tundeemma

@tundeemma (894)

South Africa • Age 44

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Nothing is important than a family

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 28 Sep 10

One of my friends told me that she is going to the America because his boyfriend want her to lived there and don't like to bring her one child. Her boyfriend accepts his status but not her daughter. She told me that she is doing...

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tundeemma yes you are very much right, one's family should be more important especially in this period when few if not no one care about your welfare, you family will be the last resort , and this is why when you are happy or sad, you should confide in any of your...

29 Sep 10

Who is sexy?Slim girls or big girls?

xenachinah30 @xenachinah30 (597) • Philippines 29 Sep 10

I wonder how i look when i become fat because eversince in my life up to know i am thin girl.Many girls wanna be like me because i dont gain too much weight.My weight weighs around 40-45 kilos only even pregnant before twice i...

body

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tundeemma to me i don't believe you have to be extremely slim to be sexy, i don't like ladies that are too skinny likewise i don't like ladies that are too fat, a lady just have to balance in between skinny and fleshy to remain sexy, i love to see a woman that has some...

29 Sep 10

How do you react whenever the internet goes slow?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 28 Sep 10

Here in our place, we are too many who uses the internet line. For this reason, there are times, the internet connection sometimes goes slow. And when the internet connection goes slow, different reaction takes place. Somebody...

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tundeemma that really makes me go crazy sometimes and i often find myself cursing the internet service provider and sometimes i often find myself disconnecting the internet and then i relogin and if it doesn't change for the better then i will would have to call the...

29 Sep 10

do you share all your secrets with your best friend?

monalily @monalily (380) 28 Sep 10

Best friend is one who love you the way yuo are, who you can trust entirely and tell all your secrets and personal incidents.However i came across some people who were betrayed by their own best friend. thay said their best friend...

secrets to best friend

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tundeemma i don't think i can share any of my secrets with even an angel and no matter how good my best appears i will never share my best kept secrets with them, the reason is for the fact that people do change over time and no single individual will have the same...

28 Sep 10

will you take back someone who's cheated on you?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 27 Sep 10

so in our lives, we may really have encountered cheaters, even in our past relationships... well if ever - will you take back someone who's cheated on you? I have heard about this, cheaters are always bound to do something to...

cheat

cheater

take back

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tundeemma it depends on the circumstances surrounding the situation , if she is genuinely sorry for her actions , i think i can forgive her otherwise i will not, i will have to put her on probation of few weeks to see if she is genuinely sorry and if she doesn't commit...

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At what age do you think a child should be allowed to own a computer?

zionsphere @zionsphere (673) • United States 27 Sep 10

My daughter is 12, and she loves to play on the internet on this fan club site for this series of books that she reads. She wants her own computer very badly, but I feel that it is easier to to supervise her when she uses mine....

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tundeemma i do believe a child should own a computer as early as possible and that is when a child starts a primary education. If you are concerned about your child having access to some adult content then you will need to include a content filter , which can be...

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38 percent believe that Obama should be re-elected

laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 27 Sep 10

38%??? who are these people and someone PLEASE tell me WHY Obama should be re-elected?? Is it because of all these jobs he created? The MANDATORY health insurance? The apology tour? airing dirty laundry to the world? Please tell...

obama

president

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tundeemma i do believe she deserve a reelection, at least obama is bringing back the economy in his own possible best ways and the polls have shown that the United States economy is rapidly coming out of the global recession, aside this, the war in Iraqi is almost...

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Growing old: And Accepting It

limlobin @limlobin (103) • Philippines 16 Jul 10

I hate to admit it, but I'm growing older. I see and feel myself getting older, and no matter how much I tried to deny it, I know I'm growing old. It's one of the fact that everybody will face (if they are lucky). At an age of...

growing old

thoughts to ponder

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tundeemma i think growing old is one of the greatest challenges all humans will have to cope with, it is a terrible thing to deal with but everyone seems to be helpless on this one , i hope someday God himself will put an end to this unexplainable phenomenon

17 Jul 10

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taking a shower in midnight is it bad to my health?

whitestich02 @whitestich02 (1056) • Philippines 27 Apr 10

everyday i'll take a shower in the evening because in the afternoon i'm busy to use computer and i have no time to take shower in the afternoon. and my mother said this is very bad to my health and to my body. do you think this is...

bad

health

not good

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tundeemma i have heard about people catching cold when they spend much time in the shower especially during the cold seasons, it is ideal to take showers only for few minutes to avoid any form of infections that are water borne, i do believe it can affect you health to...

