xanjvill

@xanjvill (88)

Philippines • Age 47

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People in your life annoying you?

cmecu6 @cmecu6 (420) • United States 26 Apr 11

It is so annoying to me when a person does or don't do something they're suppose or not suppose to do and you remind. Almost 100% of the time, the person you're reminding will reply with an "I Know..." Well, If you "know" why do...

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xanjvill I get annoyed at people who can't think for themselves especially when they have to refer every simplest details to me. Even if it is their own project or idea they always come to me and ask the stupidest questions. I mean, come on, it's your own idea, should...

27 Apr 11

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Do you prefer actual books or e-books/kindle?

NatashaBird @NatashaBird (640) 26 Apr 11

Recently it was announced that sales of e-books have overtaken sales of physical books for the first time ever. This worries me slightly with the idea that the end of physical books could be looming with the internet overtaking...

book

kindle

reading

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xanjvill I feel the same way. I don't like e-books very much because my eyes gets tired easily from staring at the computer for so long. The only advantage of e-books for me is that they are readily available on the internet and sometimes they are cheaper than the...

27 Apr 11

If you're a Christian, do you feel bad for not reading the Bible?

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 28 Sep 08

Some people say it's allegorical, others say it's just a collection of fairy tales, some people don't believe in every word that the Bible states, while others say it's the most boring book ever - with no pictures and has some...

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xanjvill I have a hard time understanding the Bible and it is sometimes the reason why I don't read as much as I should. I do feel bad. In fact, I feel so guilty not reading it because it is my belief that not reading the Bible is kind of a disobedience to God and that...

30 Sep 08

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" You don't Send Me Flowers" and that is great.

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 19 Jan 08

I guess that I am not into flowers because whenever I see a guy give flowers to his lady love the first thing that goes through my mind is what did he do wrong?I will make sure that my boyfriend knows that a "beautiful bouquet"...

hockey tickets

relationships

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xanjvill Aren't you a little paranoid? What if your guy just happened to pass by a flower shop and saw a beautiful bouquet and thought of you? And if you doubt this kind gesture then does that mean that every time a guy does something really, really special you'll...

21 Jan 08

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When Girlfriend and Girl-Bestfriend Collides, What would you Do?

simbrialuis @simbrialuis (387) • Philippines 4 Mar 07

It's kinda unfair to choose between girl-bestfriend and girlfriend...when you don't want to loose one of them. When jealousy strikes...relationships are bound to be in trouble. The common factor between the 2 entities...

best friend

girlfriend

jealousy

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xanjvill Another case of My Bestfriend's Wedding. LOL. I think it should really be the best friend who has to back off a little. Giving you and your girlfriend time to really connect and bond. It does not have to be a no communication, no appearance thing. Just enough...

9 Mar 07

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Are they Bossy or Pushy People or helpful?

byfaithonly @byfaithonly (10698) • United States 8 Mar 07

Ok, last night I had a lady I barely know come up to me and for nearly a half hour proceeded to "tell me" what I needed to do about my life basically. She started with she was "concerned" for me but for some reason I was rather...

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xanjvill I'd probably would have made some excuses and leave. I can't even believe that she had the nerve to approach you and tell you how to run your life when you don't even know each other personally. I think she was being judgemental and I think it is wrong to...

9 Mar 07

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Is it normal to feel sad all in a sudden?

ipisman @ipisman (144) • Philippines 7 Mar 07

i was laughing and joking around my team mates but suddenly i feel like crying have this happened to u b4?

depressed

laugh

sad

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xanjvill yeah that happens to me too. Maybe it is unresolved problems or bad things we have done in our past that we thought have been forgotten but is not. Or some things that we get worried about. Like when we suddenly remember a problem or a death of a love one or a...

7 Mar 07

I cant hold on to this relationship anymore.. :'(

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 6 Mar 07

My bf and i had been going out for more than a year now and though i love him, i admit that i am really having difficulty in keeping up with this relationship. Only our closest friends know about our relationship because he has a...

breakup

friendship

relationship

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xanjvill if you really feel that you shouldn't be in that relationship then I think you should follow your instinct. As for saving the friendship, let time heal the wounds first it is for the best. It's kinda hard to forget our feelings for a person if we constantly...

