xiaodongpan19831110

@xiaodongpan19831110 (67)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you feel sad when your discussions receive few response?

tracy1985 @tracy1985 (654) • China 19 Jun 07

I often feel very sad and disappointed when the disscussions which I had started just had few responses.because each discussion cost me lots of tome to think over and start it.and I expect to receive the responses as more as I...

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xiaodongpan19831110 Girl, I think you must be very happy now, for you have received such a lot of responses, congratuations! You should know that, the most amount i received is just 5 responses!

19 Jun 07

Do you feel sad when your discussions receive few response?

tracy1985 @tracy1985 (654) • China 19 Jun 07

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xiaodongpan19831110 I won't feel sad, for i know that most of, or at least a part of, people here just want to make money from here, starting a new discussion can earn more money than reply a post, so lots of people just start a new discuss rather than just reply.

19 Jun 07

when you feel sad,you look forward to whose comfort?

fengbo @fengbo (731) • China 18 Jun 07

When you feel sad,you look forward to whose comfort?Is your mother,father,lover,friends or another people? when i feel sad,i want my love will comfort me,sometimes i will tell her everything include my feeling,so when i feel...

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xiaodongpan19831110 when i feel sad, i look forward to my lover's comfort. Yes, parents are the most important person you can trust, but always you can't tell everything to your parents,for generation gap, they can't understand every thing you do, but for a lover, you are in the...

19 Jun 07

Am I the only one having big problem with Air Conditioning freezing cold?

polachicago @polachicago (18716) • United States 18 Jun 07

Ok, last two days I was working at local hotel, doing my film production. On Sunday air condition was set up at 58F with fans blowing cold air over my head. The outside temperature was about 87F, everybody was wearing light...

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xiaodongpan19831110 Why ot tell the operator to adjust the temperature? I think most of the guys can't enduce this tough condition, and i think you can suggest the manager of the hotel to pay attention of it.

19 Jun 07

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Who loves their job

brothertuck @brothertuck (1257) • United States 19 Jun 07

I just saw there was a post asking who hated their job, well I have to say not Me. I have worked at restaurants most of my life. I enjoy doing it. I love that time when you are moving at a pace where you don't have time to think,...

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xiaodongpan19831110 I love my job now. This is the third company i've worked for, i was not satisfied with my former two job, but fortunately, i find a good job now. Although i can just earn little money, i can see my future, thid job give me passion, and it let me know where is...

19 Jun 07

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Do you Like to Give money to Beggers ?

helloravinder @helloravinder (433) • India 14 Jun 07

Suppose one day a begger comes upto you and start asking u for some money. What will be your Response? Would you like to give him some money? Do you think there is nothing wrong in giving some money to these poor people?

begger

help

money

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xiaodongpan19831110 If the begger is younger or healthy enough, and he/she can afford himself, i will not help them, but if i come across a handicapped and lose survive ability, i will help them .

18 Jun 07

who would you choose the one you love or the one who loves you?

Karlo111187 @Karlo111187 (237) • Philippines 20 Apr 07

Just asking..

relationships

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xiaodongpan19831110 I will choose the one who i love instead of who love me. Life is short, i should go after my favor, even if i will be fail as a result, at least i will not regret.

20 Apr 07

Please help me.....!

kteja_86 @kteja_86 (293) • India 20 Apr 07

I have 2 very best friends...one being a guy and another a girl! We three were the UNSEPERABLES...the guy i mentioned used to luv the girl..he told me that and wanted me to help him...and the girl wasn't aware of this....One day,i...

life

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xiaodongpan19831110 No wonder, you should tell them both the truth, it's a romantic story. Dark love is painful, you should stop it.

20 Apr 07

control yourself.......U Short tempered......

mirror_30 @mirror_30 (68) • India 20 Apr 07

Most of the people getting short temper? why they getting like that ? what steps do u take to control ur short temper ? Thats reduce our life time, Do u know that?

short temper

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xiaodongpan19831110 I don't aggree with you, losing temper is a good way to abreact. If you are in blue, and then you restrain them instead of abreact them, you will feel more and more depress, then it's bad for your health. But when you are relieveing your feelings, don't hurt...

