tracy_d

@tracy_d (76)

India • Age 42

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Happy 2009

Responses (49)

tracy_d's Responses

If you have been deprived of sleep and food, would you still be happy?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 7 Jun 09

Do we really get crankier when we're sleepless and hungry? Is it something common in all of us? OK, so maybe there are insomniacs out there who can still muster a smile even if they lack sleep. Or maybe those who fast religiously...

food

happiness

sleep

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tracy_d No way!!! Sleeping and Eating are the two activities I love the most!! :) If deprived of them, I would surely be irritated and also irritate people around me!!

8 Jun 09

Does height matters in a relationship?

fheroan @fheroan (615) • Philippines 7 Jun 09

i just wanna know if you agree or disagree at this matter... im 16 and they say that my height is already tall for my age..my height is 5'6... sometimes other ppl say to me that i will have a hard time finding a partner in life...

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tracy_d Hey you should be happy! Not everyone is as lucky as you are!! :) Your height adds to your personality, its definitely a positive trait that you have. As for finding a partner, for a person of a rare height like yours in your area, there's bound to be someone...

8 Jun 09

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Fancy Email Fonts/colors and backgrounds

vivasuzi @vivasuzi (4127) • United States 2 Jun 09

Do you think that fancy email fonts, colors and backgrounds have any place in the business world? I'm getting so tired of emails that come through with fancy, hard to read fonts OR bright hard to read colors OR horrible...

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tracy_d Of course there should be some professionalism in formal communication. The way you communicate, talk over the phone or even compose your emails speaks a lot about you. It creates a very bad impression if formal emails are not addressed in a particular...

3 Jun 09

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you're old. should you give your boyfriend a deadline?

Ritchelle @Ritchelle (3790) • Philippines 3 Jun 09

your biological clock is ticking and you and your boyfriend had known and loved each other forever. should you in passing, mention that you wish to get married at a certain time (which happens to be soon)? what would you do if...

deadline for marrying

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tracy_d Whoa! Whats the problem? I mean you should ask him why he says no. If there is a valid reason for his answer, at least you both need to mutually discuss and arrive upon a certain date when you would like to get married. If he does not bother to give a proper...

3 Jun 09

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Do you still have a diary?

cecillecarmela @cecillecarmela (3818) • Philippines 1 Jun 09

I used to have a diary when I was in elementary because our GMRC (good manners and right conduct) teacher required us to have one. On that diary usually I write only the best things that happened in my life because I don't...

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tracy_d Oh yes!!! I have always maintained my personal diaries and have always kept them in highly secluded places where no one else but me could read them. Previously I used to write anythin and everything in my diaries. Now I just write anything that makes me happy...

1 Jun 09

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is it hard for you to say sorry?

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 28 May 09

it is funny when squidward, a character in the spongebob cartoon finds it really hard to say sorry to anybody even if he should. but in real life, people who can't say sorry after doing a mistake is not a funny thing. i admit that...

sorry

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tracy_d I used to have a lot of pride before and would never say sorry to anyone however guilty i felt. But someone made me realise that the value of the relationship goes much beyond a simple "sorry" and your pride is not worth risking the relation. Since then, its...

29 May 09

Have you ever used something wrong?

hiddenwing @hiddenwing (3719) • China 27 May 09

Such as... u thought your shampoo was the face foam, your toothpaste was your makeup, or your soap was your bread! It was not a big deal though! As well as this, before you went out, you felt your pocket. You toughed something...

wrong

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tracy_d reminds me... recently i had a water bottle in my hand and was just taking a sip when my cellphone rang. Instead of picking up my phone, i took it towards my mouth thinking its my water bottle and the bottle towards my ear thinking its my phone.. hahaha, of...

28 May 09

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Should Smoking be Banned in Public?

drsenergy @drsenergy (159) • United States 27 May 09

I personally get so annoyed when I'm in a public place and a smoker is anywhere near. I think it is totally unfair that without penalty, they get to pollute my air and there's nothing I can do about it. It has been proven that...

ban

smoking

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tracy_d i am really surprised with the postings of people in favour of smokers here!! It's just like saying they have every right to throw acid in the air where they are standing and its the duty of the people around to move away!! Isnt it funny?? lol...!!

