wendylea75

@wendylea75 (22)

United States • Age 49

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I'm pissed! ~People not raising their own kids!

good2Bme @good2Bme (103) • United States 30 Jan 07

My best friends father is raising his 2-year-old granddaughter. Why? The child's parents are too busy partying and getting in trouble to do it their selves. He fought for custody to save this little girl, but I see how hard it is...

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wendylea75 Yes my inlaws help finacially so much for my sister in law who choose to have 6 kids and she chooses to do dumb things like get peircing and tattoo's go out drinking and bowling and the kids go without food and whatever. It would be different if she got those...

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Need Suggestions For Farm

good2Bme @good2Bme (103) • United States 1 Feb 07

We live on a "farm" but don't really raise anything. I would liike to start producing something, but I am not sure what would be the best to do. Some people say plant christmas trees, some say livestock, even leeches! I need to...

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wendylea75 Well Christmas trees or apple trees would be good but you would have to do somthing else in the mean time to cause the trees have to grow. I think it would still be a go though on the trees. Are you crafty?? Why not set the barn up like a craft store. What...

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Does misspelled words on mylot bother you?

good2Bme @good2Bme (103) • United States 25 Jan 07

In my short time on here I have come to really be annoyed at peoples typing and misspelled words ON PURPOSE. I guess I'm just old, but I loose interest in what they have to say really quickly. How about you?

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wendylea75 Well you will prabally get sick of me....lol....I have horrible spelling at least mine is not on purpose. I do agree though some of it is probally people who do not speak english as a first language and that is understandable. I have heard English is a...

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An unusual dress

sharon613 @sharon613 (2321) • United States 25 Jan 07

This morning or rather lately, I don't bother to get dressed in the mornings unless i have someplace to be. I just wear my house dress all day. I went to drop my daughter off at school then went to gas up and get a cup a coffee....

depression

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wendylea75 Well after reading your profile and reading some of your other post I would def say it is a sign of depression. Call and get in to see a doctor and talk to them. Looks to be you have alot on your plate and I think this is somthing you can't deal with on your...

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What do you do when you have a hard decision to make??

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 24 Jan 07

I have a really hard decision to make right now. I don't really want to discuss it on here, because it's too long of a story to get into and it's very personal. What I need help with is I don't know how to deal with making...

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wendylea75 Well first off if it is somthing you can talk to your husband about start there. If it is about him do you have a parent, good friend, pastor sombody that you can talk to to have a mediator to help. If not you really need to go with your gut feelings and...

25 Jan 07

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Vacation planning

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 17 Jun 23

Oh, the joy of having to plan a vacation is anything but fun. Prices shopping for possibly the shortest beach weekend ever. Lol, it's probably not the shortest but it's only going to be like two days maybe a day. We will see! My...

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wendylea75 Oh, the joy of having to plan a vacation is anything but fun. Prices shopping for possibly the shortest beach weekend ever. Lol, it's probably not the shortest but it's only going to be like two days maybe a day. We will see! My husband's grandmother has a...

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Meals - 2/13/23

LindaOH @LindaOHio (178568) • United States 14 Feb 23

The drain guy said that there is an obstruction somewhere out in the yard; so after all this money we spent, we still have to have the yard dug up. I told hubs we should get it done before there's a heavy rain or we could ruin...

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wendylea75 The drain guy said that there is an obstruction somewhere out in the yard; so after all this money we spent, we still have to have the yard dug up. I told hubs we should get it done before there's a heavy rain or we could ruin the furnace again...he wants to...

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What will you do if your kid's school bus has forgotten to fetch her from school

lovemykids2much @lovemykids2much (140) • Philippines 24 Jan 07

it happened to my kid when she was in grade 2... i really freaked out. the school guard called us up to say that my daughter was still there. when i called up the school bus driver, he admitted that he forgot to get my daughter...

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wendylea75 Well I would be calling the school finding out were my daughter was. I personally don't know how she could of gotten forgotten as a 2nd grader most schools have the kids line up and they go out to the busses as a class. Also was this the first few day's of...

