tjdas83

@tjdas83 (178)

Malaysia • Age 41

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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What does Harry Potter do for a living?

Steve West @zebra2222 (5268) • United States 29 Aug 09

After nineteen years have passed, what does Harry Potter do for a living. Does he sit around at home? Does he magically mow the lawn? How does he keep busy? What are your thoughts? Perhaps he performs magic shows for children....

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tjdas83 Hehehe. That's funny. But I think I heard from a Harry Potter podcast once that J.K Rowling said that both Ron and Harry were aurors and Hermione was doing something useful like continuing her inspiration that generated from S.P.E.W in the Magical Law...

14 Sep 09

who read the last harry potter

donohue7240 @donohue7240 (23) • Canada 31 Aug 09

i have and its awsome

harry potter

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tjdas83 It was amazing. Read the series so many times that I hardly can keep track. It was such an intriguing plot with such depth of imagination from J.K Rowling. Sad that the series had to end but it was worth waiting almost 8 years (since I started reading it) for...

14 Sep 09

In harry potter, which part do you like the most????

quantumpro99 @quantumpro99 (73) • India 23 Jun 09

I like half blood prince....what do you like????

harry potter

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tjdas83 I agree with you guys that book 6 (HBP) was the best in the series. It was the book where the plot starts to reveal itself and some of the unanswered questions were answered. It was really interesting to read about Tom Riddle past and his transformation...

14 Sep 09

books or the movies

iamhari123 @iamhari123 (169) • India 4 Sep 09

i love harry potter books.actually thats the only series that i have read completely... but when the movies released trust me i lost my interest in harry potter.i really felt that movies were not at all up to the mark.thats my...

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tjdas83 Definitely the books, hands down! Its kinda hard for the movies to have the same exact storyline like the books because of the movie-time limit. They have to try and shorten the story and the most beneficial way to do it was by changing a few things here and...

14 Sep 09

study and love???

sksrin @sksrin (111) • India 4 Jul 09

do u think study and love relation can be easily handled simultaneously being a student...???

love

relation

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tjdas83 Well it really depends on both the individuals. Some can really find a way to make it work and some just goes out of hand. When both individuals goals are the same or almost alike, then its easy to influence each other to work towards the goals because the...

6 Jul 09

does religion matter when it comes to relationship?

maiyhenzkee @maiyhenzkee (682) • United States 23 Mar 09

Are you willing to give up your religion and be converted to another religion for the man/woman you love? Why? Why not? Did you ever talk to your partner about religion (especially those that have different religions) in the...

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tjdas83 I'd rather not change if I can help it. I'd fight to keep it any way I can. I don't see the reason to be forced to change something that is part of one's identity. But I do believe two people can love and live together peacefully with both holding on to their...

26 Mar 09

Really need to hear some advices here....

anjel016 @anjel016 (329) • Philippines 25 Mar 09

Okay here's what's happening and I can't talk to anyone about it. My partner started to stop contacting me yesterday the whole day! We always talk to each other everyday and can't live a day without it. The whole day yesterday I...

broken heart

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tjdas83 First of all, take a deep breath and calm yourself down. You seem stressed-out and this just makes things worse. I think, you should not jump too conclusion and give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he had something to do or had to go out somewhere for a...

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Believe in religion would raise war sometimes.

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 24 Mar 09

The question is, would religion capable of raising war? Some people might use religion on the purpose of manipulate a large group of people, to control them do whatever they want. Vivid example was the terrorists group. Mostly,...

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tjdas83 Yeah, you find these groups of fanatics in all kinds of religion. What makes it all silly and useless is that their whole agenda is proof that their religion is the best and the only truth. Yes it is the truth to that particular individual beliefs but you...

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He still wants us to be friends... Special Friends...

Ysabel @Ysabel (1201) • Philippines 24 Mar 09

For those who have read my previous (personal) dilemna, i just have an update on it. For those who have not read it, here's my previous thread (not a referral link): http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1939783.aspx?p=1 Many...

special friends after breakup

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tjdas83 Well, I think you should accept it only if you can see him as a friend as well. If you are gonna do it because you're hoping that he will change his mind later, then I think you should not do it. Because, while he is thinking that you guys are back as friends...

