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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 2 Dec 06

Pretend for a moment that you have an amazing best friend. He has a girl-friend. It's an online/phone thing, and he's never actually met her. Now, you know that he can do so much better - she used to cut herself, is melodramatic...

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rms2727 If your friend is really all that keen and the girl is as bad as that, it is definitely needed that they should be apart. it can be a little harsh to tell him outright There this is good for them , but you must do so probably try to put it a bit convincingly...

24 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 2 Dec 06

Pretend for a moment that you have an amazing best friend. He has a girl-friend. It's an online/phone thing, and he's never actually met her. Now, you know that he can do so much better - she used to cut herself, is melodramatic...

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YoMomma1 well, i have never been in a similair position myself with a friend however i may be able to offer a bit of insight anyway. Your friend may be insecure, and this girl is showing him attention which takes minimal effort on his part because its online and over...

24 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 16 Nov 06

If you don't, would you want to? I know a lot of people who used to for a little while and then they stopped. I can't imagine a life without my violin. I've been playing for almost 10 years now, and it's become a part of me. It's...

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sirensanssmile I play he violin, Viola and cello. I a more particular about the cello though. I play it nearly everyday.

5 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 16 Nov 06

If you don't, would you want to? I know a lot of people who used to for a little while and then they stopped. I can't imagine a life without my violin. I've been playing for almost 10 years now, and it's become a part of me. It's...

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Shannon I played a little as a child until my orchestra teacher left the school. My aunt taught me for a little while but she moved away as well. I hadn't thought about it in years. Great memories. Thanks for bringing this up.

5 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 16 Nov 06

If you don't, would you want to? I know a lot of people who used to for a little while and then they stopped. I can't imagine a life without my violin. I've been playing for almost 10 years now, and it's become a part of me. It's...

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tmnjyk My grand father used to play violen, he was a member of a band in our small town in the Philippines before and that is how he made a living those days. He knew how to play every musical intrument, especially the violin, guitar, drums, etc. But he's gone now...

5 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 2 Dec 06

Pretend for a moment that you have an amazing best friend. He has a girl-friend. It's an online/phone thing, and he's never actually met her. Now, you know that he can do so much better - she used to cut herself, is melodramatic...

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euniceeleanor hmm...it's a dilemma..if im in your situation if he's indeed my best friend, i will tell him the truth and let him see the light. i have one guy good friend who was in the same position once and i was direct with him, outlining all the complete details..and i...

3 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 2 Dec 06

Pretend for a moment that you have an amazing best friend. He has a girl-friend. It's an online/phone thing, and he's never actually met her. Now, you know that he can do so much better - she used to cut herself, is melodramatic...

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arman9890 well i think its a very challengin gsituation for the person who needs to support that boy.. Lets take in other way.. If i am in that position i'll take him to some movie which he likes.. Then i would let him enjoy what ever he wants as he is little hurt he...

3 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 2 Dec 06

Pretend for a moment that you have an amazing best friend. He has a girl-friend. It's an online/phone thing, and he's never actually met her. Now, you know that he can do so much better - she used to cut herself, is melodramatic...

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joshdale08 oh-oh. talk about fools in love.... anyway, a person in this state of mind wouldn't listen to any advice. now if i was the friend, and he's used to my being nice and agreeable, i'd jolt him awake by being frank for once. but, that's me and you're in a better...

3 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 2 Dec 06

Pretend for a moment that you have an amazing best friend. He has a girl-friend. It's an online/phone thing, and he's never actually met her. Now, you know that he can do so much better - she used to cut herself, is melodramatic...

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sbeauty There's no easy way to tell someone who thinks they're in love that the object of their affection isn't the right person for them. I guess I wouldn't tell him anything. Just say that you know his relationship with this girl will turn out the way it was meant...

3 Dec 06

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heartonfire @heartonfire (4119) • Denmark 29 Nov 06

I am giving report abuse to any of those who respond to my discussions with yes,no,maybe ..or any other 1 or 2 words responses from now on...i am not accepting anyone as a friend unless they really have a good reason for choosing...