20 Apr 07

A precious gift

sapphireswati @sapphireswati (106) • India 20 Apr 07

My dear friend Valencia bought me this beautiful sculpture for my birthday and I treasure it deeply...We have been together through thick and thin and she understands me like no one else! This is one of my favourite...

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xiaodongpan19831110 I seldom receive birthday gifts. I always forget my birthday when it's approaching. I can remember that i received a telepone charge card worth 50 RMB, the girl said "hey, your parents are not along with you, so use it if you miss them", thank you, girl ,...

20 Apr 07

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How could a fat person become slim and a slim person become fat

SHINE333 @SHINE333 (1284) • India 20 Apr 07

I do seen some dieting, some eating too much, some taking protein powders, some doing excercies, some sleeping so on any short cuts from your side.

beauty

family

life

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xiaodongpan19831110 I am struggling against my weight, i used all the ways, endure hungry, protecting myself from delicious food. It's useful but i always can't keep it. When some people invite me for dinner, i can't help myself eating and drinking too much, then the fat inside...

20 Apr 07

life is not a bed of roses

AshleyHasan @AshleyHasan (1024) • India 20 Apr 07

My Grandpa use to tell me that Life is not bed of roses..But I use to think it is bed of roses I mean when I was a child later I realised it is not...Life is some thing where we have to face ups and downs and we should learn from...

life

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xiaodongpan19831110 Yes, life is a must that you should face ups and downs, life is happiness or pain, it is decided by your view. If you are healthy, you are happy, if you have a goo mood, you are owning a great fortune.

20 Apr 07

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Love but not "in love"...

pheobee @pheobee (11) • United States 20 Apr 07

A friends of mine has been with this guy for 5 yrs and has a kid with him. The last year she has been wondering about the relationship. They have gone through some things and she says that hes just not the same. She tells me that...

love

relationship problems

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xiaodongpan19831110 I believe that if i fall in love with a girl, i will be always love, not only now. Love is a custom with her, not just the the sense of fresh, passion.

20 Apr 07

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i have over 430 friends .what do do with them i ask lol?

yanjiaren @yanjiaren (9031) 19 Apr 07

i HAVE OVER 430 FRIENDS ON MY MYLOT FRIENDS LIST. I cannot respond to their discussions daily and most of them don't respond to mine anyway. So I have decided NOT to delete them because most have reuested my friendship and even if...

discussions

friends list

mylot

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xiaodongpan19831110 I have no such a big amount as you, but i have up to 200 friends in my OICQ, although lots of people here, some guy always not on-line, about 1o percents on line, buti can just identify 5 percents of them, for lots of people add me, then say nothing. So i will...

19 Apr 07

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Should ratings (stars) be public or private? Does it cause pre-judgement?

elizabethbathory @elizabethbathory (1132) • United States 19 Apr 07

I sometimes wonder whether or not an indvidual's ratings (stars) should be there for the world to see or just the user him/herself. I'm going out on a limb here, but I think it causes some people to pre-judge others without...

mylot

ratings

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xiaodongpan19831110 I never pay attention to the star and rating on the figure. I just pay attention to the earning i've earned. OK, it's kiding. I think it's just a way which Mylot classify us, and some people will feel great if he see the high rating on his figure. I don't...

19 Apr 07

My Joanie is gone.Sister passed.My heart is breaking.

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 19 Apr 07

Alot of you know what I've been going through with my sister's illness and if you don't know I have links at the bottom of previous discussions talking about he. Joanie died this AM around 3:30..Her struggle on this earth is...

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xiaodongpan19831110 Is she a christian? If so, you will be happy beacuse she didn't go, she has just gone into the heaven, it will be a wonderful word, without selfish, without fight. If she is not a christian, she has stopped pain, it's good. You should take care of yourself and...

19 Apr 07

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Have you ever stopped ?

crazynurse @crazynurse (7482) • United States 18 Apr 07

People struggle everyday with habits they wish to stop. Habits such as biting one's fingernails, smoking, drinking to excess, eating too much and many more. Have you been successful in stopping a habit? If so, share with your...

control

habits

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xiaodongpan19831110 I want to stop wast money, but i find that it's helpless. I can't help myself eating, drinking, and i always go KTV and bar, i always spend all of my belongings before sallary arrives. Some buddies told me i should learn the habit of saving, but it's really...

19 Apr 07