24 Mar 09

What kind of friend is that?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 23 Mar 09

If you have a friend, who always ask for your help, I meant help in financially. Everytime she borrowed money, she only returns half of it, or never return it. Although I understand that she has financial difficulties sometimes,...

friendship

money

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tjdas83 Like in everything else, friendships have limits too. If a cry for help from a friend is within your means, then you should go ahead and help. 'Within your means' is the keyword here. As selfish as this may sound, you always have to take care of yourself first...

24 Mar 09

Indoors......Outdoors

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 23 Mar 09

What would you prefer - the serenity and peacefulness of home OR the din and bustle of the outdoors.Mental equilibrium is a balanced one when you are within the four walls of your residence.But things go astray when you land...

in and out

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tjdas83 I think I need a bit of both to sustain the balance of my mental equilibrium. I enjoy staying at home often but occasionally I do need the distractions from the outside world to bring me back to earth. I feel like I'm too self-involved if I stay indoors too...

23 Mar 09

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To live and learn or just read about it?

TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 21 Mar 09

Ok so here's my thinking. You can read about something but really not know it until you life it in some form. If you read that liver and onions is a great food, you don't know until you taste it. You can read about fixing...

books

life

practical applying of life

shadow

teachers and students

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tjdas83 Well said. One of the many reasons why an employer or a company prefers experienced workers rather than a person with only academic qualifications. It's like the difference of being smart and being wise. One can be smart by just reading but you are wise when...

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Do you like to talk about yourself?

tjades @tjades (3591) • Jamaica 22 Mar 09

I don't like it very much when someone says to me... "well tell me a little about yourself." I'd prefer if we just talk and you ask questions you want answers for. Allow the conversation to flow naturally. It may be an...

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tjdas83 Yeah, I don't like limiting myself to a few specific details. there is much more to me than my interest, hobbies etc. The best way to find out, is letting the conversation flow and asking specific questions. But I guess people do it because they want a summary...

22 Mar 09

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Do you think that increasing the amount paid to the discussions and responses

Bala @balasri (26537) • India 21 Mar 09

might have been a better idea than giving tasks which is diverting in nature from the main spirit of the forum and ultimately results in the same idea of Helping the Mylotters to earn more.

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tjdas83 I don't think the tasks are set by mylot admins, or is it? I think mylot invites advertiser or companies searching to give out task for freelancers and pay them. It like the Amazon Mechanical Turk(don't know if you heard about this site) where they invite...

22 Mar 09

Hate Cheating in relationships, What do you do?

jatamogue @jatamogue (367) • Philippines 21 Mar 09

If people hate cheating, then what do they do to avoid them. It is possible that there is a reason why your partner is cheating. It is a waste of time to see something precious you built overtime has been played by being...

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tjdas83 If being faithful is a matter of principal, then I think naturally one would be able to avoid cheating due to the inner voice in them. Like for me, I can't sleep well at night if I found myself going against my principals. I guess, the guilt of it all will...

21 Mar 09

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Advice a lover......PLS

sagnik42 @sagnik42 (3592) • India 21 Mar 09

My friend got dumped last week by his girlfriend.She has fallen in love with someone else and so she broke up with my friend.My friend loved her very much and is shattered.I tried to calm him in all possible ways but in vain.So I...

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tjdas83 Well 1 week is to early to vanish the pain and heartache. What you could do is occupy him with other things so that he doesn't dwell on his girlfriend. You could invite him to mylot(if he's not a member yet) and join some of the discussions here. There are...

21 Mar 09

Hair up or hair down when you are at home?

wondericequeen @wondericequeen (7876) • Hong Kong 20 Mar 09

For those who have long hair, do you tie up your hair at home or do you let it down? I usually tie up my hair at home and I feel more comfortable that way *smiles*.

hair

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tjdas83 I usually tie my hair up when at home. I come from a hot tropical country and the humidity here is high. So its essential to tie my hair at home. It's too hot to leave it down. Plus, I do tend to be home a lot so its basically tied most of the time.

20 Mar 09

Is waiting for someone bad?

taki_takaishi @taki_takaishi (1279) • Philippines 20 Mar 09

Hm. Me and my ex broke up last june a few days before our monthsary. The only reason she told me why she is breaking up with me is because I act like a kid. Well, I have to admit, I acted like a kid, but there was reason for that....

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tjdas83 I think it's perfectly alright to wait for someone, especially when you know the person is worth waiting for. You know what you want and you are confident you love her, so it's basically fine on your side to wait for her. But looking at her side, you have to...

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