Bluefar

@Bluefar (21)

China • Age 60

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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fork and knife

abanerji @abanerji (1026) • India 28 Apr 09

hi friends! i have a bad habit of holding the knife in the left hand and the fork in my right hand. someone .just told me it is the wrong way to hold the knife and fork. is it that wrong or if someone si comfortable holding the...

fork and knife

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Bluefar If you feel comfortable, go ahead. When you are comfortable, you can enjoy your food. Forks & knives are only tools by which you take food. So, don't mind what others said and do as your ways.

28 Apr 09

Do you think you can make a good friendship online?

marguicha @marguicha (223893) • Chile 27 Apr 09

I have a wonderful canadian friend that I´ve never seen, except by pictures. We met online, playing at pogo. He started telling the people in the room about Canada and I thought he was interesting. We started e -ailing each other...

friends

relationships

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Bluefar It's depends on your luck. I have heard many stories about these. Some people cheated and Some people got the honest friendship. Certainly, you can talk with some people online with same characters. Gradually, you can develop a close relation. Maybe, you can...

27 Apr 09

giving up a job to pursue a dream

globetrotter1 @globetrotter1 (94) • Ireland 27 Apr 09

Well, maybe its a midlife crisis, but I am very tempted to give up my ( small, part time,unsatisfactory ) job to finally do what I always wanted and know I am good at: writing for a living! My mind is full of ideas and I...

writing for money

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Bluefar It is normal that people to persue his/her dreams. However he/she shall think it carefully before he/she make the decision to give up his/her job.

27 Apr 09

do you tell your friend if her man is cheating??

jane1981 @jane1981 (79) 26 Apr 09

my partner and i have some very good friends who are also a couple and we spend alot of our free time together. however i have recently found out that my partners friend is cheating on my friend and i am torn of what to do about...

friends

relationship

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Bluefar If you want to tell your friend truth, I suggest that you needn't tell him directly. You can plot a chance for your friend and let her to find out the truth by herself.

27 Apr 09

How many hours of sleep do you get??

Aprillynn1 @Aprillynn1 (225) • United States 26 Apr 09

I am just wondering myLotters... They say that you should get at least 8 hours of sleep a day. Are you getting your zzzzz's?? I love to sleep and be in my comfortable bed. I am sure to get seven or eight hours a day... How...

sleep

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Bluefar Every night, I try to go to bed 10 pm. But I am addicted to surf internet and always go to bed late. I have made decision to get enough sleep many time, but Everytime, I am failed. So, I am often in shortage of sleep and drowsy in daytime.

27 Apr 09

Good pay or enjoyable work environment?

Aprillynn1 @Aprillynn1 (225) • United States 25 Apr 09

I am curious... What is more important to you: A job that pays well or a job that you enjoy? Do you work at your current job because it pays well or because you like the job and work environment?? Personally, I think it is most...

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Bluefar Certainly, I prefer to a job which is good paid and enjoyed. It is better to comply with your hobbies. However, it is hard to find the offer like this. If you can find, you are lucky.

27 Apr 09

Is the recession affecting your shopping?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 26 Apr 09

I am sad that a number of my favorite goods the shops have stopped selling like the vegan biscuits that one supermarket used to have lots of. A shop called Woolworths that I used to really like has closed down. A deodorant that I...

credit crunch

recession

shopping

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Bluefar Sure, The recession of economy impact strongly my daily life and my mind. I gradually cut my daily budget. When I go shopping, I focus on the price more than before and consciously save more money to get through the difficult time.

26 Apr 09

Getting ready to go on vacation....

Bethany1202 @Bethany1202 (3431) • United States 23 Apr 09

So, tomorrow we have an afternoon flight because we're spending a week in Florida for our anniversary. I am getting ready to pack now, less than 24 hours in advance!!! My questions to everyone are: When vacationing, how far in...

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Bluefar For my trip, I will pack one night in advance. First, I will pack my important things and at last pack my personal items.

23 Apr 09

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did you ever tear your ex's photos?

qiao522 @qiao522 (449) • China 22 Apr 09

I just ended a serious relationship with the guy I really liked. It's been 5 or 6 years and it's sad. And I feel like even more painful if I go into details. Yesterday, I sold the computer he gave me and tore his photos,...

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Bluefar In our life, we have to experience happyness and sadness just like rose has to be showered the rain and to be shotted by sun. However, all of these are our road to go. Time will thins your memories. In future day, you will be happy to experience these.

23 Apr 09

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Which are the first three countries you have visited?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 23 Apr 09

Which are the first three countries that you have visited? Did you like those countries? What did you enjoy seeing? I visited France when I was a child. I loved seeing the attractive architecture and found the cobbled streets...

france

greece

netherlands

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Bluefar I had been to Russia for a work trip. I enjoyed to see the beautiful buildings in Moscow. I like the Russian food also, such as soup and fish.

23 Apr 09

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"Dirty Addiction"

Aprillynn1 @Aprillynn1 (225) • United States 22 Apr 09

Do you have an addictive personality?? Are you addicted to foods, smoking, playing on the internet. These are my "dirty addictions" (I will admit I omitted a few ;) Anyone care to share your "Dirty Addictions"?

5 responses

Bluefar I am addicted to surf internet webs. I often operate my computer until midnight but to go to bed. In the daytime, I am always sleepy.

23 Apr 09

laptops or desktop

starlight48 @starlight48 (40) • Canada 20 Apr 09

Which is the better computer a laptop or a desktop? I guess it depends on what you are doing. I like to play games and read my email so I like my laptop. Plus the convenience of being able to take my computer with me where ever I...

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Bluefar I think the laptop is the tendency of development. Because the laptop is energy saving and more convinient. I prefer to laptop.

20 Apr 09

What I Mean

Stormy @Little_Stormy (6883) • United States 20 Apr 09

I start very few serious discussions here... But I see so many misconceptions concerning depression that I would love to be able to clear up. I have suffered from depression for as far back as I can remember. and depression has...

depression

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Bluefar I experienced the same feelings before. I believed in that most of people are same as us. I have to overcome this depression. I recommend some way to beat it. One way is to walk outside of room. Another way is drink. So, there are many people of alcohol...

20 Apr 09