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kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 20 Feb 07

There is a friend of mine who is having a committed relationship with a girl and he is serious about it. But on the other hand he is not satisfied with having a single committed relationship, hence he got involved with another...

breakup

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techsam Well... Trust is essential to survive in this world. You need to trust. The good to be good... the bad to be bad.... so on and so forth!! There is no respite from that fact!!

22 Mar 07

techsam @techsam (158) • India 21 Feb 07

Recently, a discussion over friend on a similar topic got me a weird statement: "Lovers come and go, but friends are meant to stay. I'd rather have a friend than a lover, because then the person stays in my life for good, and i...

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techsam Hmmm...... I was wondering where is the lady with the smile!! Quite a nice way of putting it...... Kind of a reflection of my thoughts!! Cheers to you rush!!

23 Feb 07

techsam @techsam (158) • India 21 Feb 07

Recently, a discussion over friend on a similar topic got me a weird statement: "Lovers come and go, but friends are meant to stay. I'd rather have a friend than a lover, because then the person stays in my life for good, and i...

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techsam That's a nice way to put things!! I can't help but agree with you....... its nothing but the bare truth!!

23 Feb 07

techsam @techsam (158) • India 21 Feb 07

Recently, a discussion over friend on a similar topic got me a weird statement: "Lovers come and go, but friends are meant to stay. I'd rather have a friend than a lover, because then the person stays in my life for good, and i...

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techsam Oi!! Now that's my response!! Great way to put it!! I hope someone else comes along and ponders on this particular line of thought!! Reps for you!!

21 Feb 07

techsam @techsam (158) • India 21 Feb 07

Recently, a discussion over friend on a similar topic got me a weird statement: "Lovers come and go, but friends are meant to stay. I'd rather have a friend than a lover, because then the person stays in my life for good, and i...

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techsam but then here's the catch!! The fear that my friend has, why risk losing a friend to love?? as in, if the friend becomes a lover, then the lover can go... r8?? This is something she fears!! though i have tried to explain otherwise, but it doesn't help!! So,...

21 Feb 07

awonderfullife @awonderfullife (2893) • United States 15 Feb 07

and did you stop speaking to each other for a while? How long did it last? And if so, how did you end up talking again?

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techsam oh well!! forgot to add..... was instrumental in making sure his sweetheart didn't lose heart and chuck their relationship out of teh window, when he was away in Germany for teh past 1.5 years!! They are talking marriage now!! A few more years to go but...

19 Feb 07

nutcase222 @nutcase222 (676) • India 19 Feb 07

for me it can be anywhere as long as im with the right person...... what about you

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techsam Excellent tips for teh first date!! but weren't we talking of the perfect date here?? but, surely these are tips every guy can use, even if you are not on your first date!!

19 Feb 07

kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 13 Feb 07

I have seen that some people say boldly that they are proud to be single !! Why they need to say it every time... everywhere... are they afraid of something?? OR they are running away from the fact that you are alone and...

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techsam ummm............ would u care to explain your point a little more, drsanjeeva!!

18 Feb 07

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kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 27 Jan 07

Very lucky few get a chance to live a life with someone you loved the most in life !! but for most of us at one point of time we need to part off from the one whom we loved the most and dreamed of staying together for whole life...

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techsam But, all said and done, there are people who do go through the pains of separation..... even though they don't want it... they have to do it... sometimes not for their own sake.... but still they have to do so... What should they do??

14 Feb 07

kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 11 Feb 07

I have a big question for quiet sometime... why we always associate LOVE with heart and not any other parts of body ?? In human beings the heart simply pumps blood and nothing else... it cannot feel or think !! then why ??

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techsam Amazing!! And very apt too........ It surely is interesting to note, how our heart beats faster when we see/think of someone we really feel for..... Its an amazing feeling..... I mean you need love to live life, and you need your heart to live long enough...

12 Feb 07

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tishepa @tishepa (14) • Philippines 15 Aug 08

would you rather know or not know if the one you love is hiding something? some say that what you don't know won't hurt you.. but what if you know thatr you don;t know something won't that hurt too??

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techsam would you rather know or not know if the one you love is hiding something? some say that what you don't know won't hurt you.. but what if you know thatr you don;t know something won't that hurt too??

15 Aug 08

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berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 2 Feb 07

I stopped writing diary when I discovered others sneaking through it.Im now scared of people who might criticize me for some silly things i write in it.i could speak to none,so i speak to my diary.But then what if they read...

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techsam Well berry.. your mum is seriously a snooper. can't help it, had to say that!! you have to put up a fight here... i mean for god's sake, its your individuality at stake... if someone is wrong, then he/she is wrong... even if they happend to be our parents......

5 Feb 07

kidjuwee @kidjuwee (611) • Philippines 7 Jul 08

and if so why is it the most expensive? How much and where did it originated? Does anyone know?

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techsam and if so why is it the most expensive? How much and where did it originated? Does anyone know?

7 Jul 08

kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 27 Jan 07

Chocolate is somethng that played a very important part in everyone's love life. Chocolate has played its role someway or the other in building up a replationship!! Let it be choccolate as a gift... chocolate in...

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techsam Dats why my fiend, they say patience is a virtue..... :) Never mind, with me around , you'll always good responses!! so next time, do wait for me, will you??

1 Feb 07

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oarnamav @oarnamav (2708) • India 24 Jan 07

The skin surgeon can very well remove the scar mark on your skin but can any one tell me.. How can I remove my scar marks which are deep inside on my heart please? Any surgeons there? I want to be treated on priority, i am...

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techsam Hmmmm..... well Rush, you filled in the gaps I had missed on this topic... YOu really need to believe in the fact that towards the end of teh tunnel there is always light... and teh fact that: "after night, there's always a day" and "there is a clear sky,...

1 Feb 07

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kuntal41101 @kuntal41101 (366) • India 29 Jan 07

This is a picture of my two close friends... but do they really love each other ?? If at all they love each other then how much... what this picture tell you ??

feelings

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techsam Now, that's a likely assumption.... and a sound one too!! May be I'll agree with you!!

31 Jan 07

techsam @techsam (158) • India 30 Jan 07

The question is very simple. Let me give you a scenario. There is this boy/girl you know for quite soemtime now, and you really like him/her. But, you are not sure whether to term this as love or infatuation? So how will you...

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techsam hmmm...... so it basically infatuation which can be taken on as an analogy to addiction, but love as a necessity to survival??

31 Jan 07

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techsam @techsam (158) • India 30 Jan 07

The question is very simple. Let me give you a scenario. There is this boy/girl you know for quite soemtime now, and you really like him/her. But, you are not sure whether to term this as love or infatuation? So how will you...

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techsam So going by your first point love for someone is quite similar to addiction for something... u really crave for it, when you don't have it!!

31 Jan 07

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techsam @techsam (158) • India 30 Jan 07

Funny thing this love..... Been thinking about it lately.... And that gave me a nice question, which I put forth here. The dreamer in me says that Love should be unconditional, after all you cannot expect the other person to...

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techsam hmmmm.... interesting thoughts... looks like now i have to do some thinking on this.. well said rush!!

31 Jan 07

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techsam @techsam (158) • India 30 Jan 07

Imagine a long train journey (36hrs), a compartment comprising of a couple with their 10 month old kid, a 23 yr old guy and a 20 yr old girl. Strangers!! you have certain courtesy talks, (the girla & the boy, don not interact...

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techsam well... they are still strangers who met on a train journey.....

31 Jan 07

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