7 Mar 07

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help me with my dilemma

sweetstacy @sweetstacy (159) • Philippines 7 Mar 07

i terribly need help.since i could not decide for myself.here is my problem.. i have a boyfriend of 6 yrs years.from the very start my parents didn't like him at all,but since i was deeply in love with him,i held on to the...

break up

relationship

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xanjvill Do you know why your parents don't like him? Have you really thought about that reason? Are you not maybe too blinded with your love to see that reason? I think you have to assessed yourself and your boyfriend. You also have sacrificed a lot because of him,...

7 Mar 07

help me with my dilemma

sweetstacy @sweetstacy (159) • Philippines 7 Mar 07

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xanjvill Did your parents say why they don't like the guy? Have you thought about their reason? Maybe your parents sees something in him that you don't because you are too blinded by your love? Or maybe your parents aren't happy with how you are turning to be since you...

7 Mar 07

I have a probmel i would like to share !

RedEyes @RedEyes (77) • Belgium 7 Mar 07

Hello everyone, i have a big problem. right now i am dating a girl that i realy like and we have lots of fun together but there are a few problems : 1) she is 7 years older than me, so she is looking for a very serius...

love

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xanjvill if you're not so sure about how you feel then just ask for sometime to think things out before you commit. Have you ever thought that maybe you are scared of committing yourself to her and that is why you keep questioning the way you feel for her and...

7 Mar 07

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Do you still keep in touch with the best friend you grew up with?

ironstruck @ironstruck (2298) • Canada 6 Mar 07

I didn't but sure wish I had. I often think of making the big trip and trying to find him one day. I could just imagine the both of us over 50 years old talking about the lazy, hazy days of Summers past and all the crazy stunts...

best friend

fun

trouble

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xanjvill Yup. My friends and I go way back since grade two (we're in our late twenties now) and we always get together especially when those who are staying abroad comes home. There's a sense of comfort being with old friends. Maybe it is the fact that we saw each...

7 Mar 07

Do you truly cherish the one you love?

Mollyjo @Mollyjo (266) • United States 5 Mar 07

Are you one that has cherished each and evey minute with your love/partner in life. Or are you like so many that has let time pass so quickly and let things go that should of been said? We never know when we are going to leave so...

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xanjvill I once had an experience where I love this friend of mine but I never had the courage to tell him until it was too late. When I finally admitted it to him he told me that he loved me just the same before but he thought I did not feel the same way because when...

5 Mar 07

How jealous are you!!?? EX-GIRLFRIENDS.

Starline @Starline (681) • United States 4 Mar 07

Sometimes I think about my husbands exgirlfriend and get very jealous. I do it because I have bad self esteem, and then I accuse him of wanting his ex girlfriend more than me. They were even together for three years, and I've only...

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xanjvill I think that if you see your husband unsatisfied or unhappy with your relationship then I guess there is a reason for you to be insecure but if you him happy and contented with you then I don't think you should be worrying about his exes. And stop thinking...

5 Mar 07

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Loved for who you are?

babyhar @babyhar (1335) • Canada 4 Mar 07

Do you feel the current people within your life at the moment.. Truly love you for who you are? Do you feel you can show your true colors around these people? Without even having to pretend to be something your not? If so explain...

being yourself

loved

loving

loving someone for why they are

true colors

true love

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xanjvill I have girlfriends who are like that. I can be who I am around them and they won't mind since we all grew up together. I may sometime piss them off but after a while it would be as if nothing bad happened. But there is this person I really love and I really...

4 Mar 07

Who’s the Boss

lprhll @lprhll (387) • Italy 4 Mar 07

The boss was complaining in our staff meeting the other day that he wasn't getting any respect. Later that morning he went to a local sign shop and bought a small sign that read: "I'm the Boss!" He then taped it to his...

jokes

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xanjvill That was funny but I think that employees should know when to draw the line. It's okay to be friendly with the boss but not just because he treats you nicely just as he would treat his friends, or you are friends with each other, we as employers should still...

4 Mar 07