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Erly Maglangit @cacay1 (83631) • Cagayan De Oro, Philippines 22 May 16

Maybe you still remember my post about my friend who begged me to have a one night sleep at home, and because, our bedrooms were all occupied, so I invited her to sleep with me, only to know the next day my ATM with inscribed...

finally apprehended theft

my friend robbed me

friend in jail

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tammytwo I would stay far away from that person and I would no longer call them a friend. With friends who will steal from you there is no need to call others enemies. Don't allow people to treat you like that and get away with it. Stand up for yourself and keep them...

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Val @valmnz (17097) • New Zealand 21 May 16

Okay, let me explain. I love it here, even though I don't get here as much as I'd like. Then, whenever I do, like now, I get so many ideas for posts I just can't keep up with myself. Like New Zealand's Huka Falls here, the ideas...

inspiration

responding to others

water

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tammytwo I love the photo! And I love that you find inspiration here. I had actually forgotten about this site for quite a while and have just returned. I hope to become an active member again and possibly find some inspiration myself.

22 May 16

Valerie J. Routhieaux @just4him (318388) • Green Bay, Wisconsin 21 May 16

Think about it for just a moment. Think outside the box. What makes you do what you do? What is it you like most that you would drop everything and do it on the spot? What makes you rush out the door no matter what the...

you

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tammytwo This is a great question. As I get older I admit I often find myself asking who I really am. I am a mom and a wife but who else am I. I am a daughter, sister, aunt and niece, but there has to be something more. Six years ago I also became a 911 Dispatcher and...

22 May 16

Marlina @marlina (154130) • Canada 21 May 16

I am very disappointed right now for the lack of action here at Mylot. There are very few new content and lots of it is awfully boring. I have the suspicion that lots of the users here have gone to check out some greener...

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tammytwo I will be honest, I had forgotten about this site for quite some time. The only reason I returned was because I got an email about a message sent to me. I used to be on here regularly and now I have returned and hope to use Mylot again to make a little extra...

22 May 16

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courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 3 Feb 12

In 3 months my boyfriend is leaving for the army and the thought still devastates me. Just today I was thinking about the time we have left and I realized its only 3 months. It feels like just the other day we still had 5 months...

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tammytwo It would be nice to see an update to this. Did he leave for the Army? Did he like it? Is he still serving? Or has he decided it wasn't for him? I just think it will be nice to see some updates to some of our posts and maybe get some of the conversations active...

22 May 16

Jo Hill @Carpathian (582) • United States 4 Jan 12

my guy and I have been together almost a year. He is going through a divorce and says he is still friends with his ex. What is bothering me is not that there is anything physical going on; it is that she can't do nothing for...

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tammytwo I was just wondering if this situation has changed? has it gotten any better? Is he still in your life? Or did you decide to call it quits? I think it will be interesting to update some of our older posts.

22 May 16

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Lee Ka @kaka135 (14935) • Malaysia 19 May 16

I always like to blog, and want to learn how to blog or make my blog works for me. Lately I joined BlogJob, and now LiteracyBase, I started to learn more about blogging from the other members there. Today, I just found a free...

blogging

free online event

profitable blogging

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tammytwo I do not currently have an active Blog but I am looking into starting one. I am a 911 Dispatcher and I have not found many Blogs about 911, so I wanted to start one to help educate others.

22 May 16

Barbara Radisavlejvic @bagarad (14283) • Paso Robles, California 12 Dec 12

I know that seems obvious at first, but we take lots of pictures -- at least some people do. Most of us still have unsorted boxes of pictures left from the days before digital photography that have yet to be put into albums. Why...

photo albums

photographs

reasons we take pictures

writing

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tammytwo Most people take them to preserve their greatest memories. I love to take photos for my family and friends. Many of them mark a milestone in their lives. This is something they can pass on to their children and other family members for years to come. I also...

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Polang @tkonlinevn (6462) • Vietnam 14 Feb 12

Yesterday, at my husband and I are together watching TV, one of my neighbors tease us that we look so happy! But only time going! A few years later, we will work per person! He wants to say that love is only passionate at...

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tammytwo I believe couples can achieve such happiness if both partners are willing to work hard at it. However, most couples grow apart because one partner or the other doesn't want to put as much energy into the relationship as is needed. Love is like a garden - it...