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Antidote for Depression

satya_music @satya_music (586) • India 14 Jan 07

Hey guys I wanted to have your ideas upon a very serious yet a very lightly taken disease ,That's Depression. Well I wanted your feedback on how to counter it . Can U wise people out there suggest some kind of an antidote or a...

depression

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wendylea75 Well I have depression and anxeity and I take meds and it has helped alot. All I can say without them my life and marriage was HELL

24 Jan 07

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Getting married 7/7/07

good2Bme @good2Bme (103) • United States 24 Jan 07

We are planning on this date, but I haven't started getting ready yet. We have been engaged for a year now, but I am thinking about postponing the wedding. Thing is, MONEY! My credit sucks and his is okay. I don't want my bad...

get married

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wendylea75 Well you each have your own credit scores. Also do you or he loves you for your credit scores. If you really want to get married than get married. Are you doubting and is it really the money that makes you wonder if you should or is there really somthing...

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my son is abusive

linda345 @linda345 (2661) • Canada 23 Jan 07

This is embarrassing for me to even write about. But I am really feel like I am losing control. We let my son move back into the house in November when he got kicked out of his apartment. It was only supposed to be for a month...

drugs

son

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wendylea75 Tough Love you need to take action and you need to tell your husband. The best thing for you to do for your son is tough love.

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What is a good time for a 7 and 5 year old to go to bed?

embattledsparkle @embattledsparkle (1072) • United States 10 Jan 07

What do you think is a good time for a 7 and 5 year old boy to go to bed? My 7 year old goes to bed at 7, but my grandfather thinks that's too early. I don't but I'm curious, if you have a child, what time do you put them to bed,...

bedtime

children

kids

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wendylea75 Well my 8 and 4 year old go to bed between 8:30 and 9:00. They both fall asleep very quickly and they get up at a bout 7am. They on the most part do not give us trouble about going to bed we say bed time they get up and go to bed. I think it depends on the...

24 Jan 07

The things that children say.......

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 22 Jan 07

Have your children ever embarrassed you with things that they come out with? Mine have left me cringing on occasion. Like today....... Last Friday I was in such a rush trying to get out the door for college and get my youngest...

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wendylea75 Oh yeah when my son was about 3 the furby's came a big big thing and he couldn't say furby's and he just loved them and we were in the middle of the toy aisle and he pointed and said look mamam look mamama BOOBIES really really loud. Than one time at the...

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Moms~ever feel like giving up and running away from your family?

good2Bme @good2Bme (103) • United States 24 Jan 07

I honestly and truly love my family, but am I the only one who has those thoughts of just jumping in the car and just leaving my whole family behind? The thing is I feel like they can be the most ungrateful people to live with....

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wendylea75 I think if we are all honest we have at some point felt that way in our life. Are you a stay at home mom in other words a homemaker? I am and my husband works two jobs so our ends can barely meet. Before anybody ask why I don't work and let him work just...

24 Jan 07

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how many childre

doodlebug5250603 @doodlebug5250603 (1993) • United States 24 Jan 07

Who has the most children? How many children do you have? What are their ages, boys or girls? I have three children. The oldest two are from my 1st marriage. They are 4 (girl) and 2 (boy) years old. I have a 7 month old...

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wendylea75 I have three children: A 8 soon tobe 9yr old son a 4 soon to be 5yr old daughter a just 3 year old son

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Homework-- not just for the kids anymore?

KrisNY @KrisNY (7590) • United States 23 Jan 07

Do you agree with this statement? I swear-- Every night I am doing homework with my child.. twice this year she has brought home a family project-- We had to build a longhouse- with real bark and twigs.. This was hilarious--...

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wendylea75 I totally agree. My son is already in the third grade and I feel like I am doing homwork. The stuff they need to know now in the younger ages just seem soo out there. I am happy for Summer vacation cause I hate homwork.

24 Jan 07

does your hubby give you a valentine gift?

kishchun @kishchun (497) • Oman 22 Jan 07

boy friends usually give a gift on Valentine's Day and whatever the gift is, immaterial of its monetary worth, it does make you feel good, loved and cherished. it's all to do with the heart, right? but how many husbands do give a...

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wendylea75 Yes my hubby does. Valentines is his favorite holiday. I have been spoiled from a portable dishwasher to flowers.

23 Jan 07

Do you buy your kids Valentines?

deberooney @deberooney (418) • United States 23 Jan 07

Every year I go out and buy both of my kiddos a little goodie and gift for Valentines Day. Am I the obnly one who does this??

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wendylea75 Yupp I have done this since my son was little and I did in home daycare. This year I think we will use up what we have leftover from the last few years.

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