zip12ph

@zip12ph (179)

Philippines • Age 45

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are you sad if your boyfriend has never sent flowers ?

quanquanzhang @quanquanzhang (504) • China 29 Sep 12

i think every girls like flowers which are so beautiful .but if your boyfriend has never sent flowers to you,are you sad?if he says the flowers is not reality,are you angry?i wait for your answers.good luck!

are you sad if your boyfriend has never sent flowe

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zip12ph hi, considering how hard life nowadays, i don't think this really matters. I for one would even ask not for flowers anymore as long a he can provide me his time then i'm okay.Just to share a story of mine, my husband never given me flowers, but our marriage is...

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do you think learning is a painful things?

quanquanzhang @quanquanzhang (504) • China 25 Sep 12

i don't kaow there are someone really like learning in the world,if we have no school,do we learn,we need to read the book,take notes,do the exercises,then take part in the exam,do we really like it?or helpless?

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zip12ph Hi, for me learning is painful but enjoyable. I'm taking law study right now, and i need to stay late at night reviewing, reading cases and memorizing the law of my country. I do this almost everyday even on weekends. I sacrifice outing with my friends just to...

27 Sep 12

people make me sooo sick!!!

crazzydolphin @crazzydolphin (3636) • United States 12 Jun 12

i over heard a conversation yesturday that i actually ended up sticking my nose into it and i dont usually do that. they were talking about a friend of theirs who is in a very abusive relatioship and they were talking about how...

abusive relattionship

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zip12ph Hi, My friend had been in an abusive relationship before,I myself do call my friend stupid but not behind her back but on her very face especially on situation that she really act as one, but this is not to put her down but to make her realize that its time to...

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Now I can see why her husband went with her friend

joystick @joystick (1675) 10 Jun 12

A few months ago I started a discussion about a friends husband going off with her best friend.Well to be honest after seeing that the wife, never wants to stay at home to spend time with him, like married people do, or to be...

husband

husband went with wives friend

wife

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zip12ph Hi, basing on your story, i think the husband has all the reason for himself and i don't blame him, why? In the first place, we engage in relationship to have companions to be with till we die, from the start, its the wife who push his husband to look for...

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Multitasking skills....

AngelaMarie @Bhebelen14 (5194) • Philippines 8 Jun 12

Today I woke up this morning, I saw my husband reading newspaper and listening loud music to his ipod while waiting for the rice to be cooked. This scenario was very common, he used to do two or three things at the same time. He...

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zip12ph Hi Bhebelen, like your husband i also do multitasking, since i'm working in a call center,i listen to my caller while typing and also while thinking on what is the possible resolution of their concern. At home since im a mother and also a full time student,...

9 Jun 12

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Anyone here working in a call center?

angelbelle578 @angelbelle578 (1635) • Philippines 2 Jun 12

Hi, I just got hired in a call center job and about to finish the training. I need some spiels. Can you give me some spiels. If the customer wants to talk to the supervisor or manager, what should I do to not transfer the call....

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zip12ph hi, i a working in a call center for 6 years now, what i suggest is that when you handle your call always do positive scripting and also avoid the use of "we can't" even though its obvious that sometimes its a dead end issue. The spiel that you can use is...

2 Jun 12

To go back into college or to get a job?

choybel @choybel (5042) • Philippines 31 May 12

Enrollment in the university that I once was in and should be enrolling again is about to end but I haven't really decided yet if I should really enroll or just go to Manila and get a job there. My dad strongly suggests that I...

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zip12ph Your decision of going back to the university is the best option for you, once you've earn your degree, getting a good job is easy since you have the best weapon to show to any company you would like to apply in the future which is your Diploma, and wherever...

1 Jun 12

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Which is worse? failing or never trying?

rjcp25 @rjcp25 (13) 28 May 12

i think this one is good topic to start. ^_^ but for me never trying is worse because he/she didn't even try at first so it means he/she is quitting, and all quitters never succeed.. it's good to be failed because you can see your...

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zip12ph Never trying is the correct answer for me, since without trying we are not really sure if we can make it or not. Failing is far better since through failure we learn to know what needs to be done next.

29 May 12

Do you stay at home or still go to office when you get flu???

ryanong @ryanong (9665) • Vietnam 28 May 12

I am in here, an office room with air-con. But there is a guy who got flu and he often sneezes. OMG, the room is not big at all but he does sneeze a lots. Honestly, I am afraid that...i may get flu later also. When...

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zip12ph Flu is very easy to transfer from one person to another, so its always advice tat one should stay at home and have rest, we should also be sensitive to others that they might be infected too. Having a day off wont affect the company, they will even thank you....

28 May 12

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For better or for worse?

betterdays @BetterDays4Me (3777) • Philippines 27 May 12

In the wedding vow, we always here these words asked to both couples "for better or for worse?" I think it is expected that there would come in a relationship that problems and difficulties would arise, and the relationships would...

difficulties

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zip12ph I've been married for 10 years and yes i agree that at some point, especially during the adjustment years of my relationship, we had encountered a lot of difficulties which almost had our marriage end, but since me and my husband value the relationship we...

