Yvonne6

@Yvonne6 (8)

United States • Age 50

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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How old were you when you first got married?

bluemestizo @bluemestizo (429) • United States 22 Mar 07

I first got married very young at the age of 23. It didn't work out and I divorced last year. My ex-wife was prejudice to filipinos and physically abusive -- What are the odds of that? Therefore I've met a beautiful person in my...

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Yvonne6 I will let you know when it happens. Over 30 and counting

23 Mar 07

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Parents doing drugs? What would you do in this situation?

astromama @astromama (1221) • United States 21 Mar 07

Ok. I have a friend, a very good one, who has been clean ever since her children were born, around ten years ago. Within the last year, she began dating a guy who is heavily into coke, pills, and drinking. She started partying...

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Yvonne6 Be there for her. I think that you have done all you can by talking to her. She has to realize her destructive behavior and stop. You may want to let the children know that if they need you, they can contact you ( if they are old enough). Her behavior can have...

22 Mar 07

Should i let my child keep in touch with his real father as he grows?

elaineobbus @elaineobbus (4) • Philippines 20 Mar 07

I'm about to become a single mom this coming June.My parents told me to totally forget the father of my baby for he's not worthit at all.He can't manage to help us financially as of the moment for he's unemployed and even can't...

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Yvonne6 Yes, you should. I think that even though you have the answers regarding the father of the child it is so important to that child's identity and mental well-being that she/he know their father. He may not be worth it to you but he may be a person that is...

22 Mar 07

Perhaps some may consider me cruel....

scorpiobabes @scorpiobabes (7225) • United States 21 Mar 07

but I have had it! In the last week, my 13-year-old daughter wrote a letter that her father submitted to court saying I asked her to move out. I did...but the statement was "If you won't help out by doing some chores, you'll have...

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Yvonne6 No, you don't sound cruel. You sound frustrated. Children are so very capable of upsetting and frustrating us as parents. I do not think it is wrong to set boundaries regarding children. I think it definitely helps to improve their success once they get out...

22 Mar 07

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Should I tell my sister he's not right for her?

ehlana88 @ehlana88 (330) • United States 21 Mar 07

My sister is in love with someone who is controlling and abusive. I sit and watch her subvert her personality just to be with him. What was once a bright and gloriously happy young woman has become a dumpy, depressing caretaker of...

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Yvonne6 I think that the best thing for you to do at this stage is just be there for her when she needs to talk to you. No one knows her situation more intimately than she does. She will not leave the situation until she is ready,even if you talk to her until you are...

22 Mar 07