tink91879

@tink91879 (742)

United States • Age 45

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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some expect too much of you

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 26 May 12

i don't understand why some people would too much from you even if they themselves don't expect too much of themselves. some people just want others to do the right things for them and they just want to feel benefit of other...

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tink91879 Many people only befriend others until they suck them dry and than they find some one else and dont see the fault in their actions. I have had this happen twice. I was there for my friend, helped her, threw her a baby shower, watched her daughter over night...

27 May 12

Does a distance relationship have a future ?

vertu007 @vertu007 (683) • Romania 26 May 12

Me and my gf have good relationship I would say, but we will be away for a few months and we could visit each other during weekends for at least a year. Can that kind of relationship have a future ?

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tink91879 My husband and I started out on a long distance relationship. I lived in CA he lived in WA. He would send me little gifts every once in awhile. Flowers to my work for special occassions. We talked on the phone every day. I went to visit him and soon i moved to...

27 May 12

He bought some food... yayyyy!

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 24 May 12

We've been without food for a few days.. I don't mean that we were starving, but we were out of everything. I made pancakes out of a cake mix and what little bit of flour I had left and that is what my daughter and I ate today....

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tink91879 That just sounds like an outrageous amount to spend on food. We are a family of four and spend around 300 a month on food, this includes if we eat out. I get the flyer for our grocery store and match coupons to sale items. I cook by what is on sale and stock...

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Clearly Im lacking common sense?

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 25 May 12

Maybe, its just me seriously since everyone else seems to be blind and stupid. This girl I work with she is a year or two younger than me. She doesnt pay me to pick her up and drive her to work. She depends on her parents, and...

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tink91879 Well your best option is to say if I give you a ride you owe me a certian amount per week for me to drive you to and from work. If you cant pay it I cant give you a ride. If anyone says anything to you tell them I told her the amount she owes me and she...

26 May 12

What T bought me

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 24 May 12

I started a discussion here about how my friend T bought me something but he wouldn't tell me what it was until I got to his out the next time. Well I went to his house for supper tonight and he gave me my gift. He picked up...

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tink91879 That was a very sweet gift. I havent recieved anything useful lately, but am meeting some new ppl who are turning out to be good friends.

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Do you believe in Maya's prophecy- what is your point of view?

phoenix8606 @phoenix8606 (4942) 24 May 12

Thinking about what happened in the last few days- earthquakes in Italy and Bulgaria, I was wondering if the Maya's prophecy is actually something that is going to happen for real. Never thought about it before, but now... I don't...

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tink91879 If I remember correctly the Mayans did not count the leap years, in fact leap years hadnt been happening yet. Julias Ceasar brought in the leap year in 45BC. So some say that according to the Maya calendar we are ahead and the world should have ended last...

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I just deactivated my facebook account!

allyoftherain @allyoftherain (7208) • United States 21 May 12

And I have never felt so FREE!!! I get to the deactivation page and the website pops up with a bunch of pictures of my friends saying, "So and so will miss you! So and so will miss you!" and this message across the top of the page...

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tink91879 You have taken a huge step in the right direction. I would deactivate mine, but sadly i am addicted and truly it seems ppl only contact me on there. I am finding ppl dont even want to talk on the phone. I sold a couple things, gave the ppl my number to call...

21 May 12

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Mylot (this is what I got?) ~could it be the start of something bad~

yel812 @yel812 (174) 18 May 12

I've spend the whole night yesterday responding to different discussions. Well I know about the quality vs. quantity thing about mylot and I did what I have to do. Then I opened my email today and got 3 notifications. The first...

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tink91879 It does take time to earn with mylot and depends on what you do with how fast you will earn. I have made it to $20 and was paid through paypal. Than I took a break and now Im back. I enjoy seeing different conversations and venting or just chatting on here. I...

21 May 12

He is here now

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 21 May 12

My husbands 19 year old sister had her son at 5:14am this morning. He was a nice healthy weight and 1 inch longer then my daughter. Now there is almost 16 months age difference between my daughter and her second cousin. I'm happy...

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tink91879 She is young and I wish her the best. Its good she has family who is willing to help. She will need all the support she can get, especially if the father isnt sticking around. Congratulations on becoming an aunt! Im glad he is healthy and mom is doing well.

21 May 12

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why bad people gets good life? where is the karma there?

luisaR @luisaR (452) • Philippines 21 May 12

my son's father seem having the time of his life. things are going good for him, All his ambition is coming true. He is the madness nightmares I had. I just don't get it, he had made my life horrible through beating, swearing, not...

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tink91879 I ask myself this question a lot. I know people who use and hurt others and life just seems so simple, until you really think about it. They put forth the good fortune they have, but hide the pain they might feel. Plus your missing seeing all the blessings you...