28 May 12

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Fight between sisters

zaga_cleuth @zaga_cleuth (1407) • Philippines 27 May 12

My stepmom nieces are always fighting, they are sisters. And they are really so annoying. One of the many reasons why I don't like to stay at home anymore. Ages 22 and 25. My stepmom is sending them to school. Same course. And...

fight

life

relationship

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zip12ph I cant imagine this from happening between me and my 2 sisters, i do admit we also have some misunderstandings but not to the point that we shout at each other and say things that are bad, we still do respect each others and forget things that will affect our...

27 May 12

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Being Depressed and wanting some form of attention.

blpthomas @blpthomas (7) • United States 21 Feb 12

Okay, I'm just gonna start. I'm married mother of 2 and recently I have become very depressed. My Husband has started a 2nd shift job and now I am begining to feel very lonely we have beeen together 14 yrs and the flame is just...

depression married lonely selfish kids home work h

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zip12ph Hi blpthomas, i do understand your feeling cause we are somewhat the same, i work at night since i'm on night shift,comes home to take my older son to school while the other one still sleeping, then do the chores, try to sleep for an hour or two then again...

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Do you think men like women with less knowledge than them?

safety69 @safety69 (592) • Taiwan 20 Feb 12

I have this feeling, I observe many couples and men are okay if their partner know or study less than them , this way they can have the control of the relationship. I once had a boyfriend that told me that he liked me because I...

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zip12ph hi safety, before i even type a letter in my response, i ask my husband if your question is true..he answered I DON'T THINK SO.. i as why, he said that it will depend on the type of guy. As for my husband he would prefer women who knows a lot or who have the...

20 Feb 12

Why we should read?

victorkrish @victorkrish (1614) • Malaysia 20 Feb 12

I not sure that we must read a least 1o minutes per day. Do you think read is must daily or depends on person. And why we should read? Any interesting comment!!

read

read is must

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zip12ph hi victorkrish, well its not really a must to read everyday, it will depend on the person as to how much they want to enhanced their learning and to know more..as for me i read everyday specially the new paper, in this way i come to know what is happening...

20 Feb 12

Which would you prefer, being poor with honor or being rich but with dishonor?

airamtheb @airamtheb (370) 19 Feb 12

Nowadays, people are getting so materialistic they can afford to loss their honor as long as they have plenty of money to buy big houses, high end cars and live a luxurious lifestyle. Some rich people whose values have been...

poor but with honor

rich but with dishonor

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zip12ph I think i would rather be poor but with honor, cause being poor is a state of life that can be change, being poor is just temporary. through hard work and patience this can all be turn the other way.. as compared to living w/ dishonor, once this is attached to...

20 Feb 12

Real headache for me

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20162) • India 19 Feb 12

I am renovating one portion of my house the envious neighbors and some people are creating problem daily, on some issue or other. When I buy bricks, sand, chips, iron rods etc, it has to be kept on the street first next shifted to...

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zip12ph hi professor, i understand how you feel cause i experience this a lot of times, but the only thing is,it's not my neighbor but the relatives of my husband.They really envy on everything and try to pull me down. They don't steal things from me but they steal my...

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what the most funny / scary horror movie have ever seen ?

carolin1e @carolin1e (97) 19 Feb 12

hi mylotters ! as the title say : what's the most funny or scared horror movie have you ever seen ? for me there is just a lot of horror movie that it supposed to freaking me out but it just making me bursting into laughter...

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zip12ph hi carol, i'm not really into watching movies since i really don't have that much time,but i have seen this movie " The 3 Idiots" its an Indian movie, its really funny but the good thing about it is that it also provides lesson to viewers. have a nice one.

19 Feb 12

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Drinking coffee inside the chuch while listening to the mass??

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 18 Feb 12

I have observed this last time while i was attending the mass and I saw a woman who came in late while the mass was still going. She came in with a her Starbucks coffe and just stood there because the seat were already full. I'm...

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zip12ph Drinking coffee..wow..really? imagining this situation seems so hilarious at the same time inappropriate, well we are not really sure if this person is use to it but being a sane individual, even illiterate one knows what is wrong and right..maybe this person...

19 Feb 12

losing weight during pregnancy

Riette @Zorrogirl (1502) • South Africa 16 Feb 12

Good day to all. I am overweight and found out recently thet I am pregnant. I am plus size and have been with my first pregnancy, and It was extremely uncomfortable the first time around. I would love to feel a bit better this...

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zip12ph Hi Zorrogirl, Congratulations for your baby.. Losing weight during pregnancy is not really advisable since it may affect your child, the best thing to do now is to eat healthy foods and avoid foods with lots of calories. try to lower down on your carbo...

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the joy of climbing trees...

obe212003 @obe212003 (2299) • Philippines 15 Feb 12

yesterday, my sons were climbing an old tree just behind our house, they were shouting, laughing, and actually having fun. it made me reminisce how i really enjoy to be on top of a tree, just enjoying the view on top and really...

joy

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zip12ph hi..wow so nice to imagine on the feeling of being n tp f the tree..never did i experience doing it from childhood till now. i am really afraid of heights..i always imagine myself climbing and gathering fruits for myself, instead of buying some..but i do...

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