tuhpaul

@tuhpaul (475)

India • Age 70

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The cheap Chinese lighter took life of a girl

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20162) • India 19 Oct 11

A girl in my city was killed because of an explosion from the cheap Chinese lighter she was using to light incense sticks during worship and morning prayers. It was learnt that this lighter was defective and needed several...

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tuhpaul It is sad to know of this tragedy- people are very careless and go for cheap stuff- especially the Chinese made ones which has infected the market at random.

19 Oct 11

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An experience in life without Electricity???

anusha2128 @anusha2128 (886) • India 18 Oct 11

Last two days our electrical supply had some problems. Hence continuously we had no supply of electricity. This was first time in my life.That was very bad and different experience in my life. Is there any such experiences in your...

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tuhpaul Ooops! first time? I have had the taste of life without current over the past 40 years and am quite used to it -

19 Oct 11

Looking back in the time :

fiazio @fiazio (734) • India 8 Nov 09

hello everyone, I was just going through all the discussions I've started till now and I happened to click "last". That's when I got to know that my first post done on mylot was a 4 years ago ! Wow, time did go that fast!...

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tuhpaul I became a member 3 years ago - yes time flies -I have enjoyed here -have a lot of friends here too.

8 Nov 09

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i find a job ! what can i do ?

xoxo5201714 @xoxo5201714 (27) • China 25 Sep 09

i find a job ,which will hire ppl to study at that training ,but i don't know how to operate it?who can tell me about that or anyone ever did it before?

jobs

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tuhpaul I am unable to understand you - will you please write in detail.

25 Sep 09

do you usually go to bed late?

peace001 @peace001 (726) • China 25 Sep 09

actually i go to bed late everyday.i 'd like to read and write something in the mid-night.i 'd like to look out of the window to enjoy the darkness.it is dark and quiet,you can hear your breath clearly,it seems that it is just...

night

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tuhpaul Well my friend I am very much like you very noctunal but an early bird too. Yes I am on the computor late at night.

25 Sep 09

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Global warming

Simamora @Simamora (12) • Indonesia 25 Sep 09

My friend who happened to be a foreign citizen who comes from industrialized countries told me that global warming is one of the factors that cause forest exploitation is not controlled by developing countries that have tropical...

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tuhpaul No its not just blaming - but there should be awareness amongst both developing and developed- for both are responsible for the Global Warming.

25 Sep 09

Spelling errors.

jodylee_04530 @jodylee_04530 (1097) • United States 24 Sep 09

Do you respond to posts with spelling errors? I find it a bit annoying when people do not take the time to look over and change words that are misspelled. I know it is common and I have done it myself but when I look at the title...

spelling errors

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tuhpaul There are people on mylot whose mother tongue is not English,keeping this in mind and also to respect their thoughts and the effort they make to express their feelings- I do respond to their posts.

25 Sep 09

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My kids homework make me feel that I need to go back to school

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 25 Sep 09

My older daughter only in 3rd grade this year. And as usual the school always ask parents to get involved with their school life. Some of their homework has instruction how they need the parent 'help' to finish the...

need to go back to school

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tuhpaul There are lot of parents who feel the same as you feel. Now a days schools do give alot of homework and what is more very little is explained in class,but the kids are expected to finish the task given for homework more over there is project work which the...

25 Sep 09

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My lover and myfriend..

ysobelle @ysobelle (202) • Philippines 30 Jul 09

My lover is my friend. It is good that you will build a strong foundation of friendship in your relationship. It is one way of sharing opinion to each other to avoid any argument. It is easy to open up misunderstanding if you...

friend

lover

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tuhpaul All that glitters is not gold- anyway wish you all the best -time will tell how true is your thoughts are .Best of Luck.

30 Jul 09

Will You Marry For Love Or For Money?

preethaanju @preethaanju (3000) • India 30 Jul 09

It is common to see parents looking for brides and groom with good financial stadning.Is money the only consideration in marriage? As elders, should not they be wise enough to understand that love is more permanent than money? A...

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tuhpaul For love ofcourse-but remember all the love will vanish through the window if your are economically not sound.But yes love first next is money.