21 May 12

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Would you as a mother...?

OpinionatedLady @OpinionatedLady (5965) • United States 17 May 12

It is known on here we do not see eye to eye with my in laws at all. Although I have often wished they would go away I deal with them because my husband though often hurt loves his parents and wants to have a relationship with...

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tink91879 People are confusing. What is important to one is not important to another. I think its wrong they got rid of all the pics and called them garbage since its not the pictures were talking about, its the memories the pictures hold. Sure one can hold many...

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Feelings & Emotions.

JonGilbert @JonGilbert (111) • Philippines 17 May 12

I am a married man, i also had another woman, i love my other woman and i love my wife but the love for my wife only puffs out when we talk to each other and when we are not, my mind and my emotion goes back to my other woman, my...

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tink91879 I glanced over a cpl other comments. How long have you been married? Do you have any children? I think when one has an affair they are in a rut in their life. Emotionally, physically neglected by their partner. Your finding in the other woman what your missing...

18 May 12

Would you ever cut ties with a friend like this?

Adang1988 @Adang1988 (31) • Philippines 17 May 12

Just dumped a friend for 10-11 years on Facebook. Honestly I am not even sad or mad about it. The whole situation has helped me realize how important to evaluate friendships. If you have the slightest feeling that your friendship...

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tink91879 Your right, if the friendship is toxic or if you find yourself hurt, or growing apart its not a friendship anymore. If a little comment upset you that might not have upset you years before, you guys just grew apart. People change over the years. I have...

18 May 12

I don't believe in God, do you?

laura_lmaxi @laura_lmaxi (678) • United States 1 Sep 11

I have always been an atheist, but I don't hate religious people, I don't think they are stupid, they just have a different way of thinking than myself, and I respect that, what I don't like is the people that try to always try to...

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tink91879 I do have a strong belief in God. I dont shove it down ppls throats. I live by do not judge. Your belief is yours and between you and God is how I look at it. I prefer to show Gods love by being respectful and showing the happiness in my life I feel God has...

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Are some people just plain rude when it comes to not answering texts, etc?

163Mandolingirl @163Mandolingirl (1052) 17 Aug 11

I'm fed up a sending texts, emails and Facebook messages that are never answered by some people! Is our society getting ruder? Have manners gone out of the window now? I must admit that it is usually the younger folk who are the...

messaging in our society

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tink91879 If they are ignoring you than they are not worth your time. Apparently your making them a higher priority than they are making you. I have a few ppl who dont respond or respond with short answer and than just stop responding after one or two words. So for me...

18 Aug 11

He doesn't want to sleep in his crib

AishaBR @AishaBR (345) • United States 3 Aug 11

Ok my son is four months now. Every night around 12:00am he wakes up crying its not because he is hungry, needs a pamper change, or has gas. It's because he wants to sleep in the bed with me and his father. As soon as I put him in...

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tink91879 He has you arapped around his finger. I had my kids in the room with me until they were 3 months old. I had them nap in their room during the day though. I never put my kids to bed asleep. I always laid them down sleepy, but awake. When mine woke up at night...

4 Aug 11

Daycare

AishaBR @AishaBR (345) • United States 3 Aug 11

Ok my baby is four months old, and I am about to start August 15th. And me and my hubby are trying to decide if or put him in daycare or not. He has got so use to just being around us that if someone holds him he starts crying and...

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tink91879 You definatly need to do something. He is very clingy and this will only get worst. You can always look into a nanny takes time to find a good one and he will obviously have a hard time adjusting, but he will adjust. Its very important infants, children humans...

4 Aug 11

I am not in the slightest bit ready hahaha

Humbug25 @Humbug25 (12540) 4 Aug 11

Me and my 3 boys are off camping tomorrow but we are not even packed yet. We have only just got unpacked from a recent trip to my mum's house and we are off again! When I packed to go to my mum's I packed the morning before we...

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tink91879 I pack in advanced. Usually when we went somewhere it was to visit family out of state. Now were in the same state, but still 8 hours away. I use to have to pack to visit family and go to Disneyland so we needed two weeks worth of stuff. Plus it took us two...

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Facebook is not for children.

Rosa26 @Rosa26 (2618) • United States 2 Aug 11

Now they are trying to a law that the children don't have access to Facebook, and if they do the parents will have to pay, for that, is true that the children shouldn't have to have access to Facebook, I have seen children 9 years...

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tink91879 Children dont need a facebook. I understand the teens wanting one since it is a nice way to keep in touch with friends and family, but parents need to check it. See who their friends are and what is being said. I know my brothers ex is atotal mess and talks...

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