myself first and foremost, because only then I can be...

11 Mar 13

Which is best, True Love or First Love?

borgieboy7 @borgieboy7 (72) • Philippines 11 Mar 13

I have my first love before 8 years back then. I love the person so much that I cannot forget anything about her. I remember her birthday, how we met, our sweetest moment, our affections and places that we've been through as we're...

first love

love

true love

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takie023 Putting all other stories aside, the answer to the topic itself is clear enough, 'true love' is much better. Why? Because it is 'true' and when things are true, they last.

11 Mar 13