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heartonfire you see?they are the ignorants and they attack me for it lolll...

2 Dec 06

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heartonfire @heartonfire (4119) • Denmark 29 Nov 06

I am giving report abuse to any of those who respond to my discussions with yes,no,maybe ..or any other 1 or 2 words responses from now on...i am not accepting anyone as a friend unless they really have a good reason for choosing...

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heartonfire MYLOT SAIS I AM RIGHT,IF YOU BOTHERED TO READ THE RULES AND IF YOU BOTHERED AT ALL TO READ ALL OF MY DISCUSSIONS AND THOSE THAT I HAVE WITH MY FRIENDS,AND IF YOU BOTHERED TO READ WHAT I EXPLAINED YOU WOULDN'T HAVE THIS ATTITUDE..AND ANYWAYS I DON'T CARE...

2 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 2 Dec 06

Pretend for a moment that you have an amazing best friend. He has a girl-friend. It's an online/phone thing, and he's never actually met her. Now, you know that he can do so much better - she used to cut herself, is melodramatic...

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vipul20044 Hey buddy its better to give him hints rather than to spill all the beans in front of him You know, even if she cheats upon him that is gonna hurt for sure He truly loves her and probably he wont believe what you will say So its better for you to suggest...

2 Dec 06

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jamie11982 @jamie11982 (1658) • United States 2 Dec 06

Is it just me or are there crazy driver's out there? I think that alot of these peolpe really don't care if they smash up those 2006 or 2005 cars. People can't drive. Just the other day i almost got into a car accident behind a...

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brokentia @brokentia (10389) • United States 1 Dec 06

When something tastes bad, why do we instantly like to get another person to taste it also? You know you have done it..."Ewww, this tastes horrible! Here, taste this!" But silly us! We just heard the person say that it was...

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zuri25 @zuri25 (2125) • United States 30 Oct 06

There are a few questions about rape going around. It seems that many of the men that respond don't seem to think that they can get raped because they are male. What are your thoughts on this?

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zuri25 Very well said Aeval. Thanks for the post!

2 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 2 Dec 06

Pretend for a moment that you have an amazing best friend. He has a girl-friend. It's an online/phone thing, and he's never actually met her. Now, you know that he can do so much better - she used to cut herself, is melodramatic...

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sedel1027 It doesn't sound like he is going ot listen to you - regardless of what you say. I would stand by his side and be there to help him out when the relationship ends. If she is as bad as you say she is, he will see the light.

2 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 1 Dec 06

I just deleted a whole bunch of friends. Don't take this personally! I just want to have the long and random and interesting discussions in "discussions my friends have started." I'm not going to be accepting all friends...

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sbeauty I've been doing this, too. I only want the number of friends I can honestly devote time to.

2 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 1 Dec 06

I just deleted a whole bunch of friends. Don't take this personally! I just want to have the long and random and interesting discussions in "discussions my friends have started." I'm not going to be accepting all friends...

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loved1 I always check out the discussions people start and respond to when I am deciding whether or not to accept a friend. It just makes sense. You did the right thing and if they are offended, they are probably just in it for the money!

2 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 21 Nov 06

I see a lot of people asking about how to make more money online. Honestly, you're not going to make a lot of money from MyLot, but it's a really fun passtime for me. I want to tell you guys about Associated Content. They pay...

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review Hi AC'ers ... I looked at some of your articles, nice work! I just joined associated content a couple weeks ago ... and have several articles pending. I am averaging about $8 but that may go up with my clout index. I guess that is more than some people start....

2 Dec 06

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Aeval39 @Aeval39 (773) • United States 6 Nov 06

What college do you go to? What do you like it, and what would you rather they changed? I go to NYU and I like it okay, except for the fact that I need to go to 2 classes about a mile apart in less than 15 minutes.

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heartonfire i started college 3 times now and didn't get to finish it because my parents couldn't afford to pay for it so i had to work to pay it myself..and it's hard to support yourself but i hope this time i will go through and get my diploma...i am studying...

2 Dec 06

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