30 Jul 09

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My girlfriend often lose her temper for I can't give her a rich and steady life

wuingwin @wuingwin (9) • China 30 Jul 09

My girl friend wants the rich and steady life,but I can't give her anything now.So she often lose her temper,because she is a beautiful and pride princess.She thinks she should marry with a rich man who can give her a steady...

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tuhpaul My friend one thing is for sure that your girlfriend does not love you a bit she cares for riches only and not for you .She even does not realize your present position - my advice to you is forget her and look for a new girl .Rememember you are after her looks...

30 Jul 09

Your parents want to control your life, even you are mature and living out?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 30 Jul 09

How much control should parents have on their adult children who have moved out of the house? I am child for my parents, but i am parent too. So, i can say that my mother want control my life even now, when i help dhe , not...

family

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tuhpaul Parents should realize that their children have grown up and have a right to live independently- actually I feel your mother is very possessive about you and tries to run your life for shr is afraid that you might slip off sometimes trying to face this world...

30 Jul 09

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Your Best Friend is Marrying UR EX LOVE OF LIFE..UR INVITED TO WEDDING.!!

April @cloud_kicker_32 (4635) • United States 30 Jul 09

Hello there..soo i have a lil problem..i think maybe? I feel so weird about this situation..in my long past threads i talked about my best friend taking my ex love of my life..they are getting married this Aug 8th..and im invited...

love

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tuhpaul My friend what I gather is that you feel you have forgiven them but at heart you have not- if you did then the thought of their marriage would not bring the feeling to kill yourself - my friend - one thing is very clear that your friend is not a true friend...

30 Jul 09

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Your Best Friend is Marrying UR EX LOVE OF LIFE..UR INVITED TO WEDDING.!!

April @cloud_kicker_32 (4635) • United States 30 Jul 09

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30 Jul 09

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What types of topic do you like to post on mylot?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15395) • United States 29 Jul 09

I think most of my topics of the discussions are around my daily life and almost lots of them are talking eating & cooking, seeing I like these two hobbies very much! I don't post anything about polictics/religion etc because I...

mylot

post discussions

types of topic

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tuhpaul Well my friend I prefer topics that are informative at the same time interesting -we have to keep in mind that there are a variety of people from all over the world here in mylot-they ought to be catered too- yes I dislike politics for it is a dirty game (with...

30 Jul 09

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Do you find when you make plans..

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 27 Jul 09

there is always someone or something that ruin those plans you have made?

life

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tuhpaul I always look for an alternative - any disadvantage-I try and change it to my advantage-and I have been successful-till now.

27 Jul 09

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Who makes the best listeners?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 27 Jul 09

Do you think it is a man or a woman who you know or who you do hardly know?

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tuhpaul Well friend its not the man/woman-known or unknown-it is the intelligence of the person (man or woman)-who actually gives his/her ears to everyone and not his/her voice.

27 Jul 09

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What are the common reason of marriage broke-up?

tuayon_san @tuayon_san (299) • Philippines 26 Jul 09

I was married for 5 months and I am affraind that in the long run we might encounter problems that would destroy my family. what are the common reason of marriage broke-up? if in case I will encounter those probs. at least...

common problems of couple

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tuhpaul For me it is trust,honesty,openness,sacrifice,patience,truthfullness- this has carried me for 27 years and am still going strong by the blessing of the Almighty.There have been disagreement but we sorted it out after an argument - I mean when we both cooled...

27 Jul 09

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friend friend

ravirai8616561 @ravirai8616561 (824) • India 27 Jul 09

How many friends do u have in ur friends list.share it with all right here mylotters

friends

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tuhpaul Well over five hundred and they are a wonderful set of people.

27 Jul 09

Do you get along well with your husband/wife?and how could you do it?

cedarlgp @cedarlgp (207) • China 27 Jul 09

The relation between husband and wife is really an advanced subject.many couple have a good marrige career,they get along well with each other,I guess they must have a good communication at first.then they have skilled measure to...

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relation

wife

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tuhpaul It is to be honest and truthful to each other with a lot of patience - and the communication becomes strong.I follow this and its ok with me and my wife.

27 Jul 09

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