tammytwo

@tammytwo (4298)

United States • Age 51

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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tammytwo's Comments

Wouldn't it be great if Mylot paid us for the responses to our discussions?

tammytwo @tammytwo (4298) • United States 30 Jan 09

Let em explain what I mean. Wouldn't it be nice if we were paid a very small amount for the responses we receive to the discussions we begin? Of course they would have to be more than one or two words to...

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tammytwo @tammytwo It has been a long time since I have been on Mylot. I am not sure why I quit using it but I just got an email about a message I received here. So I am trying it once again.

22 May 16

I began to think today about why non-professional photographers take pictures.

Barbara Radisavlejvic @bagarad (14283) • Paso Robles, California 12 Dec 12

I know that seems obvious at first, but we take lots of pictures -- at least some people do. Most of us still have unsorted boxes of pictures left from the days before digital photography that have yet to be put into albums. Why...

photo albums

photographs

reasons we take pictures

writing

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tammytwo I also have a daughter who likes to take pictures. So I get to be in them when she is behind the camera. It is very nice to look back at the images of those who have passed on and remember those special moments with them. I am very happy I have the opportunity...

17 Jan 13

My time with him is quickly ticking away :(

courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 3 Feb 12

In 3 months my boyfriend is leaving for the army and the thought still devastates me. Just today I was thinking about the time we have left and I realized its only 3 months. It feels like just the other day we still had 5 months...

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tammytwo My daughter's boyfriend just returned home from 8 months away at BASIC and AIT training for National Guard. I understand what you are felling but know you will make it and possibly become a stronger person because of it.

16 Feb 12

First he was a snitch and now a cheater.

tasneem4 @tasneem4 (68) 3 Feb 12

In my earlier discussion I mentioned how my kids father became an informant slash snitch. My kids and I were relocated because of it. Now I guess because he felt like I had no reason to be upset(which in my eyes I do), he cheated...

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tammytwo What your husband is doing with the kids is definitely wrong. The children should only know that mom and dad are having a difficult time. There should never be any accusations against one parent or another. Children don't need to know the full details.

3 Feb 12

First he was a snitch and now a cheater.

tasneem4 @tasneem4 (68) 3 Feb 12

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tammytwo As a person who works closely with Law Enforcement as a 911 dispatcher I appreciate when people do the "right" thing. Therefore I don't believe that "snitching" is always bad. Many people call others "snitches" even when they just know something bad that...

3 Feb 12

A reason for a marriage to fail?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 25 Jan 12

The reason? Women think men will change and they don't and Men think women won't change and they do.I heard this on a t.v. show and I thought Wow! That maybe it. But these days I think it isn't gender specific. There are as many...

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tammytwo And sadly, most relationships change after marriage. Once the couple has found they have won each other over they seem to relax and quit trying to impress the other. Just because you have won that person's heart and they have decided to be with you forever...

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Do you know anyone that has been married 25 years or more to the same person

tammytwo @tammytwo (4298) • United States 24 Oct 06

I believe I know one couple that has been married that long.

love

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tammytwo Sadly, in America we can't say the same thing. These days not many couples care to weather the storms that marriage often brings. Divorce is way too easy and often the end result.

3 Feb 12

Do you know anyone that has been married 25 years or more to the same person

tammytwo @tammytwo (4298) • United States 24 Oct 06

I believe I know one couple that has been married that long.

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tammytwo That is great to see. It makes me happy to know some people do take their marriage vows seriously. It's not often you hear of long term marriages these days.

3 Feb 12

If you love a wrong person it is already stupidity?

mich06141990 @mich06141990 (10) 30 Jan 12

I'm in a relationship right now which is very complicated. .sometimes i feel that i want to give up. .i taught to myself that it is not the right thing to do specially if you love someone that much..

the power of love

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tammytwo asheverlasting, your response is so true. So many people don't understand the true meaning of love. True love is not selfish. When a person truly and unconditionally loves someone else they will put that person's happiness above their own.

1 Feb 12

Should men share the cooking duties?

curmont @curmont (343) • United States 6 Nov 11

I was told recently by a friend of mine that it is a sin for a woman not to feed her husband. At first I thought he was joking but once I realized he was serious I was appalled. I thought that the idea that women had to do all the...

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tammytwo I agree, it is fair for both in the relationship to share the duties.

8 Nov 11

x boyfreind infanate chance

piglover1986 @piglover1986 (14) • United States 7 Nov 11

is it stupid to give a man unlimited chances to brake your heart and get back with you because you love him and he loves you but he doesn't know what he wants in life or is it stupid cause you can try to find someone else but you...

ex boyfreinds

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tammytwo Perhaps it's not stupid but I believe it is probably being done for the wrong reasons. I agree many people give chances repeatedly because of the fear of the unknown, fear of being alone for ever or fear of the possiblity that the person will change but for...

8 Nov 11

x boyfreind infanate chance

piglover1986 @piglover1986 (14) • United States 7 Nov 11

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tammytwo I agree. A person can only be given so many chances before it seems as though the person giving the chances is never going to get what they deserve out of life.

8 Nov 11

once a cheater, always a cheater..

redphile @redphile (2264) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

Do you believe in that? That there are no second chances when it comes to cheating. That if someone cheated you, you can never forgive them? Because once a cheater, always a cheater. That if they cheated you, they will cheat you...

cheaters

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tammytwo Yes, I agree, most can give a second chance. I'm not sure though that most would give a third, fourth or fifth chance.

21 Oct 11

My friend is the other woman

meriel @meriel (101) • Philippines 1 Oct 11

hi! I have this friend she is my friend for a long time. I already knew that my friend is having an affair with a married guy. literally married but technically not!. the guy is separated for a long time but living with his...

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tammytwo That is such a sad story. These woman just don't seem to realize, if he is willing to do that with them he will also be willing to do the same thing to them. Even if they end up together she will have to worry about trusting him.

21 Oct 11

Your husband is cheating on you..

tamirs @tamirs (1807) • Philippines 16 Oct 11

I have a friend whose husband works abroad.Last month my friends husband went home to Philippines ,to spend his vacation with his family.I can tell that they were so happy,even invited us to attend their son's birthday.. After...

respect

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tammytwo So true. The other woman could have been clueless as to the fact that the man was married. If she knew for sure then that is another matter. But the wife still should have handled it differently. She might also want to be careful about putting things in...

21 Oct 11

time to end the relationship?

totallyundecided @totallyundecided (3190) • Philippines 12 Oct 11

I believe that every relationship is different. It's time to end a relationship when the other person stops offering love and commitment into the relationship. When the person is not focused on going forward and growing in the...

heartbreak

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tammytwo If both people don't make an effort then maybe one should walk away. I wasn't saying no one should ever walk away. what I was saying is too many people go into relationships thinking they will be like those they see on TV, expecting everything to always be...

15 Oct 11

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Infedility and hurting oneself

screwdriver @screwdriver (643) • Philippines 12 Oct 11

A friend of mine cut her wrist because of a failed marriage. Her police husband had an affair with another woman. She cant take the pain. They are married for 7 years and have know each other for 11 years and have 3 kids. Infact...

marriage

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tammytwo I hope she is getting the help she needs. And soon she will be on the road to recovery, knowing she is worth more than that.

14 Oct 11