28 May 09

Is it true that women still feel weaker than men in certain situation ??

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 26 May 09

They wouldn’t feel so if the social set up had been balanced for both men and women and if had been accepted as it is. Since time immemorial women folks have been being reeling under men’s dominance. If not in all, women, I mean...

weak women

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tracy_d Hi Krajibg, women are more than willing to compromise when it comes to making choices. They are not as egoistic as their male counterparts and easily make sacrifices in a relationship. This is generally interpreted as being Weak. Women are definitely more...

27 May 09

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Why do women like to go shopping?

acematthews71 @acematthews71 (1084) • India 20 May 09

Are you married or do you have a girlfriend? I'm wondering why most of the women like to go shopping, while men don't? Please share your opinions here if you like. Thank you in advance!!

shopping

women

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tracy_d Shopping is a great stress buster for women. It perks up their mood when they are down and gives them a sense of satisfaction. Well, dont guys love to look at beautiful girls?? Similarly girls also appreciate looking at other beautiful material things :)...

27 May 09

What R U Waiting For?

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 26 May 09

Everyone is waiting for something all the time. Maybe it is a check in the mail. Or maybe you are waiting for the maintenance man. Or maybe you are waiting for school to get out for the summer. Those are some of the examples. Is...

patience

waiting game

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tracy_d Well I am waiting for a job to support my finances. But more importantly I am waiting for my husband to patch up our fight!! :(

27 May 09

Do you put salt in your food when cooking?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 26 May 09

For years, I didn't add salt to my cooking, mostly for health reasons. Just recently, I bought some salt to use when making mashed potatoes and it's really made a difference in how things taste. Salt is unhealthy, that's...

helpful hints

my life online

salt for cooking

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tracy_d I have to have salt in my food!! However its just a minimal amount which others may feel is less. Definitely too much of salt is bad for health. But I cannot do without that much needed pinch! :)

27 May 09

Why is it OK for a woman to yell at her husband, but not OK if he yells?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 26 May 09

Have you ever seen those reality shows where the wife is always badgering and yelling at the husband? Or, she's really nitpicky. And, that's considered normal behavior. He's just expected to sit there and take it like a...

anger management

marriage counseling

my life online

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tracy_d Its certainly not OK either ways. But I guess women have been looked down upon and have been subjected (still are) to domestic violence for so long now, that society does not allow men to be abusive or violent towards women any more. Allowing women to yell at...

27 May 09

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talk on the phone when walking

janiceines @janiceines (799) • Singapore 27 May 09

do you talk on the cellphone with your friends or family members when you walking on the street ?

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tracy_d Its very very risky to talk on the cellphone when walking on a street, especially crossing the roads. I have been constantly warned by my friends and family members not to do so. I generally avoid this and in case my acquaintances realise tht I am on a street...

27 May 09

what makes a woman beautiful?

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 27 May 09

most would say that beauty in the inside is more important than physical beauty but i doubt if this is true for guys. it's a crap. guys is more attracted to a girl who has a sexy body and a beautiful face. have you watched betty...

beauty

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tracy_d Its true that external beauty makes the first impression and is responsible for attracting guys. But how LONG that attraction will last, only depends upon the beauty of her soul. It depends upon how much her nature keeps the guy captivated towards her. Guys...

27 May 09

Do you give money to your parents

cindyhxf @cindyhxf (1446) • China 24 May 09

Hi dear lotters,i selcome give money to my parents because they have ways to earn money by themselve.i just bought something what i wanted to give them sometimes.they don't need my money support i told them if they need i will try...

money parents

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tracy_d My parents never asked me for money. Yet i used to give them a small amount every month as I feel every child has an obligation towards his/her parents to support them when you are independent. However, after I became unemployed due to recession, it was the...

25 May 09

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Sleeping alone = (

usaflove08 @usaflove08 (281) • United States 17 May 09

Hiii! I find it hard to sleep alone when I'm at my parents house and my hubby is at our place because that's where he works near by. Getting used to sleeping with someone makes it hard for you to sleep alone and you feel...

people

sleep

sleeping

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tracy_d I totally agree!! Its difficult for me to sleep without my husband if I am at a friends/parents place. Its like I jus want him sleeping next to me, just wanna know hes there. Feels incomplete if hes not!!

18 May 09