16 Feb 12

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 13 Feb 12

Personally I delete all my texts and emails after reading them because I dont want my phone and computer cluttered up with old email and texts. After conversing with many of my female friends ,I realise that there is the practice...

email reverie

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tammytwo I am a female and I too save some of my emails and text messages for future reference. I believe we, as women, like to go back and be reminded of the sweet things someone may say to us. I also keep others as sources of information.

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asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

greetings to all my mylot users and my friends here,in your own opinion and to your experience,what do you think is the right age to marry someone or to be married?why?is money have a big role in marriage?why? because i have a...

marriage

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tammytwo Only the people involved will know when it is right. There is no common age for all people. Everyone matures at a different rate. Therefore love and dedication means something different to each person. A person should only agree to enter marriage if they...

13 Feb 12

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 9 Feb 12

As hard as I try to keep my conversations with my friends private, I cannot,especially with such a profound statement. Needless to say this was another "shock and awe " moment my friend dealt me in one of our recent...

hope kills

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tammytwo If we don't have HOPE then we will have no DREAMS. Therefore we will strive to achieve NOTHING. It sounds as though your friend has had her hopes shattered more than one time and therefore no longer wishes to yearn for something to occur. Instead she is only...

13 Feb 12

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 12 Feb 12

greetings to all of you guys,many people setting up there significant day in their life,and everyone have it with different reasons too,for you,what is the most significant day that you always celebrate in your life?why that day...

day

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tammytwo I have several special days to me: the birth of each one of my three children, my wedding date, the day I had gastric bypass surgery and many others. I also have some other days that are significant in a negative way. Only those I wish to forget rather than to...

13 Feb 12

jasmin_niza @jasmin_niza (362) • Philippines 11 Feb 12

Yes, i dont want flowers on valentines day, if its cheap, that's alright.but if its expensive, id rather have something else that will be useful and that will last longer.

flower

love

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tammytwo I totally agree with you. I prefer to have something I can keep permanently rather than something that will die after only a few days. I am a tight wad and prefer to have something that will last long after the holiday has passed.

12 Feb 12

gcg_0915 @gcg_0915 (43) 12 Feb 12

both seemed difficult especially if relationship is in crisis. which is which? to hold on or to let go?

holding on

letting go

relationship

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tammytwo You would have to provide additional details for anyone to be able to help. No one knows your situation or that which you are inquiring about. Therefore we can't really offer a solution for the matter. Good luck with whatever it is that you're going through.

12 Feb 12

gcg_0915 @gcg_0915 (43) 12 Feb 12

i don't know where it came from but i haven't done anything to make him be jealous and insecure in almost everything. is it too much love?but isn't it too freaky already? can anyone give advise? or for guys out there can you...

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tammytwo Sometimes jealousy comes from his insecurities or from the failure of past relationships. Sometimes it may stem from his parents' relationships or those of others he has seen. Try to talk with him about the issue. If he is too demanding or too controlling you...

12 Feb 12

courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 3 Feb 12

In 3 months my boyfriend is leaving for the army and the thought still devastates me. Just today I was thinking about the time we have left and I realized its only 3 months. It feels like just the other day we still had 5 months...

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tammytwo Just realize how much better you have it than military families of the past. We now have computers, Facebook, Skype and many other ways to communicate while our loved ones are away. And remember to enjoy each and every moment you have through the next three...

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alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 1 Feb 12

when a relationship ends in most of the cases one of the individuals is devastated...and he feels like he's never going to meet someone that good as his ex again. been there...done that. but the end of a relationship doesn't have...

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tammytwo I agree that the end of a relationship is not the end of the world. However, it can be a devastating time for the person going through it. Of course when most of us are going through our home trying times we don't consider the lives of others. If we did do...

3 Feb 12

tasneem4 @tasneem4 (68) 3 Feb 12

In my earlier discussion I mentioned how my kids father became an informant slash snitch. My kids and I were relocated because of it. Now I guess because he felt like I had no reason to be upset(which in my eyes I do), he cheated...

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tammytwo I wouldn't be upset at him for being s "snitch" as you call it. But if he were cheating and making it seem as though I had been the reason for the relocation I would get upset over that. Being someone who definitely supports doing the right thing even when it...

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Jo Hill @Carpathian (582) • United States 4 Jan 12

my guy and I have been together almost a year. He is going through a divorce and says he is still friends with his ex. What is bothering me is not that there is anything physical going on; it is that she can't do nothing for...

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tammytwo This may be something that never ends with her or it may be something that is just temporary until she gets used to the idea of being without him. You must ask yourself if you will ever be comfortable with her being so NEEDY of him. If not you may want to...

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