27 Apr 10

Do you mind having family members with a diferent religion?

merlibradley @merlibradley (407) • Philippines 27 Apr 10

I heard my aunts talking about my cousins who have a different religion and they said they are against it coz a family should be united in religion. I have a different stand on it though. I value every person's freedom to choose...

different religion

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tundeemma i don't really think there is anything wrong with staying with family members with different religious orientation and background, i do have such a multi religious extended members and i don't really care about what they practice as long as they are of good...

27 Apr 10

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Do you think a security guard should carry a gun in your country?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 15 Apr 10

We surely need protection in nowaday if you are living in a city which is full of violence and robbery cases.That's why some building will hire security guards to protect the people and the property of those buildings.Some of the...

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tundeemma i think a security guard should carry a gun , its like sending a kid to school without giving him or her studying materials and that exactly the case here, a security guard cannot protect individuals without him using a firearm

16 Apr 10

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Catholic Priest Found Dead in Motel

oxio10 @oxio10 (135) • Philippines 15 Apr 10

There was this shocking news just came in this morning here in Cebu, a priest was found dead in motel only wearing underwear and covered by blanket. He checked in at the motel alone, and indicated in the hotel's log that he was...

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tundeemma there are so many questions one would need to ask in this situation and more importantly, what is the priest doing in a motel alone and in his briefs laying under the bed sheath, there must have been a company who would have probably committed the crime

16 Apr 10

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The concept of throw away pets

highflyingxangel @highflyingxangel (9225) • United States 24 Mar 10

Does that concept bother anyone else? For instance, people tend to think that most animals are just animals that don't really matter so if they die, it's OK because it's just a cat, or a dog or a lizard or a hermit crab or...

animals

pets

throw away pets

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tundeemma though i quite agree with you that a lot of people are throwing away their pets , they might have some reasons for doing so , in south Africa here , i think most pets run away from home and they find themselves lost and no one could trace them back to their...

25 Mar 10

What's up with these people who would post in facebook everything they are doing

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

I know it's a fad thing and people are now considering facebook as their way of life, but what's up with these people who can't seem to keep their personal lives private?? I mean, they post every single thing they're doing, from...

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tundeemma i don't really think its ideal to write everything you are doing on a social networking website, i do believe those people do such just to let their friends what they presently doing and in what condition they are at that moment, there is no big deal about it...

25 Mar 10

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Driving and talking with a cell phone.

marguicha @marguicha (223720) • Chile 24 Mar 10

Do you know how dangerous it is to use a cell phone while driving? I think we all guess how dangerous it is, but we don´t really know. A study has shown that " both the participants and the scientists got sloshed...

cell phones

health

impared driving

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tundeemma making phone calls while driving does not only pose great danger to the driver but also other drivers and passersby, it is very easy to make a mistake and cause terrible accidents while making phone calls and riving at the same time, even the fine one has to...

25 Mar 10

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Which Career line should i take?

moneydoner @moneydoner (67) • United States 24 Mar 10

lease i need help, preferably from people already in their working age, I dont know which subjects to take, i like computer forensics, nano technology, and robotic engineering, if any of you already are in one of the above fields...

career

job

subjects

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tundeemma i don't think it is ideal to tell anyone the kind of career he or she should go for, it will be better for you to do what you know how to do best, it looks like the job market is getting stiffer and more competitive these days, so it will be ideal if you can...

25 Mar 10

in man we trust or in GOD we trust or in both.

gracefuldove @gracefuldove (1668) • Malaysia 12 Mar 10

we go through life and the first group of people we trust are our family . later our friends, then colleagues. along the way, we trust people and we get burnt or are betrayed.we lose hope and some of us money too. we learn that we...

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tundeemma it will be absolutely foolish to put our trust in man, man will always make promises but at the end of it fall will fail like a pack of rubish, We should rather put our trust in God who understands how much we fill and how much we need to survive in this crazy...

13 Mar 10

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Nobody wants to see round women

vjenkins86 @vjenkins86 (1478) • United States 12 Mar 10

At least that was a designer's response when he was criticized for only hiring extremely skinny models. This statement infuriates me. It's horrible. As a young woman who is self-conscious about my shape, this statement hurts even...

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tundeemma i dont believe this idea of every lady going thinner, if you come to south africa, you will lots of big women and those are my kind of women, skinny women are only good for cat walks and modelling jobs but in real terms , men prefer the voluptious and highly...

13 Mar 10

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